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ʻO ka hui ʻana me Carl Rogers ka huli ʻana o koʻu ola holoʻokoʻa. ʻAʻohe hanana ʻē aʻe i loko o ia mea i hoʻoikaika ikaika a maopopo i koʻu hopena pilikino a ʻoihana. I ka hāʻule o 1986, me 40 mau hoa hana, ua komo au i kahi hui kūkākūkā koʻikoʻi, i alakaʻi ʻia ma Moscow e ka luna alakaʻi o ka psychology humanistic, ʻo Carl Rogers. He mau lā ka lōʻihi o ka seminar, akā ua hoʻololi iaʻu, koʻu mau manaʻo, pili, ʻano. Ua hana ʻo ia me ka hui a i ka manawa like me aʻu, lohe a ʻike mai iaʻu, hāʻawi mai iaʻu i manawa e lilo ai iaʻu iho.
Ua manaʻo ʻo Carl Rogers e pono i kēlā me kēia kanaka ke nānā, mahalo a me ka ʻae ʻia. Ua lilo kēia mau loina o Rogers i kumu o kāna lāʻau lapaʻau, ʻo kāna "kūlana kanaka-centered approach" ma ka laulā. No kāna hana e pili ana i kēia mau manaʻo maʻalahi loa, ua koho ʻia ʻo Carl Rogers no ka Nobel Peace Prize ma 1987. Ua hiki mai ka lono o kēia iā ia i kona wā i make ai.
ʻO ka maikaʻi loa o ke kanaka o Carl Rogers, i koʻu manaʻo, aia ia i ka hiki iā ia ke hana me kona ʻano i ka hana paʻakikī o loko o ka lilo ʻana i homo humanus - he kanaka kanaka. No laila, ua wehe ʻo ia i nā poʻe he nui i ka "laboratory of humanism", kahi e ʻimi ai ka poʻe a pau e hoʻokumu mua iā ia iho, a laila ma ka pilina o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe pax humana - e hala ka honua kanaka.
ʻO kāna mau lā
- 1902: Hānau ʻia ma ke kaona ʻo Chicago.
- 1924-1931: Mahiai, hoʻonaʻauao theological, a laila - MS, Ph.D. ma ka hoʻonaʻauao mai ke Kulanui Kumu, Ke Kulanui ʻo Columbia.
- 1931: ʻO ke kanaka hoʻonaʻauao maʻi ma ke Keʻena Kōkua a nā keiki (Rochester).
- 1940-1957: Polopeka ma Ohio State University, a laila ma ke Kulanui o Chicago.
- 1946-1947: Pelekikena o ka American Psychological Association.
- 1956-1958: Pelekikena o ka American Academy of Psychotherapists.
- 1961: ʻO kekahi o nā mea i hoʻokumu i ka American Association for Humanistic Psychology.
- 1968: Wehe i ka Center for the Study of Man ma La Jolla, Kaleponi. 1969: ʻO kāna palapala Journey into Self, e pili ana i ka hana a kahi hui psychotherapy, lanakila ʻo ia i kahi Oscar.
- 1986: E alakaʻi i nā hui kamaʻilio koʻikoʻi me nā psychologists ma Moscow a me Tbilisi.
- Pepeluali 14, 1987: make ma La Jolla, Kaleponi.
ʻElima mau kī i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana:
Loaʻa i kēlā me kēia kanaka ka mana
"Loaʻa i nā kānaka a pau ka hiki ke kūkulu i ko lākou ola ma ke ʻano e hāʻawi ai iā lākou i ka ʻoluʻolu pilikino a i ka manawa like ke kūkulu ʻia i nā ʻōlelo pilikanaka." Kūleʻa nā kānaka e hoʻomohala i kahi ala maikaʻi. ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo e hana ʻia pēlā, akā hānau ʻia nā mea a pau me ka mana like. I kona wā kamaliʻi, ua ʻike ʻo Rogers i ka nui o ke ola kūlohelohe, ʻo ia hoʻi, ka ulu ʻana o nā pepeke. Malia paha, mahalo i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i kā lākou hoʻololi ʻana, ua hānau ʻia kāna kuhiakau e pili ana i ka hiki o ke kanaka, a ma hope i kākoʻo ʻia e ka hana psychotherapeutic a me ka noiʻi ʻepekema.
hoʻolohe i ka lohe
"ʻAʻole pili i ka hohonu a i ʻole ka pāpaʻu o ka mea a ke kanaka e kamaʻilio nei, hoʻolohe wau iā ia me ka nānā a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i hiki iaʻu." Nui kā mākou kamaʻilio ʻana, akā ʻaʻole hoʻolohe a lohe kekahi i kekahi. Akā, ʻo ka manaʻo o ka waiwai o kekahi, ʻo ka mea nui e ala mai i ka pane ʻana i ka manaʻo o kekahi kanaka iā mākou. Ke lohe ʻia mai mākou, wehe ʻia nā pale - moʻomeheu, hoʻomana, lāhui; he halawai kanaka me ke kanaka.
E hoʻomaopopo i ke kanaka ʻē aʻe
"ʻO kaʻu mea i ʻike nui ʻia e hana wau penei: Ua ʻike wau i ka waiwai nui o ka ʻae ʻana iaʻu iho e hoʻomaopopo i kekahi kanaka." ʻO ka pane mua i nā kānaka ka makemake e loiloi iā lākou. Kakaʻikahi mākou e ʻae iā mākou iho e hoʻomaopopo i ke ʻano o nā huaʻōlelo, nā manaʻo, nā manaʻoʻiʻo o kekahi kanaka iā ia. Akā ʻo kēia ʻano ʻano e kōkua i kekahi e ʻae iā ia iho a me kona mau manaʻo, e hoʻololi iā mākou iho, e hōʻike ana i kahi mea i hala mua iā mākou. He ʻoiaʻiʻo nō hoʻi kēia ma ka pilina psychotherapeutic: ʻaʻole ʻo nā ʻenehana psychological kūikawā ka mea e hoʻoholo ai, akā ʻo ka ʻae maikaʻi, nonjudgmental empathy a me ka hōʻike pilikino maoli o ka mea lapaʻau a me kāna mea kūʻai aku.
ʻO ka wehe ʻana he mea pono no nā pilina
"Mai koʻu ʻike me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ua hoʻoholo wau i loko o kahi pilina lōʻihi ʻaʻohe kumu o ka hoʻohālike ʻana he kanaka ʻaʻole wau." ʻAʻole kūpono ke hoʻohālike ʻana he aloha ʻoe inā he ʻenemi ʻoe, e ʻoluʻolu inā huhū ʻoe a koʻikoʻi. Lilo ka pilina, piha i ke ola a me ka manaʻo ke hoʻolohe mākou iā mākou iho, ua hāmama iā mākou iho a, no laila, i kahi hoa. ʻO ka maikaʻi o nā pilina kanaka e pili ana i ko mākou hiki ke ʻike i ko mākou ʻano, e ʻae iā mākou iho, ʻaʻole e hūnā ma hope o kahi mask - mai iā mākou iho a me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
E kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e hoʻomaikaʻi
ʻO ka hana ʻana i kahi lewa kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hōʻike ākea iā ʻoe iho, kou mau manaʻo, ʻo ia hoʻi, maikaʻi no ka hoʻomohala kanaka, he hana ʻaʻole wale no nā psychologists. Pono e lawelaweʻia e ka poʻe a pau iʻike i nāʻoihana pilikanaka, pono e hoʻonuiʻia e ka pilikino, kaʻohana, kaʻoihana - ma kahi hua'ōlelo, kekahi pilina kanaka. Hiki i kēlā me kēia o mākou ke kōkua i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kekahi kanaka e like me kāna mau manaʻo a me kāna mau pahuhopu.
Nā puke a me nā ʻatikala na Carl Rogers:
- ʻO ka nānā ʻana i ka psychotherapy. The Formation of Man” (Progress, Univers, 1994);
- "Ka aʻo a me ka psychotherapy" (Eksmo, 2000);
- "Kuokoa e aʻo" (Sense, 2002);
- "Ka mea pili i ka Client-centered approach in psychotherapy" (Nīnau o Psychology, 2001, No. 2).