I kekahi manawa me he mea lā ʻaʻohe hopena o nā nūhou maikaʻi ʻole ma nā pānaehana media. ʻO nā ulia mokulele a me nā pōʻino ʻē aʻe, nā ʻōlelo hoʻohiki i hoʻokō ʻole ʻia e ka poʻe kālai'āina, ke piʻi ʻana o nā kumukūʻai a me ke kūlana hoʻokele waiwai ... Me he mea lā ʻo ka mea kūpono loa ʻo ka pani wale ʻana iā Facebook a hoʻi mai ka honua virtual i ke ola maoli. Akā i kekahi manawa, no kekahi kumu a i ʻole, ʻaʻole hiki kēia. Eia nō naʻe, aia i ko mākou mana ke ʻimi i kahi "antidote" i ka nui o ka pūnaewele like. No ka laʻana, e nānā i nā kiʻi ... o nā holoholona pēpē.
ʻO ia "therapy" paha he mea ʻepekema ʻole, akā ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hōʻoia ʻia ka maikaʻi o kēia ala e nā hopena o ka noiʻi. Ke nānā mākou i kahi mea nani, emi ke kaumaha, piʻi ka huahana, a hiki i kēia hana ke hoʻoikaika i kā mākou male.
Ua wehewehe ʻia ke ʻano o ko mākou mau manaʻo e ka mea psychologist o Austrian ʻo Konrad Lorenz: hoihoi mākou i nā mea me nā poʻo nui, nā maka nui, nā papalina puʻupuʻu a me nā lae nui, no ka mea, hoʻomanaʻo mai lākou iā mākou i kā mākou pēpē ponoʻī. ʻO ka leʻaleʻa i hāʻawi ʻia e ko mākou mau kūpuna i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i kā lākou pēpē, ua mālama lākou i nā keiki. ʻO ia i kēia lā, akā ʻaʻole pili wale ko mākou aloha i nā keiki kanaka, akā i nā holoholona pū kekahi.
Ke aʻo nei ka mea noiʻi kamaʻilio lehulehu ʻo Jessica Gall Myrick i nā manaʻo i hoʻāla ʻia e nā holoholona ʻakaʻaka i loko o mākou, nā kiʻi a me nā wikiō a mākou e ʻike ai ma ka Pūnaewele, a ʻike mākou ua like mākou me ka pumehana me nā pēpē maoli. No ka lolo, ʻaʻohe mea ʻokoʻa. "ʻO ka nānā ʻana i nā wikiō o nā kittens e kōkua i nā kumuhana hoʻāʻo e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi: ʻike lākou i ka piʻi ʻana o nā manaʻo maikaʻi a me ka ikaika."
ʻO 7000 poʻe ka haʻawina a Myrick. Ua nīnauele ʻia lākou ma mua a ma hope o ka nānā ʻana i nā kiʻi a me nā wikiō me nā pōpoki, a ua ʻike ʻia ʻo ka lōʻihi o kou nānā ʻana iā lākou, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka hopena. Ua manaʻo ka poʻe ʻepekema ʻoiai ua hoʻāla nā kiʻi i nā manaʻo maikaʻi i nā kumuhana, manaʻo lākou i nā manaʻo like mai ka nānā ʻana i nā kiʻi like a me nā wikiō i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
Malia paha ua hiki i ka manawa e wehe i ka "waiwai a kaulana" a hahai i nā "influencers" huelo a huluhulu.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, kākau nā kānaka ʻepekema, ʻoi aku paha ka makemake o ka poʻe i makemake ʻole i nā holoholona e komo i ka haʻawina, hiki ke hoʻopilikia i nā hopena. Eia kekahi, ʻo 88% o ka laʻana i loaʻa i nā wahine e hoʻopā nui ʻia e nā keiki holoholona. Ma ke ala, ua ʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi ʻē aʻe ma hope o ka hōʻike ʻia ʻana o nā kumuhana i nā kiʻi o nā holoholona mahiʻai nani, ua emi ka makemake o nā wahine i ka ʻiʻo ma mua o nā kāne. Malia paha ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ma ke ʻano he kānāwai, ʻo nā wahine ke mālama i nā pēpē.
Ke alakaʻi nei ʻo Hiroshi Nittono, ka luna o ka Cognitive Psychophysiological Laboratory ma ke Kulanui o Osaka, i kekahi mau haʻawina e pili ana i ka "kawaii," he manaʻo e pili ana i nā mea nani, nani, nani. Wahi a ia, ʻo ka nānā ʻana i nā kiʻi "kawaii" he hopena pālua: ʻo ka mea mua, hoʻohuli iā mākou mai nā kūlana e hoʻoulu ai i ka luhi a me ke kaumaha, a ʻo ka lua, "hoʻomanaʻo iā mākou i ka mahana a me ke aloha - nā manaʻo i nele i ka hapa nui o mākou." "ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki ke loaʻa ka hopena like inā heluhelu ʻoe i nā puke ʻuhane a nānā paha i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni like, akā, ʻike ʻoe, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka manawa, ʻoiai ke nānā ʻana i nā kiʻi a me nā wikiō e kōkua koke i ka hoʻopiha ʻana i ka hakahaka."
Eia kekahi, hiki ke loaʻa ka hopena maikaʻi i nā pilina pili aloha. Ua ʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi 2017 i ka nānā ʻana o nā kāne i nā kiʻi o nā holoholona nani, pili nā manaʻo maikaʻi a lākou e kiʻi mai ka nānā ʻana me kā lākou hoa.
I ka manawa like, pono ʻoe e makaʻala i ke koho ʻana i nā kahua no ka nānā ʻana i ia mau kiʻi a me nā wikiō. No laila, ma muli o kahi noiʻi ʻē aʻe i hana ʻia ma 2017, ua ʻike ʻia ua hana ʻo Instagram iā mākou i ka pōʻino loa o ka naʻau, ma muli o ke ʻano o nā mea hoʻohana o kēia ʻoihana pūnaewele. Ke ʻike mākou i ke "ola maikaʻi o ka poʻe maikaʻi", lilo ka nui o lākou i ke kaumaha a me ka ʻino.
Akā ʻaʻole kēia he kumu e holoi ai i kāu moʻokāki. Malia paha ua hiki i ka manawa e wehe i ka "waiwai a kaulana" a kau inoa i ka "influencers" huelo a me ka huluhulu. A mahalo kou lolo iā ʻoe.