PSYchology

I kekahi manawa ua haki nā ʻohana. ʻAʻole kēia he pōʻino i nā manawa a pau, akā ʻo ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki i loko o kahi ʻohana piha ʻole ʻaʻole ia ke koho maikaʻi loa. He mea maikaʻi inā loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa e hana hou ai me kahi kanaka ʻē aʻe, he makuakāne hou a i ʻole he makuahine hou, akā pehea inā kūʻē ke keiki i nā mea "hou"? He aha ka mea e hana ai inā makemake ke keiki i ka makuahine e noho pū me kona makuakāne a ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe? A i ʻole no ka noho ʻana o ka makua me ka makuahine wale nō, ʻaʻole me kekahi ʻanakē ʻē aʻe ma waho ona?

No laila, ʻo ka moʻolelo maoli - a me kahi noi no kāna hoʻonā.


ʻO ka kamaʻilio ʻana me ke keiki a kaʻu kāne i hoʻokahi pule a me ka hapa i hala aku nei ua kūleʻa: he 4-hola hele ma ke kai me ka ʻauʻau ʻana a me kahi pikiniki he maʻalahi a mālama ʻole. He keiki maikaʻi ʻo Serezha, hāmama, hānai maikaʻi, lokomaikaʻi, maikaʻi kā mākou pilina me ia. A laila i ka hopena pule aʻe, ua hoʻonohonoho mākou i kahi huakaʻi ma waho o ke kūlanakauhale me nā hale lole - me koʻu mau hoaaloha a me nā hoaaloha o kaʻu kāne, lawe pū ʻo ia i kāna keiki me ia. ʻO kēia kahi i hanaʻia ai. ʻO ka mea ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo kaʻu kāne e pili mau ana iaʻu - ʻapo ʻo ia, honi, hōʻike mau i nā hōʻailona o ka nānā a me ka mālama aloha. Me he mea lā, ua ʻeha loa kēia i ke keiki, a i kekahi manawa ua holo wale ʻo ia mai o mākou aku i ka nahele. Ma mua o kēlā, aia mau ʻo ia ma laila, ʻakaʻaka, hoʻāʻo e apo i kona makuakāne ... a laila - ua piha ʻo ia i ka huhū, a holo ʻo ia.

Ua loaʻa koke iā mākou, akā hōʻole ʻo ia e kamaʻilio me ka makuakāne. Akā, hiki iaʻu ke hoʻokokoke aku iā ia a pūliki pū aku iā ia, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i kūʻē. ʻAʻohe huhū o Serezha iaʻu. Ua apo malie wale makou ia ia i ka nahele no hookahi hora a malie iho la. Ma hope o kēlā, hiki iā lākou ke kamaʻilio, ʻoiai ʻaʻole i hiki koke ke kamaʻilio me ia - hoʻohuli, aloha. A ma ʻaneʻi ua hōʻike ʻo Seryozha i nā mea a pau i hoʻolapalapa ʻia i loko ona: ʻaʻohe ona mea kūʻē iaʻu, ua manaʻo ʻo ia ua mālama maikaʻi wau iā ia, akā makemake ʻo ia ʻaʻole wau i laila. No ke aha mai? No ka mea, makemake ʻo ia e noho pū kona mau mākua a manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo ia hiki iā lāua ke hui hou. A inā wau e hana, a laila ʻaʻole hiki kēia.

ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka lohe ʻana i kēia ʻōlelo iaʻu, akā hiki iaʻu ke huki iaʻu iho a hoʻi pū mākou. Akā ʻo ka nīnau he aha ka hana i kēia manawa?


Ma hope o ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ka pilina, hāʻawi mākou i kahi kamaʻilio koʻikoʻi:

E Serezha, makemake ʻoe e hui pū kou mau mākua. Nui koʻu mahalo iā ʻoe no kēia: aloha ʻoe i kou mau mākua, mālama ʻoe iā lākou, akamai ʻoe. ʻAʻole ʻike nā keikikāne a pau i ke aloha i ko lākou mau mākua pēlā! Akā i kēia hihia, ua hewa ʻoe, ʻo ka mea e noho ai kou makuakāne ʻaʻole kāu nīnau. ʻAʻole kēia no nā keiki, akā no nā mākua. ʻO ka nīnau o ka mea e noho pū me ia e hoʻoholo wale ʻia e kou makuakāne, hoʻoholo ʻo ia iā ia iho. A ke lilo ʻoe i kanaka makua, e loaʻa iā ʻoe: me wai, me ka wahine āu e noho ai, e hoʻoholo ai ʻoe, ʻaʻole kāu mau keiki!

Pili kēia iaʻu. Maopopo iaʻu iā ʻoe, makemake ʻoe iaʻu e haʻalele i kou pilina me makuahine a me makuakāne. Akā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hana pēlā no ka mea aloha au iā ia a makemake ʻo ia e hui pū kāua. A inā makemake ʻo makuakāne e noho me aʻu, a makemake ʻoe i kahi ʻē aʻe, a laila, he mea nui ka ʻōlelo a kou makuakāne iaʻu. Pono e noho ka ʻohana, a hoʻomaka ka hoʻoponopono me ka mahalo i nā hoʻoholo a nā lunakahiko.

Sergei, pehea kou manao no keia? Pehea ʻoe e hoʻolālā ai i ka hoʻoholo a kou makuakāne?

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