ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻana iā ʻoe iho i kahi kapa ʻole - manaʻo

Hiki ke ʻoluʻolu nā moeʻuhane, a i ʻole hiki ke hilahila. No ke aha i moeʻuhane ai ʻo ka ʻōlohelohe? He hōʻailona maikaʻi paha kēia a ʻaʻole paha?

ʻAʻole paha makemake kekahi e hele i ke alanui e ʻike iā lākou iho me ka ʻaʻahu ʻole, ʻoiai inā ma ka moeʻuhane wale nō. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana iā ʻoe iho he ʻōlohelohe i ka moeʻuhane - he aha ia? No ka wehewehe pololei, e hoʻomanaʻo i nā kikoʻī o kāu i ʻike ai. Ma hea ʻoe i ʻike ai iā ʻoe iho me ke kapa ʻole? He aha kou manaʻo no ia mea? He aha ka manaʻo o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i kou helehelena?

E hoʻomanaʻo pū i nā hanana ma mua koke o ka moeʻuhane a me kou mau manaʻo i ka manawa like. E like me nā puke moe e haʻi iāʻoe,ʻo kaʻikeʻana iāʻoe iho he'ōlohelohe i loko o ka moeʻuhane e pili kokoke ana i nāʻano noʻonoʻo o kahi kaikamahine a wahine paha, kona mau manaʻolana, nā hopohopo a me nā hopohopo. Ma kahi o uXNUMXbuXNUMXʻike i nā manaʻo, pono ke ʻimi i kahi pane, ʻo ia hoʻi he moeʻuhane i ka pō.

Ua manaʻo ka mea ʻike Bulgarian ʻo ka ʻōlohelohe i mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma ka moeʻuhane a me ka manaʻo o ka hilahila a me ka makemake e peʻe ma hope e ʻōlelo ana i ka pono e noi aku i ke kala ʻana mai ka poʻe āu i hana hewa ai. Inā ma ke ola maoli ua hana ʻoe i nā hana ʻino he nui, a mai mihi ʻoe iā lākou, a laila ma hope o kēlā moeʻuhane, e manaʻo i ka pilikia kokoke. Inā he kanaka ʻoiaʻiʻo a haʻahaʻa ʻoe, a ua ʻike ʻoe i kāu mea i hana ai, a laila ke kali nei ke kala ʻana iā ʻoe. Inā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo he kanaka manaʻoʻiʻo ʻoe, a laila ke kali nei ka pohō nui iā ʻoe ma mua.

Wahi a ka puke moe a Miller, ma hope koke o kēlā moeʻuhane, pono ʻoe e hakakā me ʻoe iho. E hoʻowalewale ke ola iā ʻoe ma nā ʻano āpau, no laila e mākaukau e pale aku i nā hoʻowalewale a hōʻiliʻili i kou makemake āpau i kahi lima. ʻO kekahi wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻōlohelohe i loko o ka moeʻuhane he hakakā.

No ka hoʻomaopopo koke ʻana o ka wahine ma ka moeʻuhane he ʻōlohelohe ʻoe, a ke ʻimi nei i kahi mea e peʻe ai ma hope, e hōʻike ana e hoʻāʻo ʻoe e lanakila i kāu mau makemake kumu.

No ke kaikamahine e mahalo i kona kino'ōlohelohe i ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana e hoʻopuniʻiaʻo ia e ka manaʻo o nā kāne he nui, akā,ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke mālama i kāna mea i kohoʻia.

Inā ʻoluʻolu ʻole kahi kaikamahine i kona kino, a laila e huki koke ʻia ʻo ia i kahi kūlana hoʻomāinoino.

ʻO kaʻauʻauʻana i loko o ka moeʻuhane me ka'ōlohelohe i ka wai maʻemaʻe e'ōlelo ana eʻike i ke aloha kapu, no ka mea e hiki koke mai ana ka hoʻopaʻi.

ʻO kaʻikeʻana i ka moeʻuhane he nui nā kāne'ōlohelohe i ka wai maʻemaʻe e hoʻohiki i ka nui o nā mea pā.

ʻO ka moeʻuhane kahi e ʻauʻau ai kahi kaikamahine i ka wai lepo e hōʻike ana e hoʻolaha ke kāne i hōʻole ʻia i nā lono lepo e pili ana iā ia.

ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kou'ōlohelohe i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka maʻi a iʻole kaʻilihune. Hiki iā ia ke hōʻailona i kahi nohona dissolute. ʻO kahi mea aloha ʻole i ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i nā hakakā. Eʻike i kahi kanaka maikaʻi'ōlohelohe i ka moeʻuhane - i ka waiwai a me ke olakino.

Wahi a ka puke moe a Loff, ʻo ia ka moeʻuhane ʻo ia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e ʻike paha ʻoe i nā maʻi liʻiliʻi a ʻaʻole hoʻolohe iā lākou. He hewa kēia - ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kipa ʻana i ke kauka i ʻole ʻoe e loaʻa i nā maʻi koʻikoʻi ma hope

Wahi a ka puke moe a Nostradamus, ʻo ia moeʻuhane e aʻo i ka pōʻino.

No ke kanaka, e kū olohelohe ana ma ke alanui e moeʻuhane ana i ka hoʻonui ʻana i kona pōʻai kaiaulu, akā ʻo ka ʻōlohelohe ma ka home, ʻo ia ka hoʻomaha ʻana i kahi hui kāne.

No ka wahine mare e ʻike iā ia iho he olohelohe ma waho - e kumakaia i kāna kāne.

ʻO ke kanaka iʻike iā ia iho he'ōlohelohe i ka moeʻuhane e hoʻokokoke ana i ka maʻi a me nā pilikia koʻikoʻi. Ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi manawa e holo olohelohe - i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, pono e hoʻomākaukau kekahi no ka deterioration o nā pilina aloha.

ʻO kaʻikeʻana iāʻoe iho he'ōlohelohe i loko o ka moeʻuhane e like me ka puke moe esoteric he maʻi āu e makemake ai e hūnā.

ʻIke i ka nui o ka poʻe ʻōlohelohe - i ke kaua a i ʻole ka make i kahi pōʻino.

Nā keiki - i ka nalowale o nā mea aloha.

Wahi a ka puke moemoeā Islam, ʻo ia moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i kahi hakakā me nā mea aloha.

ʻO ka'ōlohelohe i loko o ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka hilahila a me ka hilahila. ʻO ka'ōlohelohe i loko o ka moeʻuhane ma kahi kūponoʻole,ʻo ia hoʻi ka manaʻo "'ōlohelohe" a "hoʻopauʻia" i mua o nā kānaka. ʻO kekahi o ka wehewehe ʻana, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ke kau pinepine nei ʻoe i ka hilahila, ka hilahila a me ka pono e "uhi i kou ʻōlohelohe". Makaʻu ʻoe i kahi kūlana e kūkākūkā ai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i kāu mau hana a hoʻokolokolo iā lākou. He kanaka paʻakikī paha kēia.

ʻO kahi wehewehe ʻē aʻe o ka moeʻuhane o ke kapa ʻole i ka moeʻuhane he mea maoli kāu e hilahila ai i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. A laila, ʻo kahi moeʻuhane āu e hilahila ai ke ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho he olohelohe ma kahi ākea e hōʻike ana i kou makaʻu i ka ʻike ʻia.

ʻO ka nele o nā lole i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike pū ana i kahi kūlana hopohopo. ʻO ka ʻōlohelohe i mua o ka poʻe ma ka moeʻuhane hiki ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke ʻano hopohopo ma mua o kahi hanana nui. Malia paha e ʻōlelo ʻoe i ka lehulehu, e hana i kahi hōʻike ma ka hana, e lawe i kahi hoʻokolokolo ma mua o ke komisina a i ʻole e komo i nā hoʻokūkū, a makaʻu ʻoe i ka hāʻule. E manaʻoʻiʻo i kou hiki, e ho'āʻo e hoʻomaha a hoʻomākaukau maikaʻi no ka hanana e hiki mai ana, a laila e holo nā mea a pau!

No ka ʻike ʻana o kahi kaikamahine ʻōpio iā ia iho he ʻōlohelohe i loko o ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ia ka makaʻu o ka hoʻomaopopo ʻole ʻia a ʻakaʻaka paha i waena o kāna mau hoa. Hōʻike paha ia i ka makemake e hūnā i nā manaʻo maoli a me nā manaʻo mai kona mau mākua no ka makaʻu i kā lākou ʻae ʻole. ʻO kekahi wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hoʻopuni ʻia ʻoe e ka poʻe i ʻae ʻole i kā lākou ʻano, akā no ka makaʻu o ka hōʻole ʻia, hūnā ʻoe i kou manaʻo. Ponoʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i kēlā mau makaʻu e hoʻopilikia i ka uluʻana o kouʻano a me kouʻano holoʻokoʻa. Mai makaʻu ʻoe iā ʻoe iho.

ʻO ka'ōlohelohe i loko o ka moeʻuhane no kahi kaikamahine'ōpio hiki ke manaʻo i ka makaʻu i ka pilina. ʻO ka pinepine, ʻike ʻia kēlā moeʻuhane e nā kaikamahine i ka wā ʻōpio a me ka ʻike ʻana i kā lākou moekolohe.

ʻO kaʻikeʻana iāʻoe iho he wahine'ōlohelohe i ka moeʻuhane hiki ke manaʻo i ka makemake e hoʻokuʻu iāʻoe iho a pakele mai ke ola maʻamau. Malia paha, ma lalo o ke kaumaha o nā hopohopo a me nā kuleana o kēlā me kēia lā, ua poina ʻoe iā ʻoe iho. Paipai ka moeʻuhane iā ʻoe e hoʻolei i nā kaulahao pono ʻole, e hoʻi i kahi kūlana hoʻomaha kūlohelohe a hoʻomaha. Ināʻikeʻoe iāʻoe iho he'ōlohelohe i ka moeʻuhane wale nō mai ke kua,ʻo ia hoʻi ka nalowale o ka ikaika o loko. ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka ʻike ʻana iā ʻoe iho me kahi kapa ʻōlelo pū kekahi i ka wā e hiki mai ana ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e aʻo i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a hāʻawi kālā paha. ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kahi kanaka'ōlohelohe i loko o kou hale ma ka moeʻuhane e hoʻohiki e hālāwai me kahi mea aloha. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana iā ʻoe iho i kahi kapa ʻauʻau e hōʻike ana i ka male mua ʻana, a no nā wahine mare, ka maʻi o ke kāne.

Inā moeʻuhane ʻoe e holo olohelohe ana, hōʻike kēia i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo pono ʻoe e haʻalele i kou wahi hōʻoluʻolu. Hōʻike kēlā moeʻuhane i ka makaʻu i ka mea i ʻike ʻole ʻia. E hoʻomanaʻo i ke komo ʻana i nā kūlana hou, ma kahi ʻē aʻe, hoʻonui i kou mau manawa a hoʻonui i kou mau ʻike, pono ʻoe e loaʻa ka wiwo ʻole i ʻole e hoʻi hope.

ʻO ka moeʻuhane āu e olohelohe ai ma kahakai, i loko o ka ululāʻau ma waena o nā kumulāʻau, aiʻole ma kahi o ka hui o nā poʻe'ōlohelohe'ē aʻe, e hōʻike ana e loaʻaʻoe iāʻoe iho i kahi kūlana pilikia, akā,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hoʻokahi i loko. E kākoʻo ʻia a mālama ʻia ʻoe.

ʻO ka ʻauʻau ʻana i loko o ka loko wai hiki ke hōʻike i ke olakino maikaʻi.

ʻO kaʻikeʻana iāʻoe iho he'ōlohelohe i waena o nā holoholona ma ka moeʻuhane e hoʻohiki i kahi hālāwai me nā poʻe like. Ma kā lākou hui eʻoluʻolu a hoʻomahaʻoe.

No ka olohelohe me ke keiki, he ulia paha ka make o ka mea aloha.

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi pandemonium o ka poʻe ʻōlohelohe he hōʻailona maikaʻi ʻole. E makaʻala i nā pōʻino, nā ulia kaʻa, hiki i nā mea aloha ke loaʻa iā lākou.

No kaʻaʻahuʻole i kahi mehameha, kahi mālie - e hoʻokō i ka lokahi, loaʻa ka maluhia o ka noʻonoʻo, ke kaulike.

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana iā ʻoe iho i kahi kapa ʻole ma ka home a i ka manawa like me ka manaʻo o ka hōʻoluʻolu he moeʻuhane ia e hauʻoli ai ʻoe me kou ʻohana. ʻAʻole ʻoe i nele i ke kākoʻo a me ka mālama. Aloha kāu poʻe aloha iā ʻoe no kou ʻano maoli, a ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻohālike he mea ʻē aʻe. Eia kekahi, hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i nā pilina ʻohana ikaika.

Inā pilikia ka manaʻo o ka'ōlohelohe i loko o ka hale, a laila, ma keʻano'ē aʻe,ʻaʻoleʻoe e manaʻo kokoke a hilinaʻi i kaʻohana. Ua koi ʻia ʻoe e hūnā i kou mau manaʻo mai nā mea aloha, makaʻu i nā hakakā a me nā hōʻino. Hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i nā kuʻikahi ʻohana.

ʻO ka moeʻuhane āu e aʻo ai i kou kino ʻōlohelohe i mua o ke aniani e hōʻike ana he pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo a hoʻomaopopo iā ʻoe iho. Ke kau nei ʻoe i kou manaʻo ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe? A i ʻole ʻoe e hāʻawi nui i ka manaʻo o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe? Ke ʻimi nei paha ʻoe i kiʻi hou.

Ināʻikeʻoe iāʻoe iho he'ōlohelohe ma ke alanui,ʻo ia moeʻuhane e haʻi iāʻoe e pili ana i kou pilina me nā poʻe'ē aʻe. Inā ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e peʻe a peʻe i ka wā hiki loa, ʻo ia hoʻi kou hopohopo e hoʻokokoke aku i nā poʻe hou. Inā ma ka moeʻuhane i loko o ia kūlana e manaʻoʻiʻo ʻoe i ka hilinaʻi, a laila, ma ke ʻano ʻē, he kanaka wehe ʻoe, hiki koke ʻoe i kahi kokoke i nā poʻe hou.

Inā ʻaʻole i hoʻolohe nā poʻe ʻē aʻe iā ʻoe, a laila ʻike ʻoe i ka nele. Manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole lākou e ʻike iā ʻoe. Hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i ka wā e hiki mai ana e hoʻopau ʻoe i ka hana ma kahi papahana koʻikoʻi, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe e loaʻa i ka paipai ʻana no kēia. Pono ʻoe e loaʻa ka hilinaʻi a hōʻoia iā ʻoe iho, i ʻole e hoʻomau ʻia ʻoe e mālama ʻole ʻia a hoʻonele ʻia i ka mahalo āu e pono ai.

Inā ʻakaʻaka mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe iā ʻoe, he hōʻailona kēia o ka hōʻeha koke. E kumakaia ʻia ʻoe a hoʻopunipuni ʻia paha, kahi e hōʻeha nui ai iā ʻoe a hiki ke hoʻoulu i ke kaumaha. He hōʻailona paha ia moeʻuhane i ka makaʻu e hoʻohenehene ʻia kou mau hemahema i ka lehulehu. ʻO ka hoʻohenehene ʻia ma ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ia hoʻi ke ʻano maoli i loko o kahi kūlana kaumaha loa.

Inā moeʻuhaneʻoe e nānā ana nā mea'ē aʻe iāʻoe a nānā paha iāʻoe,ʻo ia hoʻi ka makaʻu o ka nohoʻana i ke kukui. Ma ke ola maoli, hilahila ʻoe i ka ʻike ʻana, e hoʻāʻo nei e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe. Hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike e hiki koke ana ʻoe i nā manaʻo huikau. Inā kuhikuhi lākou i kou manamana lima iā ʻoe, a laila e haʻi koke kekahi i kāu mau mea huna a me nā mea huna.

E komo i loko o kahi hui wehe 'ole - e lilo koke i mea komo i kahi hanana i mana'o 'ole e lawe mai i nā loli nui. Ke hoʻokō ʻia ka hana i ka ʻike ʻana o kekahi poʻe, a laila manaʻo ka mea moeʻuhane i kahi pilina mehana a hilinaʻi ma waena o nā ʻohana.

ʻO kaʻauʻau me kaʻaʻahuʻole - e manaʻo i kou aloha, e kokoke mai ana. Manaʻo e ʻauʻau ma luna o nā nalu o ka palupalu a me ke kuko, e ʻoluʻolu loa ia no nā wahine male male ʻole.

Panina

ʻO ka ʻōlohelohe i loko o ka moeʻuhane ʻo ia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ke manaʻo nei ʻoe i ke ʻano o ka nāwaliwali. He mea kūpono ke nīnau iā ʻoe iho i ka nīnau, ua nui kou makaʻu i ke ola maoli? ʻO ka makaʻala he mea maʻamau a maikaʻi hoʻi. Akā ʻo ka makaʻu i hana ʻia e ka kānalua ponoʻī e alakaʻi i nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole. E hilinaʻi i kou hiki, manaʻoʻiʻo iā ʻoe iho, a laila manaʻoʻiʻo kekahi iā ʻoe.

Ma ka lā 9 o Nowemapa, ua hoʻomaka ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka moʻolelo "Onlife" - kahi hoʻomau o ka moʻolelo kaulana "Instalife" e pili ana i ʻelima mau hoaaloha virtual, ka mea i kēia manawa e hoʻoholo e hoʻohauʻoli i ko lākou ola i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole wale ma nā pūnaewele. 

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