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Hanau home ma ka hana
Hānau ʻia ma ka home, me ka hoʻoweliweli piha, me kāu pale keiki a ʻoiaʻiʻo hoʻi ka makuakāne. O ia wale nō. Hoʻopiʻi kēia manaʻo i nā makuahine e hiki mai ana. No ka hana ʻana i kēia hoʻoholo ʻike, pono ʻoe e ʻike mua pehea e hele ai kahi hānau home.
Pono nā mākua i ka wā e hiki mai ana e hoʻoikaika a hoʻomaopopo. No laila, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kamaʻilio mua ʻana me ka wahine, i mea e noʻonoʻo pū ai i kēia hānau ʻana. Ma ka ʻike ʻana e koi ʻia paha kekahi, i kekahi manawa a i ʻole, e hele e hānau i loko o kahi haukapila hānai. ʻO ka mea mua: e ʻimi ma kahi kokoke i ka home ʻO ka pale keiki liberal a i ʻole ke kauka nāna i hānau ma ka home, a nāna i lawe i ka ʻinikua e pono ai. I kekahi mau ʻāina, hiki ke hana i kēia. ʻO ka hoʻolālā maikaʻi loa: ʻōlelo o ka waha… Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokaʻaʻike i kahi pale keiki liberal. Hiki iā ia ke kuhikuhi iā mākou i kekahi o kona mau kaikuahine, a i ʻole ke kauka, nāna e hāʻawi i nā hānau hānau ma ka home.
No ka hoʻokō ʻana i kēia papahana a no kēia hānau ʻana i kahi kūlana maikaʻi loa, pono ka pale keiki i koho ʻia e hoʻoulu i ka hilinaʻi piha, pono ia. ʻOiai ʻaʻole loaʻa iā mākou kahi epidural. Ma kāna ʻaoʻao, pono e ʻike ka ʻoihana i ke kākoʻo o ka kāne a hoʻolohe iā lākou.
ʻO ka mālama lapaʻau no ka hānau ʻana ma ka home
Mai ka nīnauele mua, pono e haʻi ka pale keiki i nā mākua e hiki mai ana nā kūlana a pau e hiki ʻole ai ke hānau ma ka home. Pono e hoʻokuʻu ʻia inā he ʻōpū māhoe, hōʻike breech, hoʻoweliweli i ka hānau mua ʻana, ka moʻolelo o ka ʻāpana cesarean, hypertension a i ʻole ka maʻi diabetes o ka makuahine. I kēia hihia, pono ka wahine a me kāna pēpē i ka nānā ʻana i nā lāʻau lapaʻau koʻikoʻi a me ka mālama kūikawā pono e hāʻawi ʻia i ka haukapila. E like me ka maternity ward, ka makuahine-to-be kuleana i ka malama kūkākūkā, mau ma kahi o hoʻokahi hola, a ma ka liʻiliʻi loa ekolu ultrasounds. Aia nō hoʻi ia i nā hoʻokolohua screening mandatory a hōʻoia ʻia: toxoplasmosis, rubella, hui koko, hōʻailona serum… Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻohe lāʻau lapaʻau nui a i ʻole ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i nā hoʻokolohua. No ka hoʻomākaukau ʻana no ka hānau ʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke koho e hana me kahi pale keiki ʻē aʻe inā makemake ʻoe.
ʻO ka lā hānau o ka home
Hoʻomākaukau mākou i nā mea a pau ma ka home. I ka hōʻea ʻana, pono ka pale keiki i kahi pā moena plastik, nā kāwele terrycloth a me kahi kīʻaha. No ke koena, ʻaʻole mākou hopohopo i kekahi mea. Ke kāhea koke mākou, e hui pū ʻo ia me mākou me kāna mau lako ponoʻī, me ka nānā ʻana e hoʻolohe i ka puʻuwai o ka pēpē. Aia mākou ma ka home, no laila hiki iā mākou ke koho i ke keʻena a me ke kūlana a mākou e makemake ai e hānau. Aia ka pale keiki ma ko mākou ʻaoʻao e kākoʻo iā mākou, aʻo a hele pū me mākou, me ka mālama pono ʻana i ka holo ʻana o ka hānau ʻana. Hiki iā ia ke noi i ko mākou hoʻololi ʻana i kahi haukapila hānai inā loaʻa ka pilikia. Ma ko mākou ʻaoʻao, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻololi i ko mākou manaʻo a hiki i ka minuke hope.
I hiki ai i ka hānau keiki ke hana mau i ka wā o ka pilikia, a e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i ko mākou olakino a me kā mākou keiki, ʻo ka pale keiki ka mea maʻamau. he aelike me ka halema'i makuahine kokoke. He mea nui kēia i hiki ke loaʻa iā mākou i nā kūlana maikaʻi loa inā ʻaʻole hiki ke hana ʻia ka hānau ʻana ma ka home.
Nā lā ma hope o ka hānau ʻana
ʻAʻole ma ka home e hoʻomaka koke i kā mākou mau hana. Pono ka makuakāne e noho ma ka home no ka liʻiliʻi o hoʻokahi pule e "hoʻololi" iā mākou a mālama i nā hana o ka hale. Hāʻawi ka pale keiki iā mākou i kāna helu kelepona, hiki iā mākou ke kelepona iā ia inā pilikia. Hele mai ʻo ia e kipa iā mākou i kēlā me kēia lā no 3 a 4 mau lā, a laila i kēlā me kēia ʻelua a ʻekolu mau lā ma hope mai, e hōʻoia i ka maikaʻi o nā mea a pau, no ka pēpē a me mākou.
Hānau home: ehia ke kumu kūʻai?
ʻO ka hānau ʻana ma ka home ke kumu kūʻai uʻoi aku ka nui o ke kumukūʻai ma mua o ka hānau ʻana ma kahi hānai lehulehue, akā, emi iho ma mua o ka ʻoihana kūʻokoʻa. Hoʻololi kekahi mau pale keiki i kā lākou uku i ka loaʻa kālā o nā kāne. Ma ka laulā, aia ma waena o 750 a me 1200 euros no ka hānau ʻana, kahi o 313 euros i uhi ʻia e Social Security. E hōʻoia me kāu hui ʻinikua like, e uhi pono ana i nā uku keu.