Baby IVF: Pono mākou e haʻi i nā keiki?

IVF: ka hōʻike ʻana o ka hāpai ʻana i ke keiki

ʻAʻole i kānalua ʻo Florence e hōʻike i kāna mau māhoe i ke ʻano o ko lāua hāpai ʻana. ” Noʻu he mea maʻamau ka haʻi ʻana iā lākou, ua hoʻomaopopo lākou ua loaʻa iā mākou kahi kōkua liʻiliʻi mai ka lāʻau lapaʻau e kiʻi iā lākou », Haʻiʻike i kēia makuahine ʻōpio. No ia, e like me ka nui o nā mākua ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole pilikia ka hōʻike e pili ana i ke ʻano hoʻolālā. Hoʻohewa ikaika ʻia i kona hoʻomaka ʻana, ua komo ʻo IVF i ka noʻonoʻo. He ʻoiaʻiʻo i loko o 20 mau makahiki, ua lilo nā ʻenehana o ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka lāʻau lapaʻau (MAP) i mea maʻamau. Ke hāpai ʻia nei kekahi mau pēpē 350 i kēlā me kēia makahiki ma o ka in vitro fertilization, a i ʻole 000% o nā pēpē 0,3 miliona i hānau ʻia ma ka honua holoʻokoʻa. He mooolelo! 

ʻO ke ʻano o ka hānau ʻana o ke keiki…

ʻAʻole like nā stake no nā keiki i hānau ʻia mai ka makua inoa ʻole. Ua ulu nui ka hana hou ʻana ma o ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka sperm a i ʻole oocytes i nā makahiki i hala iho nei. Ma nā hihia a pau, ʻaʻohe inoa ka hāʻawi. ʻO ke kānāwai Bioethics o 1994, i hoʻopaʻa ʻia ma 2011, ʻoiaʻiʻo e hōʻoia i ka inoa ʻole o ka hāʻawi gamete. ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia ka mea hāʻawi i ka huakaʻi o kāna hāʻawi a, ʻo ia hoʻi: ʻaʻole hiki i nā mākua a me ke keiki ke ʻike i ke ʻano o ka mea hāʻawi. I kēia mau kūlana, hōʻike a ʻaʻole paha i ke ʻano o ka hāpai ʻana i kāna keiki he kumu mau no ka ninau ma ka aoao o na makua. E ʻike i kou kumu, kou moʻolelo ʻohana mea nui e kukulu. Akā ʻo ka ʻike wale nō e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka hāpai ʻana i lawa e hoʻokō ai i kēia pono no ka ʻike?

IVF: huna ia? 

I ka wā ma mua, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e ʻōlelo i kekahi mea. Akā i kekahi lā a i ʻole, ua ʻike ke keiki i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, he mea huna wehe. "Aia mau kekahi i ʻike. ʻO ka nīnau o nā mea like i kekahi manawa he kuleana, ʻo ke keiki ponoʻī ka manaʻo i kekahi mea. », Underlines the psychoanalyst Genevieve Delaisi, specialist in questions of bioethics. Ma kēia mau kūlana, ua hana pinepine ʻia ka hōʻike ʻana i ka wā hakakā. I ka wā i hewa ʻole ai ka hemo ʻana, ua hōʻino ka makuahine i kāna kāne mua ʻaʻole ʻo ia ka "makua" o kāna mau keiki. Ua haʻi aku kekahi ʻanakala ma kona wahi moe…

Inā ho'āla ka hoʻolaha i ke keiki, he haʻalulu noʻonoʻo, ʻoi aku ka ikaika inā aʻo ʻo ia i ka manawa o ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻohana. “ʻAʻole maopopo i ke keiki ua hūnā ʻia iā ia no ka manawa lōʻihi, ʻo ia hoʻi he mea hilahila kāna moʻolelo. », Hoʻohui i ka psychoanalyst.

IVF: haʻi i ke keiki, akā pehea? 

Mai ia manawa, ua ulu ka noʻonoʻo. Ua ʻōlelo ʻia nā kāne ʻaʻole e hūnā i nā mea huna a puni ke keiki. Inā nīnau ʻo ia e pili ana i kona hānau ʻana, e pili ana i kona ʻohana, pono e hiki i nā mākua ke hāʻawi iā ia i nā pane. "ʻO kāna ʻano hana hoʻolālā he ʻāpana o kāna mōʻaukala, pono e hoʻomaopopo ʻia i ka ʻike piha," wahi a Pierre Jouannet, ke poʻo mua o CECOS.

ʻAe, akā pehea lā e ʻōlelo ai? ʻO ka mua nā mākua e lawe i ke kuleana no ke kūlana, inā ʻaʻole lākou e ʻoluʻolu i kēia nīnau no ka hoʻomaka ʻana, inā e ʻōlelo ʻo ia i kahi ʻeha, a laila ʻaʻole hiki ke hele maikaʻi ka leka. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻohe mea hana mana. E noho haʻahaʻa, e wehewehe i ke kumu i noi ai mākou no ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā gametes. No ka makahiki, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka pale ʻana i ka wā ʻōpio, ʻo ia ka wā palupalu nā keiki. ” He nui nā mākua ʻōpio e ʻōlelo i ke kakahiaka nui ke 3 a 4 paha makahiki o ke keiki.. Ua hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaopopo. ʻO nā kāne ʻē aʻe e makemake e kali a hiki i ka wā makua a i ʻole ka ʻelemakule e lilo i mau mākua. "

Eia naʻe, lawa anei kēia ʻike wale nō? Ma kēia wahi, ʻo ke kānāwai, maopopo loa, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i ka inoa ʻole o nā mea hāʻawi. No Genevieve Delaisi, hana kēia ʻōnaehana i ka huhū i ke keiki. "He mea nui e haʻi aku iā ia i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā ʻaʻole ia e hoʻololi i ka pilikia, no ka mea, ʻo kāna nīnau aʻe, ʻo wai kēia?' A laila hiki wale i nā mākua ke pane i ka ʻike ʻole. ” 

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