ʻO Zentia (35 makahiki), ʻo ia ka makuahine o Zoe (5 mau makahiki) a me Harlan (3 mau makahiki). Ua noho ʻo ia ma Farani no ʻekolu mau makahiki me kāna kāne ʻo Laurent, ʻo ia ka Farani. Ua hānau ʻia ʻo ia ma Pretoria kahi i ulu ai. He urologist ʻo ia. Hōʻike ʻo ia iā mākou i ka ʻike ʻana o nā wahine i ko lākou makuahine ma ʻApelika Hema, kona ʻāina hānau.
ʻO ka hōʻike a Zentia, ka makuahine o ʻApelika Hema o 2 mau keiki
"'ʻŌlelo Farani wale kāu keiki?', Pīhoihoi mau kaʻu mau hoaaloha o ʻApelika Hema. ke kamaʻilio pū lākou me ko mākou mau hoa ma Farani. Aia ma ʻApelika Hema he ʻumikūmākahi mau ʻōlelo aupuni a ua mākaukau nā kānaka a pau ma kahi o ʻelua a ʻekolu paha. ʻO wau, no ka laʻana, ʻōlelo Pelekania me koʻu makuahine, Kelemānia me koʻu makuakāne, ʻApelika me koʻu mau hoaaloha. Ma hope mai, i koʻu hana ʻana i ka haukapila, ua aʻo au i nā manaʻo o Zulu a me Sotho, nā ʻōlelo ʻelua i hoʻohana nui ʻia ma ʻApelika. Me kaʻu mau keiki, ʻōlelo Kelemānia au e mālama i ka hoʻoilina o koʻu makuakāne.
IPono e ʻōlelo ʻia e noho mau ana ʻo ʻApelika Hema, ʻoiai ka pau ʻana o ka apartheid (hoʻokumu ʻia ke aupuni hoʻokae lāhui a hiki i ka makahiki 1994), akā naʻe, ua māhele ʻia. Noho kaʻawale ka poʻe Pelekania, ʻApelika a me ʻApelika, he kakaikahi nā kāne hui pū. Nui ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka poʻe waiwai a me ka poʻe ʻilihune, ʻaʻole like ia ma ʻEulopa kahi e hui ai nā poʻe mai nā ʻano nohona like ʻole ma ke kaiāulu like. I koʻu wā liʻiliʻi, noho kaʻawale nā keʻokeʻo a me nā ʻeleʻele. Ma nā kaiāulu, ma nā kula, ma nā halemai - ma nā wahi a pau. 'A'ole 'ae 'ia ka hui 'ana, a he wahine 'ele'ele i loa'a ke keiki me ka hale pa'ahao ke'oke'o. ʻO kēia mau mea a pau ke ʻike nei ʻo ʻApelika Hema i kahi mahele maoli, aia kēlā me kēia me kāna moʻomeheu, kāna moʻomeheu a me kāna mōʻaukala. Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei au i ka lā i koho ʻia ai ʻo Nelson Mandela. He hauʻoli maoli nō ia, ʻoiai ʻaʻohe kula a hiki iaʻu ke pāʻani me kaʻu Barbies i ka lā a pau! ʻO nā makahiki o ka hana hoʻomāinoino ma mua o ia mea i hōʻailona nui iaʻu, ua noʻonoʻo mau wau e hoʻouka ʻia mākou e kekahi mea paʻa me kahi Kalashnikov.
E hoʻomaha i ka colic i nā pēpē o ʻApelika Hema
Hāʻawi ʻia nā pēpē i ke kī rooibos (ke kī ʻulaʻula me ka ʻole o ia), nona nā waiwai antioxidant a hiki ke hoʻomaha i ka colic. Inu nā pēpē i kēia infusion mai 4 mahina.
Ua ulu au ma kahi kaiāulu keʻokeʻo, ma waena o ka poʻe Pelekania a me ka poʻe Afrikaners. Ma Pretoria, kahi aʻu i hānau ai, maikaʻi mau ke ʻano (i ka hoʻoilo he 18 ° C, i ke kauwela 30 ° C) a aia ke ʻano maoli. He hale nui ko nā keiki a pau o koʻu kaiāulu me ka māla a me ka loko wai, a ua lōʻihi ko mākou manawa ma waho. He kakaikahi loa na hana a na makua no makou, oi aku ka nui o na makuahine i hui pu me na makuahine e ae e kamailio, a hahai na keiki. Pela mau! Ua hoʻomaha loa nā makuahine o ʻApelika Hema a ua nui ka manawa me kā lākou mau keiki. Pono e ʻōlelo ʻia e hoʻomaka ana ke kula i ka makahiki 7, ma mua, ʻo ia ka "kindergarten" (kindergarten), akā ʻaʻole ia he koʻikoʻi e like me Farani. Ua hele au i ke kula kindergarten i koʻu mau makahiki 4, akā ʻelua wale nō lā o ka pule a i ke kakahiaka wale nō. ʻAʻole hana koʻu makuahine i nā makahiki ʻehā mua a he mea maʻamau kēlā, a paipai ʻia e ka ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha. I kēia manawa ke hoʻi wikiwiki nei nā makuahine i ka hana, a he loli nui kēia i kā mākou moʻomeheu no ka mea he conservative ka hui o ʻApelika Hema. Pau ke kula i ka hola 13 pm, no laila, inā e hana ana ka makuahine, pono ʻo ia e ʻimi i kahu hānai, akā ma ʻApelika Hema he mea maʻamau a ʻaʻohe kumu kūʻai. ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o ke ola o nā makuahine ma mua o Farani.
He makuahine ma ʻApelika Hema: nā helu
Ka helu o nā keiki no ka wahine: 1,3
Laki hānai: 32% ka hānai ʻana wale nō no nā mahina 6 mua
Haʻalele hānau: 4 mahina
Me mākou, he ʻoihana maoli ka "braai"!ʻO kēia kā mākou barbecue kaulana i hele pū ʻia me "sheba", he ʻano salakeke ʻōmato-onion a me "pap" a i ʻole "mielimiel", he ʻano polenta kulina. Inā kono ʻoe i kekahi e ʻai, hana mākou i ka braai. I ka Kalikimaka, hele mai nā mea a pau no ka braai, i ka makahiki hou, ka braai hou. ʻAʻole koke, ʻai nā keiki i ka ʻiʻo mai 6 mahina a makemake lākou iā ia! ʻO kā lākou meaʻai punahele ʻo "boerewors", nā sausages Afrikaans kuʻuna me ka cilantro maloʻo. ʻAʻohe hale me ka braai, no laila ʻaʻohe papa kuhikuhi paʻakikī loa nā keiki. ʻO ka meaʻai mua no nā pēpē ka "pap", i ʻai ʻia me ka "braai", a i ʻono ʻia me ka waiū, ma ke ʻano o ka porridge. ʻAʻole au i pap i nā keiki, akā i ke kakahiaka, ʻai mau lākou i ka polenta a i ʻole ka oatmeal porridge. ʻAi nā keiki o ʻApelika Hema i ka wā pōloli, ʻaʻohe mea ʻai a i ʻole nā hola koʻikoʻi no ka ʻaina awakea a me ka ʻaina ahiahi. Ma ke kula, ʻaʻohe hale ʻaina, no laila ke hele lākou i waho, ʻai lākou i ka home. Hiki ke lilo i sanwiti maʻalahi, ʻaʻole pono he mea hoʻomaka, kahi papa nui a me kahi mea ʻai e like me Farani. Ua ʻai nui aku hoʻi mākou.
ʻO kaʻu mea i mālama ai mai ʻApelika Hema ke ala e kamaʻilio ai me nā keiki. ʻAʻole hoʻohana koʻu makuahine a me koʻu makuakāne i nā ʻōlelo koʻikoʻi, akā ʻoʻoleʻa loa. ʻAʻole ʻōlelo ka poʻe ʻApelika Hema i kā lākou poʻe keiki, e like me kekahi poʻe Palani, "paʻa!". Akā ma ʻApelika Hema, ʻoi loa ma waena o ka poʻe ʻApelika a me ʻApelika, he mea nui ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana a me ka mahalo i kekahi. He hierarchical ka moʻomeheu, aia kahi mamao ma waena o nā mākua a me nā keiki, kēlā me kēia ma kona wahi. He mea aʻu i mālama ʻole ai ma ʻaneʻi, makemake au i ka ʻaoʻao liʻiliʻi a me ka ʻaoʻao ʻokoʻa. “
Nīnauele na Anna Pamula lāua ʻo Dorothée Saada