No kekahi kumu, hōʻike pinepine ka poʻe a puni i ko lākou mau manaʻo i nā kumuhana pilikino loa ke nīnau ʻole ʻia lākou e pili ana iā ia.
"Ua hāʻawi ke Akua i kahi bunny, a e hāʻawi ʻo ia i kahi mauʻu" - kahi huaʻōlelo e hoʻonāukiuki loa iaʻu me ka wehewehe ʻole. Inā e hānau mai iaʻu a ʻaʻole paha e hānau, he koho pilikino wale nō ia e pili ʻole i kekahi. ʻO wau wale nō. A i loaʻa nā keiki, ke hilinaʻi nei i ka Lūkia paha, manaʻo nui wau i ka kuleana nui ʻole. Nā nīnau e like me “ʻĀ, ʻo ka lua ka?” Hoʻāʻo wau e nānā ʻole iā ia. Inā ʻaʻole wau e ʻōlelo i nā mea maikaʻi ʻole i ka pane. Pono mākou e ʻae: ke kaomi nei ko mākou kaiāulu i nā wahine, e noʻonoʻo ana i ka hānau ʻana o nā keiki ʻo ia wale nō ke kumu o kēlā me kēia kaikamahine oʻo kolohe.
Ma ke ʻano laulaha, hoihoi loa ka poʻe i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua hoʻoholo kekahi e loaʻa ʻole nā keiki: haʻohaʻo ia i nā mea he nui, haʻi kekahi i ke keiki me ka inaina ʻole, mihi kekahi. Manaʻo ka hapa nui he inaina kēlā mau wahine i nā keiki. ʻOiaʻiʻo, kuhihewa lākou. A he nui ka poʻe i manaʻo ʻole no kekona ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke hānau no nā kumu olakino.
ʻĀ, e hoʻopono: pono anei mākou e kala i ka makemake ʻole e hānau? Manaʻo wau ʻaʻole. Ua hoʻokumu ʻo Twitter i kahi flash mob ma kēia kumuhana a ʻohiʻohi i nā mea hoʻonāukiuki loa a nā wahine keiki ʻole e hoʻolohe ai.
1. “Serious? Auē, he naʻaupō ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā keiki. A laila e hoʻomaopopo ʻoe, e mihi nō ʻoe. “
2. "ʻO nā keiki wale nō ke ʻano o ke ola o ka wahine maʻamau."
3. "Makemake ʻoe e lilo i wahine wahine pōpoki pupule na 40?"
4. “Manaʻo ʻoe ua luhi ʻoe? ʻAʻole ʻoe ʻike i kekahi mea e pili ana i ka luhi! “
5. “Manaʻo wale ʻoe. ʻO ʻoe wale nō kāu e noʻonoʻo ai. “
6. "ʻAʻole ʻoe i hui me kēlā kāne i kēia manawa."
7. "No laila he aha kāu mea e kali ai? Puni? “
8. "Inā manaʻo pēlā, ʻaʻohe ou hānau!"
"ʻO ka makemake ʻole i nā keiki kahi hōʻailona"
9. "Ke hoʻonele nei ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i ka hauʻoli nui loa ma ka honua - he makuahine ʻoe."
10. "A ke kikiki nei ka uaki."
11. "ʻO ka lilo ʻana i makuahine ka hopena o kēlā me kēia wahine. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa kūlohelohe. “
12. “Hoʻowahāwahā wale nō ʻoe. ʻAʻole wau e piliwi. A ʻo wai ka mea e hāʻawi aku iā ʻoe i ke aniani o ka wai? “
13. "He ʻano trauma trauma paha ia no nā keiki."
14. "No ke aha ʻoe e pono ai i kahi keʻena ʻo inā ʻelua wale nō o ʻolua? Nui ka hakahaka. “
15. “Maopopo iaʻu he makuahine nui ʻoe.”
16. “He mea ʻole ia na wai, nāu iho. E kōkua aku au iā ʻoe e noho pū me nā keiki. “
17. "I kēia manawa manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i nā keiki, akā ke kū lākou, e noʻonoʻo ʻoe i kahi ala ʻokoʻa loa."
18. “ʻAʻole i hele wāwae i luna, a pehea? Mai lohi i ka nui, a laila lohi. “
19. "ʻAʻole ʻoe makaʻu inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hānau i kāu kāne, e loaʻa iā ia ka mea e hānau?"
20. “ʻAʻole ʻoe maopopo, ʻaʻole ʻoe i hānau.”
21. "ʻAʻohe ou manaʻo i ke aloha maoli."
22. "Ua hoʻāʻo ʻoe e hele i kahi psychologist?"
23. "Makemake maoli ʻoe e kaʻawale i ka wā elemakule?"
24. "Pehea e hiki ai i kekahi ke haʻalele i ka hauʻoli o kāna makemake kūʻokoʻa!"
Poina paha mākou i kekahi mea? Kākau i nā manaʻo he aha nā nīnau e pili ana i nā keiki e hoʻonāukiuki iā ʻoe!
I kēia manawa
I kēia mau lā, ʻo ka mea nūhou miliona miliona ʻo Maria Tarasova - ʻo ia ʻo Masha Kakdela - i hana i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni e pili ana i ka ʻaoʻao o ka infertility i ʻike ʻole ʻia e nā poʻe āpau: e pili ana i nā ʻike o kahi kāne, e pili ana i nā nīnau tactless, e pili ana i ka hiki ʻole o ka loaʻa ʻana o nā keiki, e pili ana i ke kaumaha a me ka lana. - "Āhea nā keiki?"
"ʻO kā mākou mikiona e hāʻawi i ka ulu ʻana o kahi hanauna hauʻoli o nā wahine. Hoʻomaʻamaʻa mākou i nā kaikamahine ma nā ʻano like ʻole, me ke olakino. No laila, i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, ua kamaʻilio wau me ke kauka e pili ana i ka infertility a me ka pale olakino. No ka mea ua male wau no hoʻokahi makahiki a alo mau i nā nīnau e pili ana i nā keiki, ua hoʻoholo wau e hōʻike i nā mea e hiki ke hana ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe o ka nīnau "Āhea nā keiki?" A hāʻawi i nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua i kahi kamaʻilio i hopena maikaʻi, "wahi a Maria e pili ana i kāna papahana hou.
Ua loaʻa mua ka ʻāpana holoʻokoʻa ma ke kahawai YouTube a Maria, a ke kono aku nei mākou iā ʻoe e nānā i kahi ʻāpana iki.