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ʻAe, makemake nā kupuna wahine i kā lākou mau keiki…
Nā kūlana ola:
Ma hope o kona kipa 'ana i kona kupunawahine, ua lilo 'o ia i keiki "psycho".
Ke hele aku kāna keiki i kona mau kūpuna, hele mai ʻo ia me ka moa, psychotic, hiki iā ia ke hoʻohiki, paʻi: ʻo ia, ʻike ʻoe, ua hoʻololi ʻia i ka ikehu o ke kupuna wahine. Ua hoʻomanawanui koʻu kaikunāne, hoʻomanawanui, ho'āʻo e "noʻonoʻo" a "kamaʻilio" - ʻaʻohe mea kōkua. A ua hoʻoholo wau, me kaʻu wahine, e kāpae i nā kipa ʻana i koʻu kupuna wahine no hoʻokahi makahiki (ʻaʻole wau e hoʻomanaʻo i ka makahiki o kaʻu keiki, 4 a i ʻole). Ua huhū ʻo kupunawahine a hoʻopiʻi i nā mea a pau "ke holo wikiwiki nei ke keiki iā mākou, akā ʻaʻole ʻae kona makuakāne iā ia" (ʻoiai ʻaʻohe mea e holo wikiwiki ana), akā ʻoi aku ka aloha o ke keiki i kona kaikunāne ma mua o ka manaʻo o ka lehulehu.
A ma ke ʻano laulā, pono nō ke kaikunāne e hoʻomaopopo loa, a i kekahi manawa me ke koʻikoʻi, e kaha i nā palena ma waho aʻe o ke kupuna wahine i manaʻo ʻole e hele.
He 2 a aneane 3 mahina ka'u keiki. ke hele mai nei ke kupunawahine, ua hoopalau ia me kana keiki, oia hoi, i na manawa a pau, me ka hele ole (i na la maamau, he nui na mea hana a mama a aole hiki iaia ke noho pu me ia a paani). I kēia manawa, ʻaʻole pono ka makuahine i ka FIG, lilo mākou i kuli i nā noi a ka makuahine a lilo ka wahine i poʻo, hele ka mana o ka makuahine. Pehea e hoʻololi ai i ke kūlana? Pehea e hana ai? Ho'āʻo ʻo Tūtū e hana pono i nā mea a pau, e like me ka makemake o koʻu makuahine, AKA ʻokoʻa ka manaʻo o ke keiki! Kōkua!
ʻO ka hopena
ʻO wai ka luna o ka hale?
ʻO ka makua kāne ke poʻo o ka hale, i kāna huakaʻi ʻoihana - ʻo wau. ʻO nā kūpuna - pono ʻoe e mahalo, ʻoiai inā he mea ʻoluʻolu loa iā ʻoe, e nā keiki aloha, no kekahi mea pilikino. No ka mea, ʻo nā kūpuna ko mākou mau māmā a me nā makuakāne, a i kekahi lā e lilo ʻoe i mau makua, a lilo mākou i mau kupuna. A ʻaʻole i ʻike ʻia ka manaʻo o lākou iā mākou a pehea lākou e haʻalele ai e loiloi i kā mākou ʻano, no laila ke mahalo nei mākou i ko mākou mau kūpuna a ʻaʻole hoʻonaʻauao (ʻoiai hiki iā ʻoe ke noi ʻaʻole e hāʻawi i ʻelua kilokika momona i ka manawa hoʻokahi).
noho maluhia
E pili ana i nā kupuna wahine - nā kupuna wahine - pono lākou, me kā lākou pampering. He mea maʻalahi (ʻoiai he paʻakikī i kekahi manawa) ke wehewehe i ke keiki e hiki iā ia ke kamaʻilio me kona kupuna wahine e like me kekahi lula, a me kona mau mākua e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻohe pono e uhaʻi a hana hou i ke kupuna wahine - he ʻano kanaka makua nui kēia, a e like me nā mākua, makemake ʻo ia e maikaʻi ke keiki, ma kona ʻano ponoʻī, ma ke ʻano o ke kupuna wahine. No laila he mea pono e wehewehe i ke keiki, mai ka manaʻo o nā manaʻo lōʻihi, ʻo ka ʻano e pili ana iā ia i ke ola makua e "nā mea āpau" ....
Mai ka ʻike pilikino, i kēia mau makahiki ʻaʻole i hilinaʻi nui ʻo wau he makuahine "maikaʻi", a me he mea lā ua ʻoi aku ke aloha o ke keiki i kona kupuna wahine, a emi mai iaʻu ... .