Nā mākua: No ke aha ʻoe i hana ai i kēia moʻokāki?
maviedepapagay: Ma ka activism mua. Ua makemake mākou e hāʻawi i ka manaʻolana i nā kāne kāne ʻē aʻe i makemake e loaʻa nā keiki, e haʻi iā lākou "hiki! »A hoʻololi i nā manaʻo e pili ana i ka makua kāne kāne. Loaʻa iaʻu nā homophobic slurs ma Twitter, aia nō nā hana e hana ʻia… A laila ua hana wau no koʻu ola kaiaulu. Lawe mai iaʻu i nā hoʻololi he nui a hoʻonāukiuki hoʻi i nā hālāwai, nā papahana.
Ua hānau ʻia kāu mau kaikamahine ʻekolu ma muli o ka surrogacy (Surrogacy) ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa, pehea ʻoe i ʻike ai i ka hāpai ʻana?
ʻO ka pōmaikaʻi, ʻaʻole i loaʻa kekahi o mākou i ka pilikia kino o ka hāpai ʻana (ʻoiai ua hana wau i kahi keiki liʻiliʻi)! Akā, ua luhi loa mākou. ʻO ka mamao ma waena o mākou a me Jill, ka makuahine pani, ke kali ʻana i nā hopena hōʻike, nā hoʻokolohua a me ka hānau ʻana he mea ʻehaʻeha.
Pehea kou manaʻo i kou pūliki ʻana i kāu mau kaikamāhine no ka manawa mua?
He manawa ma waho o ka manawa. Ua hele mākou i nā hoʻouna ʻelua. No nā māhoe, paʻa kēlā me kēia ma ko mākou mau lima. Nānā wau iā Romain, nānā au i nā pēpē… Ua hauʻoli loa au, ma ka honua ʻē aʻe. Ua manaʻo wau i kahi hui koke me lākou. Ua noho au he papa moa…
I loko o ke wikiō: ʻO ka nīnauele a Pierre, alias @maviedepapagay
ʻEhia ka manawa i hala ma waena o kāu papahana keiki a me ka hānau ʻana o nā māhoe?
Ma waena o nā ʻanuʻu mua a me ka hānau ʻana o nā kūpuna, ʻaʻole i hala ʻelua makahiki. Laki mākou, no ka mea, ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi o kekahi manawa. Hāʻawi ʻia mākou i kahi hāʻawi semi-anonymous (ʻo ia no nā kaikamahine ʻekolu) wikiwiki loa. Ua hoʻokaʻaʻike koke mai ʻo Jill iā mākou a ʻaʻole i hāʻule ʻole.
Pehea ʻoe i lanakila ai i nā pilikia?
Ua kamaʻilio nui mākou e pili ana i kā mākou makemake. Ma ka hui ʻana i nā ʻohana ma o ka hui ADFH * i loaʻa iā mākou nā alakaʻi. Ua ʻimi mākou i ka ʻoihana kūpono, ua hilinaʻi mākou… Akā he hui waiwai kekahi. Ma waena o nā kumukūʻai o ka huakaʻi, ka loio, ka lawe ʻana i ka hāpai ʻana, lawe ʻia ma kahi o 100 euros. Ma ke aupuni, ʻaʻole i hoʻoholo ʻia nā mea a pau. Ua ʻike mākou i kā mākou mau kaikamāhine. He pepa ʻike ko lākou, ʻaʻole naʻe ma kā mākou puke moʻolelo ʻohana… He pupule.
ʻEkolu keiki… pehea ʻoe e hoʻonohonoho ai iā ʻoe iho?
No ke kolu, ua lawe au i ka haʻalele makua (e pau ana i ʻOkakopa). I ke kakahiaka, lawe pinepine ʻo Romain i nā keiki nui i ke kula. A mālama au i nā ahiahi. No nā lā hoʻomaha, makemake mākou i ka huakaʻi, akā ma ke ʻano i hoʻonohonoho pono ʻia, mālama ʻia nā mea āpau. I kēlā me kēia lā, hana mākou i ka mea hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomau i ka lokomaikaʻi inā paha mākou i kekahi manawa, huhū mākou e like me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe aʻu e manaʻo nei… Aia koʻu mau mākua e noho kokoke ana a hiki iā ia ke hāʻawi lima iā mākou inā pono. ʻO ka hopena pule, he hele wāwae, kuke, hale hōʻikeʻike…
Pehea ke kaumaha o ka manaʻo o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i kāu pilina?
Inā makemake ʻole kekahi poʻe, ʻaʻole mākou e ʻohi. Me nā kauka, ke kōkua makuahine, ke kahu hānai, ke holo maikaʻi nei nā mea. Makaʻu mākou i ka makahiki kula mua, ka hoʻokipa ʻana o nā kumu, nā mākua ... Akā ua loaʻa iā mākou nā hōʻailona o ka mahalo.
Ke nīnau nei kāu mau kaikamāhine e pili ana i ko lākou hānau ʻana?
ʻAʻole, no ka mea, haʻi mākou iā lākou i nā mea a pau. Ke kamaʻilio nei mākou no Jill "ka wahine i ʻaʻahu iā lākou" me ka hilahila ʻole. Kāhea mākou iā ia i kēlā me kēia manawa. He kūlana kūikawā kona, akā ikaika loa ka pilina.
He aha kā lākou kapa iā ʻoe?
Papa ! ʻAʻole mākou makemake i inoa kapakapa no kekahi o māua, ʻo “Papou” a i ʻole. Mahalo mākou i kēia kūlike o ke kūlana. He makua kāne piha māua ʻelua.
Nīnauele a Katrin Acou-Bouaziz
* Hui o nā ʻohana homoparental. https://adfh.net/