Hōʻike ʻo Johanna (Moms 6ter): "He mea maoli ʻole ke haʻi ʻia ʻoe aia ʻekolu"

"E ʻimi iā Johanna i ka manawa 3 ʻaʻole i paʻi ʻia o Les Mamans, mai ka Pōʻakahi a i ka Pōʻalima ma 17:10 pm ma 6ter"

“Ua moeʻuhane au i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ʻohana nui no ka mea he keiki hoʻokahi wau. Ua makemake kaʻu kāne i ʻekolu. Ua hui mākou i ko mākou wā ʻōpio a ua noho pū mākou ma ke ʻano he ʻōpio. Makemake mākou i nā keiki me ka wikiwiki a loaʻa iaʻu kaʻu mua ma 24 mau makahiki. ʻAʻole wau i manaʻo e maʻi nui i ka wā hāpai. Ua luai nui au i nā mahina mua ʻekolu a wehewehe au i kaʻu kāne he ʻelua wale nō mau keiki a māua. ʻAʻole hiki ke ʻike i ʻekolu manawa! ʻEkolu makahiki ma hope o Dario, ua hoʻoholo mākou e pāʻani i ke kaikaina a i ʻole ke kaikuahine. Ua maʻi hou au, no laila ua ʻike mua au ua hāpai au. Ua loaʻa iaʻu ka ʻeha a lōʻihi koʻu hele ʻana no ka hoʻāʻo koko e hōʻoia i ka hāpai ʻana. Ma hope o ka heluhelu ʻana i ka helu ma nā hopena, ua ʻimi au i ka pūnaewele a pēlā wau i aʻo ai he ʻōpū māhoe paha ia. Ua kamaʻilio mākou no ia mea i ke ahiahi me kaʻu kāne akā ʻaʻole mākou i manaʻoʻiʻo. ʻAʻohe hihia o nā māhoe i loko o ko mākou ʻohana. Ua hele au i ka ultrasound ma ko'u iho, no ka mea, noho ka'u kane me Livio. Ma waena o ʻelua luaʻi ʻana, ua hele au e hoʻoheheʻe i kēia leo ma kahi kikowaena kiʻi lāʻau. Lele ka lede i kona ʻike ʻana i ke kiʻi. Ua like ʻo ia me "Oh-oh! »A laila ʻōlelo mai iaʻu:« ʻAʻole wau he loea akā manaʻo wau aia ʻekolu ». Nānā pū wau a haʻalulu i ka waimaka. Ua paʻakikī nā mea a pau iaʻu: ke kālā, ka loaʻa ʻana o kaʻu keiki mua, hui me ʻekolu pēpē… He mea ʻole maoli ke haʻi ʻia iā ʻoe he ʻekolu. Ua hopohopo au. I koʻu hele ʻana i waho, kāhea wau i koʻu hoa e ʻōlelo mau ana: “ʻEkolu? Aia ʻekolu? Ua emi kona kaumaha ma mua oʻu.

 

 

ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi manawa noʻu i kēlā me kēia lā

Ma hope o kekahi pule pōkole o ke kaumaha, ua hauʻoli loa wau. Haʻaheo wau no ka hele ʻana i ke ala āpau, kokoke i ka hopena, ma 35 mau pule me ʻelua lā. Ua mākaukau nō wau no ka hānau ʻana ma ka waha akā i ka manawa hope loa, pono mākou e hana i ka cesarean no ka mea aia kekahi o nā pēpē i ke ala. Ua maikaʻi nā paona hānau o nā pēpē, a hiki i ka 2,7 kg! Ua hiki iaʻu ke pōmaikaʻi mai kahi TISF * hoʻokahi manawa i ka pule no 4 mau hola. Akā, i ka hopena, ʻaʻole wau i ʻike i kā lākou kuleana i kūpono i nā makuahine o nā lehulehu. Noʻu, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi inā loaʻa iā mākou ke kōkua pololei no ka ʻohana, a i ʻole he lede nāna e mālama i nā pēpē, ʻaʻole kēia ma waena ... I kēlā me kēia lā, paʻakikī loa ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi manawa noʻu. Ka mālama ʻana i nā keiki, ka ʻai ʻana, ke kūʻai ʻana, ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe… ʻaʻohe manawa e hoʻomaha ai! I nā mahina 15, hoʻohana nui nā keiki i ka ʻike ʻana i ko lākou honua me ko lākou waha. ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, ua hiki iā mākou ke loaʻa nā wahi i loko o kahi kahu hānai. I ka Pōʻakolu, mālama ʻia nā ʻekolu i ka manawa like, a hiki iaʻu ke hāʻawi manawa i koʻu ʻelemakule. ʻO kēia ko mākou manawa! ”

 

* ʻO ka ʻenehana o ka pilikanaka a me ka ʻohana: nāna e kōkua i nā ʻohana inā pilikia.

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