ʻOkoʻa nā keiki. E hakakā kekahi, e ʻuwā, e hana me he nahelehe lā, a nahu pū kekahi. A loaʻa mau nā keiki ʻē aʻe iā lākou.
ʻAe nā psychologists: ma ke kūlohelohe, makemake ʻia nā pēpē e pāʻani i nā palaka, a holo, a hoʻokūkū i ke alakaʻi. A ʻoi aku ka makemake o nā mākua a me nā kumu i nā keiki i lohe ʻole ʻia a ʻike ʻole ʻia.
Akā i nā kula āpau no nā keiki, aia ma ka liʻiliʻi he hoʻokahi "keiki weliweli" e hoʻokuʻi ʻole i nā mea aʻo a me kāna mau hoa. A ʻo nā mākua ʻaʻole i kūleʻa mau i ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi.
Raul (ua loli ka inoa. - Approx. WDay) hele i kahi kula kamaliʻi maʻamau ma St. Hana kona makuahine ma aneʻi ma ke ʻano he kumu kōkua, a he kāne koa kona makuakāne. Me he mea lā e ʻike ke keikikāne i ke ʻano o ke aʻo, akā ʻaʻole: ʻike ka ʻāpana āpau ʻo Raul "kaohi". Ua hoʻonāukiuki ke keiki i nā poʻe āpau i hiki, a ʻo nā haumāna hoʻi ma ke kula kamaliʻi.
Ua hoʻopiʻi kekahi o nā kaikamahine i kona makuahine.
- ʻAʻole ʻo Raul e ʻae i kekahi e hiamoe i ka “hola hāmau”! Hoʻohiki, hakakā a nahu nō hoʻi!
Ua weliweli ka makuahine o ke kaikamahine ʻo Karina: pehea inā e huhū kēia Raul i kāna kaikamahine?
- ʻAe, he keu a keu a keu o ke keikikāne, - ʻae nā kumu, - Akā i ka manawa like he akamai a me ka nīnau. Pono wale ʻo ia i kahi hoʻokokoke ʻana.
Akā ʻaʻole hauʻoli ʻo māmā Karina i kēia kūlana. Ua noi ʻo ia no ka pale ʻana mai kahi keikikāne hōʻeuʻeu iā Svetlana Agapitova, Ombudsman for Children Rights ma St. Petersburg: "Ke noi aku nei au iā ʻoe e pale aku i nā kuleana o kaʻu kaikamahine e mālama i ke olakino a me ka noʻonoʻo a nānā i nā kūlana o ka hānai ʻia ʻana a Raul B."
"Minamina, nui nā hoʻopiʻi e pili ana i ka hana a nā keiki," i ʻae ka ombudsman a nā keiki. - Manaʻo kekahi mau mākua ma kēlā ʻano kūlana e pale mau ʻia nā kuleana o nā mea hakakā, a ʻaʻohe mea e noʻonoʻo i ka makemake o nā keiki ʻē aʻe. Akā ʻaʻole kēia ka mea ʻoiaʻiʻo maoli - ʻaʻole hiki i nā kindergartens ke hoʻololi i ke keiki i kahi hui ʻē aʻe ma hope o kēlā me kēia hōʻailona. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, hiki ke hōʻoluʻolu ʻole, a pehea lā?
He ʻano maʻamau ke kūlana: pono i kahi keiki e aʻo e noho i kahi kime, akā pehea inā ke kaniʻuhū ke kime mai ona aku? I ka nui hea ka mea e pono ai e mahalo i nā kuleana o nā keiki hyperactive nāna, ma o kā lākou hana, keakea i ke kūʻokoʻa o nā keiki maʻamau? ʻAuhea nā palena o ke ahonui a me ke ahonui?
Me he mea lā ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o kēia pilikia i ke kaiāulu, a he hōʻoiaʻiʻo kēia o kēia.
ʻAʻole hōʻole nā mākua o Raoul i ka loaʻa o nā pilikia i ka hana a Raoul, a ua ʻae e hōʻike i kā lāua keiki i kahi psychiatrist keiki. I kēia manawa ke hana nei ke keikikāne me kahi kumu-psychologist, hele i nā kau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ʻohana, a kipa aku i nā kikowaena diagnostics.
Ua hoʻoholo pū nā mea aʻo e kau i kahi papa manawa o nā papa no ke keiki a lana ka manaʻo e aʻo mau ʻo ia iā ia iho. ʻAʻole lākou e kipaku iā Raoul mai ka papa mālaaʻo.
"ʻO kā mākou hana ka hana me nā keiki āpau: hoʻolohe a ʻaʻole nui, noho mālie a me ka naʻau, mālie a me ke kelepona," wahi a nā kumu. - Pono mākou e ʻike i kahi ala i kēlā me kēia keiki, e noʻonoʻo nei i ko lākou ʻano ponoʻī. Ke pau ke kaʻina hana o ka hoʻopili ʻana i ka kime hou, e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o Raul.
"Pololei nā mea aʻo: ʻaʻole hiki ke nānā ʻole ʻia nā keiki me nā pono kūikawā, no ka mea, ʻo lākou, e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe a pau, he kuleana ko lākou i ka hoʻonaʻauao a me ka launa ʻana," manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo Svetlana Agapitova.
I ke kula kamaliʻi, ua hāʻawi ʻia ʻo Karina e hoʻololi i kāna kaikamahine i kahi hui ʻē aʻe, mai Raoul. Akā hōʻole ka makuahine o ke kaikamahine, hoʻoweliweli e hoʻomau i ka paio e kāpae i ke "keiki hōʻoluʻolu" i nā hanana ʻē aʻe.
ninaninau
Hiki i nā keiki "kāohi" ke aʻo pū me nā mea maʻamau?
ʻOiai, no ka mea inā ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ke ola i ka nohona.
I ka hihia ʻole. Hiki ke weliweli no nā keiki maʻamau.
Kainō? ʻO kēlā me kēia keiki e nānā mau ʻia e ka loea.
E waiho wau i kaʻu mana i nā manaʻo