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- 1. Hoʻomaopopo lākou ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke lanakila ma nā mea a pau.
- 2. ʻAʻole lākou e hoʻāʻo e like me nā mea lanakila.
- 3. Ua oi aku ka lakou ninau ana mamua o ka lakou pane ana
- 4. ʻAʻole lākou e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i nā hana a nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
- 5. Aole makau lakou i ka akaaka ia lakou iho.
- 6. ʻAʻole lākou e haʻaheo i ka mea e holomua ai lākou.
- 7. ʻAʻahu maʻamau lākou.
- 8. Pale lakou i ka hoolaha
- No laila, no ke aha lākou i holomua ai?
Aia kekahi poʻe e hoʻokō i ka kūleʻa kupaianaha a hoʻololi i ke kaiāulu no ka maikaʻi. I ka manawa like, i ka hele ʻana iā lākou ma ke alanui, ʻaʻole ʻoe e manaʻo he mea kūikawā lākou. ʻAʻole like me nā kumu aʻo kaulana a me nā mea kākau moʻolelo, ʻaʻole hoʻōho ʻo "nā mea lanakila malū" e pili ana i kā lākou holomua ma kēlā me kēia kihi. E nānā kākou i nā ʻano ʻē aʻe i loaʻa iā lākou.
1. Hoʻomaopopo lākou ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke lanakila ma nā mea a pau.
ʻO kahi hana dizzying, kahi ola pilikanaka waiwai, makua makua, hauʻoli i ke aloha - ua ʻike maikaʻi nā poʻe i ka poʻe liʻiliʻi e kūleʻa i nā wahi āpau i ka manawa hoʻokahi.
Ke hoʻolilo nei i kahi ʻoihana, hoʻomaopopo lākou i ko lākou ola pilikino e "pololei", a ua mākaukau lākou no kēia. Hoʻopili maopopo ʻia ka holomua i ko lākou manaʻo i ka pono e hana ʻae.
2. ʻAʻole lākou e hoʻāʻo e like me nā mea lanakila.
Ma ka liʻiliʻi loa no ka luhi - ʻo kēia mau ʻōlelo pau ʻole, nā nīnauele, ke komo ʻana i nā podcasts a me nā hōʻike TV. Hoʻohana naʻauao kēlā poʻe i ko lākou manawa a me ko lākou ikaika. 'Ōlelo lākou, makemake ka hauʻoli i ka noho mālie. No kēlā poʻe, makemake lākou i ka noho mālie.
3. Ua oi aku ka lakou ninau ana mamua o ka lakou pane ana
He mea hoʻoluhi wale iā lākou ke kamaʻilio nui a hōʻike i ko lākou manaʻo mana i ka nui o nā hihia. A eia kekahi, aneane hiki ʻole ke aʻo i kekahi mea. ʻOi aku ka hoihoi a me ka pono o ka nīnau ʻana i nā nīnau, ke aʻo ʻana i kahi mea hou, e kiʻi i ka meaʻai no ka noʻonoʻo a me ka wahie no nā manaʻo hou (nā mea e alakaʻi i ka "hopena mālie" aʻe).
4. ʻAʻole lākou e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i nā hana a nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
Akā, ma kahi ʻē aʻe: ʻaʻole makemake lākou iā lākou iho i ka nānā ʻana a ʻae i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e uhaʻi i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana, a me ka loaʻa ʻana o ka nānā a me ka mahalo. ʻO ia ke kumu e ʻoluʻolu ai ka hana pū me lākou, ʻo ia ke kumu i makemake nui ai ka poʻe e komo i kā lākou hui.
5. Aole makau lakou i ka akaaka ia lakou iho.
Ua ʻike maopopo ʻo "Silent Winner" he mea hiki ʻole ke noho mau ma luna o ka lio. ʻAʻole lākou makaʻu e hoʻopololei i ko lākou "ʻaʻahu keʻokeʻo" a ʻae maʻalahi i nā hewa. Hāʻawi kēia iā lākou e hoʻoheheʻe i ka hau i ka pilina me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻo ia iho ka waiwai nui.
6. ʻAʻole lākou e haʻaheo i ka mea e holomua ai lākou.
ʻO ka helu o nā makahiki i ka ʻoihana, ka helu o nā limahana, ka nui o ka moʻokāki, ka nui o nā hoʻopukapuka i huki ʻia - ʻaʻole paha ʻoe e ʻike i kēia mau mea āpau mai ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi "lanakila lanakila". ʻO kāna pahuhopu e hoʻomau i ka hoʻokomo ʻana i kona ʻuhane i kāna hana, no ka mea e hiki koke mai ana kekahi mea.
7. ʻAʻahu maʻamau lākou.
ʻAʻole hiki ke kū ʻia kēlā kanaka mai ka lehulehu - no ka mea ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia. ʻAʻole ʻaʻahu ka poʻe "loaʻa haʻahaʻa" i nā lole ʻālohilohi a i ʻole ke kumu kūʻai nui loa - ʻaʻohe mea e hōʻike ana i ko lākou pae kālā. ʻAʻole pono lākou i nā wati "kūlana": he kelepona kā lākou e ʻike ai i ka manawa.
8. Pale lakou i ka hoolaha
He moeʻuhane ka hanohano no lākou, a ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻololi i ko lākou hiki ke haʻalele mālie i ka hale no ke kūʻai ʻana a pāʻani paha me nā keiki ma ke kahua pāʻani no kekahi mea. Makemake lākou i ko lākou noho mālie a mālie.
No laila, no ke aha lākou i holomua ai?
ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka loaʻa ʻana o ka pane i kēia nīnau - inā wale nō, e like me kā mākou i ʻike mua ai, pale kēia poʻe i ka hoʻolaha ma nā koina āpau a ʻaʻole hāʻawi i nā nīnauele e pili ana i ka mea i alakaʻi iā lākou i ka holomua. Akā hiki iā mākou ke manaʻo ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua makemake lākou e hana i kā lākou hana ma mua o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ʻike. Manaʻo nui lākou a hoihoi i kā lākou hana. Hiki iā lākou ke aʻo mai kēia.
ʻAʻole i ka manaʻo o ka lehulehu ka holomua, akā i ka hana ʻana me ka ʻuhane a me ka hoihoi. I ka hana ʻana pēlā, hoʻololi nā "mea lanakila hāmau" i ka honua no ka maikaʻi o kēlā me kēia lā, ʻoiai ʻaʻole mākou e ʻike. Aia kekahi poʻe e pili ana iā ʻoe?