PSYchology

ʻO ka poʻe hauʻoli i ke aloha, ka hana a me ke ola, ʻōlelo pinepine ʻia he laki. Hiki i kēia ʻōlelo ke alakaʻi i ke kaumaha, no ka mea, hoʻopau ia i ke kālena, ka hana, ka pilikia, ka lawe ʻana i ka pono mai ka poʻe i ʻaʻa a hele e lanakila i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.

He aha ka ʻoiaʻiʻo? ʻO kēia ka mea a lākou i hana ai a me nā mea a lākou i hoʻokō ai, nā mea a lākou i hoʻopiʻi ai a no nā mea a lākou i lawe ai i nā pilikia, ʻaʻole ka laʻa kaulana, ʻaʻole ia he mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka wehewehe kikoʻī o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a puni.

ʻAʻole lākou i "laki". ʻAʻole lākou i "hoʻāʻo i kā lākou laki" - ʻaʻohe mea like. ʻAʻole lākou i hoʻokūkū i ka laki, akā iā lākou iho. Ua ho'āʻo lākou i kā lākou talena i ka hola i ka manawa e lawe ai i nā pilikia, i ka lā i hoʻōki ai lākou i ka hana hou ʻana i nā mea a lākou i ʻike mua ai e hana. I kēlā lā, ʻike lākou i ka hauʻoli o ka hana ʻole ʻana iā lākou iho: ke hoʻokūkū nei lākou i kahi ola nona ke ʻano, e like me ka ʻepekema Farani ʻo Henri Bergson, ʻo ia ka hana hoʻomohala, ʻaʻole ke kōkua akua a i ʻole ka manawa, i kapa ʻia he laki.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki ke kamaʻilio e pili ana iā ʻoe iho he kanaka laki. A mai ka manaʻo o ka manaʻo ponoʻī, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka nānā ʻana iā ʻoe iho he kanaka laki. Akā e makaʻala i ka huli ʻana o ka huila o Fortune. Aia ka pilikia nui i ka lā e hana ai kēia, e hoʻomaka mākou e hoʻopiʻi iā ia no kāna ʻano liʻiliʻi.

Inā makaʻu mākou i ke ola, a laila i loko o kā mākou ʻike e loaʻa mau kahi mea e hōʻoia ai i kā mākou hana ʻole

ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻokūkū i ka "luck," akā iā mākou ke hana i nā kūlana e puka mai ai nā manawa. No ka hoʻomaka: waiho i ka ʻoluʻolu o ka mea kamaʻāina. A laila - ho'ōki i ka hoʻolohe ʻana i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo wahaheʻe, no hea mai lākou. Inā makemake ʻoe e hana, e nui mau ka poʻe a puni ʻoe e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ʻoe he hiki ʻole kēia. E ʻoluʻolu ko lākou noʻonoʻo i ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā kumu e pono ʻole ai ʻoe e hana i kekahi mea e like me ka wā e pono ai lākou e hana i kekahi mea iā lākou iho.

A ʻo ka hope, e wehe i kou mau maka. E ʻike i ke ʻano o ka mea i kapa ʻia e ka poʻe Helene kahiko ʻo Kairos - kahi manawa maikaʻi, kahi manawa kūpono.

ʻO ke akua ʻo Kairos he ʻōhule, akā he huelo poni lahilahi. He paʻakikī ka hopu ʻana i kēlā lima - paheʻe ka lima ma luna o ka iwi poʻo. Paʻakikī, akā ʻaʻole hiki ʻole loa: pono ʻoe e kuhikuhi maikaʻi i ʻole e poina i ka huelo liʻiliʻi. ʻO kēia ke ʻano e aʻo ʻia ai ko mākou mau maka, wahi a Aristotle. ʻO ka maka i aʻo ʻia ka hopena o ka ʻike. Akā hiki i ka ʻike ke hoʻokuʻu a hoʻokauwā. Aia nā mea a pau i ke ʻano o kā mākou hana ʻana i nā mea a mākou i ʻike ai a me nā mea i loaʻa iā mākou.

Hiki iā mākou, wahi a Nietzsche, ke huli i ka ʻike me ka puʻuwai o kahi mea pena a i ʻole me ka ʻuhane haʻalulu. Inā makaʻu mākou i ke ola, a laila i loko o kā mākou ʻike e loaʻa mau kahi mea e hōʻoia ai i ka hana ʻole. Akā inā alakaʻi ʻia mākou e ka manaʻo noʻonoʻo, inā mākou e mālama i kā mākou waiwai e like me nā mea pena kiʻi, a laila e ʻike mākou i loko o ia mau kumu he tausani e ʻaʻa ai e lele i ka ʻike ʻole.

A i ka wā e kamaʻāina ai kēia mea ʻike ʻole, ke manaʻo mākou i ka home i kēia ao hou, e ʻōlelo mai kekahi e pili ana iā mākou ua laki mākou. Manaʻo lākou ua hāʻule ka laki iā mākou mai ka lani mai, a poina iā ia. A ke hoomau nei lakou i ka hana ole.

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