ʻO ka hilinaʻi iā ia: nā huaʻōlelo liʻiliʻi 10 e "pepehi"! (ʻaʻole e ʻōlelo)

“E ke keiki nui, mai uē! (ʻaʻole makaʻu i ka ʻino ...) "

Decryption: ʻO kahi ala e hiki ai i ke keiki i kāna kūkulu ʻana, kona waiwai, hiki ke hoʻoluliluli i ke kumu o kona ʻano a no laila, ma ke ʻano ʻano ʻē, ka hilinaʻi āna e ulu nei. ʻO ia hoʻi ka haʻi ʻana iā ia he nui loa ʻo ia e loaʻa i nā manaʻo. ʻO kēia ke alakaʻi iā ia e padlock iā lākou ma mua o ka haʻi ʻana iā lākou. Akā, e hoʻolohe iā ia a ʻōlelo "Ua maopopo iaʻu ua makaʻu ʻoe ..." 

E haʻi aku:   ” Ua ʻeha ʻoe. E nānā pū kākou i kēia. ” 

“E akahele, e hāʻule ʻoe! “

Decryption: Lohe mākou i loko o kahi loop i ka huinahā! Eia naʻe, ma laila mākou e nīnau pololei ai i ka hiki o ke keiki, kāna waiwai. Nānā mākou iā ia me ka hilinaʻi ʻole iā ia. A manaʻo ka mea liʻiliʻi. Akā, e hāʻawi iā ia i kahi manaʻo maikaʻi a ʻōlelo "e mālama iā ʻoe iho", hiki iā mākou ke koho no "Ua ʻike ʻoe i nā alapiʻi kiʻekiʻe. E kōkua iā ʻoe iho ma ke kau ʻana i kou lima ma laila, kou wāwae ma laila… ”A laila e hele pū ʻoe i kāna mau hana ma ka leo me ka ʻōlelo lokomaikaʻi o ka hilinaʻi a me ka ʻōlelo aʻo. 

E haʻi aku  : "Hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe i koʻu lima e piʻi i kēia ʻanuʻu."

“E nānā i kou kaikuahine, maikaʻi kāna hana ʻana! (… E hele wāwae, e huki i ka pōpoki, e heluhelu…) ”

Decryption: ʻO kēia hoʻohālikelike ma kahi pae maikaʻi ʻole e hōʻike ana i ka pahuhopu e like me kekahi, a me kekahi. Eia naʻe, ʻokoʻa ke keiki. Inā he kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi paha, ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia i ka heluhelu ʻana, hiki iā mākou ke paipai iā ia ma ka ʻōlelo ʻana, “ʻAe, ʻike wau ʻaʻole pono kāu heluhelu ʻana, akā ma hope, e hana mākou. e hana pū i kahi ʻaoʻao heluhelu liʻiliʻi. No laila ua aʻo ʻoe iā ia a hiki iā ʻoe ke kaʻana like i kēia manawa me ia.

E haʻi aku  :  "I loko o kahi manawa liʻiliʻi, hiki iā mākou ke heluhelu pū!"

” He aa paha ʻoe a he aha ? “

Decryption: Puka ka ʻōlelo inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hoʻomaopopo koke, hāʻule i kekahi mea, a ʻaʻole hoʻi i hana pololei i ka mea i manaʻo ʻia iā ia… Hoʻopilikia pololei ia i ka makemake o ke keiki, kona ʻono i ke aʻo ʻana a me ka holomua. Inā ʻaʻohe ona kuleana e hana hewa, e like me ka ʻōlelo a ka ʻōlelo, wikiwiki loa, ʻaʻole makemake hou ʻo ia e hoʻāʻo i ʻole e lawe i ka hopena o ka hāʻule. ʻAʻole hōʻole kekahi poʻe kamaliʻi i ke kaha kiʻi, hana a pane i kahi nīnau mai ke kumu, i kekahi manawa me ka phobia kula. Hoʻokumu kēia i kahi inhibition, ʻaʻole hilahila, no ka mea ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e hōʻeha ʻia i kona hanohano. 

E haʻi aku :   “Me he mea lā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hoʻomaopopo. “

Haʻi mākou iā ʻoe i nā huaʻōlelo 10 mai ʻōlelo i kahi keiki!

“Ai ʻoe me he puaʻa lā! “

Decryption: Hōʻike kēia ʻōlelo i ka manaʻo ʻaʻole makemake ka makua i ke keiki e hele i ke kahua o ka "hana ʻino". Pono koke ka pono. 'O ka 'oia'i'o 'o ke keiki he "pololei", pa'a maika'i, 'ōlelo maika'i... 'o ia ka mea i kapa 'ia 'o ka 'ai narcissistic' no ka makua. ʻOi loa i kēia manawa kahi i ikaika loa ai ka hoʻonaʻauao a me ka pilikanaka.

E haʻi aku :   "E lawe i kou manawa e lawe mai i kāu puna." “

"Mai kū wale ʻoe me he pupule lā!" “

Decryption: Me kēia ʻōlelo, ʻaʻole mālama ka makua i ke kino o ke keiki. Pono nā makuahine e "holo i nā makuahine", me ka ukana noʻonoʻo nui, a me nā mea he nui e hana, wikiwiki loa. ʻAʻole hiki i ke kanaka makua ke hoʻomanawanui e hana ke keiki i nā mea a pau e hoʻihoʻi i ka manawa e pono ai ʻo ia e hoʻokaʻawale iā ia e hele i ke kula hānai, i ke kula. ʻO ka haʻalele ʻana, ʻo ia ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana, a ʻike mau ke keiki i ka ʻeha o kona puʻuwai. Aia i nā mākua ke hoʻokaʻawale. E ʻōlelo ana no ka laʻana: “Ua ʻike wau ua kaumaha ʻoe no ka haʻalele ʻana i kekahi i kekahi i kēia kakahiaka, akā e hui hou kāua i kēia pō." Eia kekahi, nānā pinepine nā keiki i nā mea i ʻike ʻole ʻia e nā mākua. He ʻanuʻu, he lālā lāʻau e neʻe nei ... E ʻōlelo paha ʻoe: “Ua ʻike ʻoe i ka ʻanuʻu, i kēia pō, e nānā kāua, akā pono kāua e hele i kēia manawa." Ma ke ala, e haʻi mai ʻoe iaʻu i kāu mea i ʻike ai ”. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ma ka nānā ʻana i kāna keiki, ʻike ke kanaka makua e kau ana ʻo ia ma muli wale nō o ka nānā ʻana, hopu ʻia.

E haʻi aku :   “Ke nānā nei ʻoe (a noʻonoʻo paha) i kekahi mea hoihoi!” “

"He aha kou ʻano, ua hili i kou lauoho, i ʻaʻahu ʻia a i hamo ʻia paha?" “

Decryption: Ma laila, he nīnau no ke kiʻi o ke keiki. Inā ʻōlelo ʻia me ka ʻakaʻaka, ua maikaʻi. Inā he nīnau no ka ʻōlelo ʻana ʻaʻole ia he nani, he ʻakaʻaka, pili pono mākou i kona hanohano, kona waiwai, kona kiʻi. Inā hana ʻo ia i nā ʻeleʻele ma kāna pālule no ka laʻana (a he mea maʻamau no ke keiki ke pila ʻia!), ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o mākou e ʻōlelo "ʻAʻole wau makemake e puka ʻoe i waho e like me ia." ʻO kou ʻaʻahu maikaʻi i kou hele ʻana i ke kula, hauʻoli iaʻu ”.

E haʻi aku :   "Makemake au ua ʻaʻahu maikaʻi ʻoe e hele i kahi kula hānai." “

"E ʻae mai iaʻu e hana iā ʻoe!" “

Decryption: Hōʻike kēia ʻōlelo i kahi pilikia o ka manawa. Pono ke kanaka makua e hāʻawi manawa no ka ʻike o ka wā kamaliʻi. A no ka ʻae ʻana i ke keiki e hana i kāna mau hoʻokolohua, pono i ke kanaka makua ke ʻike pehea e hoʻonohonoho ai iā ia iho me kāna kani. ʻOiai ʻo ia i ka wikiwiki. ʻO ia ʻōlelo hoʻi e haʻi iā ia ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hana iā ia iho. Inā haʻi ka hoaaloha iā ia he ʻino ʻo ia i kona wā liʻiliʻi, ʻaʻole like ia me ka haʻi ʻana o kona mau mākua iā ia. Nui aʻe, i ka makahiki e helu nui ai nā hoaaloha, e hāʻule.

E haʻi aku :   “Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomau i kāu hana ʻana i kēia pō. “

“Hooki i ka uē ʻana, ʻino ʻoe, ʻinoʻino ʻoe!” “

Decryption: ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻaʻohe wahi o ke keiki i ka rhythm o nā mākua, ʻaʻole ia e hoʻololi. I kona uē ʻana, lohe ke kaikamahine liʻiliʻi "Hiki iā ʻoe ke waiho wale iā mākou" a manaʻo ke keiki me ka huhū. ʻIke ʻo ia ʻaʻole hoʻokipa ʻia ʻo ia i kāna mau hōʻike ʻana i kona wā kamaliʻi, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hoʻokō i nā manaʻo o kona mau mākua. ʻOiai ʻaʻole ʻo ia e kamaʻilio, hoʻomaopopo ʻo ia i ka ʻaoʻao maikaʻi ʻole o nā ʻōlelo a kona mau mākua. 

E haʻi aku :   "Maopopo iaʻu ke uē nei ʻoe no kou luhi ..."

“Ke ʻōlelo mau nei ʻoe i ka lapuwale! “

Decryption: I ka makahiki o nā nīnau nui (no ke aha? Pehea mākou e hana ai i nā pēpē?), haʻi ke keiki liʻiliʻi i nā moʻolelo e pili ana i kona manaʻo ua maopopo iā ia e pili ana i ka honua. He mamao loa ia mai ka noʻonoʻo ʻana a kūpono hoʻi, akā ma ka mea ʻē aʻe, noʻonoʻo a pīhoihoi. He mea nui e hoʻokuʻu mālie iā lākou i kā lākou mau hoʻopunipuni a hoʻoholo i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole ia e hōʻike iā ia iho e like me ke kanaka makua, akā ʻaʻole naʻaupō ka ʻōlelo a ke keiki. Hiki iā mākou ke ʻōlelo iā ia: "ʻAe, manaʻo ʻoe ua like ia ... ʻaʻole like ia ..."

E haʻi aku :   “ʻO ka mea āu e ʻōlelo ai he mea kāhāhā nui iaʻu …”