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"ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole ʻoe maopopo, ua hoʻopunipuni ʻo ia iaʻu a holoi pinepine i kona mau wāwae ma luna oʻu! A i kēia manawa pono wau e kaʻana like i ka hale me ia, aʻu i kūʻai ai me kaʻu kālā paʻakikī, like?! Ua hauʻoli ka mea hoʻolohe i ka Healthy Food Near Me Radio (97,2 FM). Auwe, ʻaʻole noʻonoʻo nā ʻaha i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa e like me "he wahine ʻo ia" ("he kao ʻo ia") i ka wā e puʻunaue ai i ka waiwai o nā hoa kāne kahiko.
He aha ka mea e pono ai ka ʻike, i ka wā o ka hāʻule ʻana o ke ola ʻohana, ma nā ʻōlelo waiwai, ʻaʻole mākou e waiho ʻia me ka mea ʻole, ua hoʻokaʻawale mākou me ka loio Victoria Danilchenko.
He aha ka mea e puunaue i ka hapalua
Pili kēia i nā waiwai i kūʻai ʻia i ka wā o ka male ʻana i ke kānāwai - mai kona lā mua a hiki i ka lā hope.
"No ka laʻana, inā kūʻai ʻoe i kahi hale i ka lā o kāu male ʻana, a ʻaʻole hiki ke hana i kekahi mea, e manaʻo ʻia ʻo ia ka waiwai maʻamau o nā kāne," wahi a Victoria Danilchenko. - Hoʻohana like ia i nā hihia "he aha ʻoe, ʻaʻole mākou i noho pū i ʻelua makahiki." Inā ʻaʻole i hoʻopau ʻia ka male ʻana, ʻo nā mea a pau āna i kūʻai ai i kēia mau makahiki ʻelua, ʻo ia kā lākou waiwai hui. A ma kahi oki mare, pono e puunaue i ka hapalua. Waiwai i ole i ka pahi
- Nā hale noho a me nā hale i loaʻa i nā kāne ma mua o ka male ʻana.
- ʻO ka waiwai i loaʻa i ke kāne a i ʻole ka wahine i ka wā o ka male ʻana, akā ma lalo o ke kālepa manuahi, ua loaʻa ma ke ʻano he makana a ma ka hoʻoilina.
ʻO kahi pilikia kaʻawale ka hale pilikino. ʻAʻole hoʻi e māhele ʻia i ka wā o ka hemo ʻana, e noho pū me nā hoa kāne i hoʻopaʻa ʻia. Akā, inā i kākau inoa ʻia ka lua o nā kāne i ka manawa i hoʻopaʻa ʻia i loko o kēia hale a haʻalele i kāna ʻāpana o ka waiwai no nā lālā ʻē aʻe o ka ʻohana, ʻaʻole hiki ke kākau iā ia i waho o kēia keʻena me kona makemake. ʻO kā mākou kānāwai e pale ai i nā kamaʻāina maikaʻi loa mai nā ʻohana aloha ʻole.
- Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole i manaʻo ʻia nā uku e like me ke kōkua kālā a i ʻole ka uku kīnā. Kuhi ʻia lākou a manaʻo ʻia no kahi kanaka kikoʻī.
- ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e kaʻana like i nā waiwai pilikino a me nā waiwai e pono ai no nā hana ʻoihana. No ka laʻana, he kamepiula i hoʻohana ʻia e kekahi o nā kāne. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki mai nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa ma ʻaneʻi - inā hana nā kāne ʻelua ma ke kamepiula, pono e hoʻoholo ʻia ka pilikia ma o nā ʻaha.
kuai hooilina
… Ua hoʻoili ʻo Sergey i ke keʻena mai kona mau mākua mai. Ma hope o ka male ʻana, ua hoʻoholo ke kanaka ʻōpio e kūʻai aku a kūʻai i kahi mea hou, ʻoi aku ka hou. Ua lilo ia i mea kahaha nui iā ia i ka wā o ka hemo ʻana, pono e māhele ʻia kahi hale hou i ka hapalua me kāna wahine ma ke ʻano he waiwai i loaʻa.
Manaʻo ka poʻe loea i ka theoretically i ia mau hihia e hiki ke hōʻoia i ke kūʻai ʻia ʻana o ke keʻena hou ʻaʻole ma ka lilo o ke kālā maʻamau, akā ma ka uku o nā mea i loaʻa mai ke kūʻai ʻana o ka hale hoʻoilina. Akā ma ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa he paʻakikī kēia e hana. Aia kekahi manawa inā ua waiho ʻia ka nui o ke kūʻai aku i loko o ka moʻokāki pilikino o Sergey, mai kēia moʻolelo ʻo ia i uku ai no ke keʻena hou - a mai ke kumu o nā uku panakō e hahai pono ana i kahi i hele ai ke kālā. Akā ʻaʻole loa e hana kekahi.
Ina he kivila ka mare
"Inā kūʻai ka poʻe ʻōpio i kahi keʻena i loko o ka male kīwila, a laila ua haʻihaʻi ka male, e kaʻana like anei kēia hale?" ninau mai ka poe heluhelu ia makou. ʻAʻole. I kēia hihia, ʻo ke keʻena ka waiwai o ka hoa kāne maʻamau i kūʻai mai ma kona inoa ponoʻī. Ma ka Moku'āina Duma, ua kūkākūkāʻia kahi manaʻo e hoʻohālikelike i ka male kīwila me ka male maʻamau i ka waiwai waiwai, akā,ʻaʻole i pau kēia i kekahi mea,ʻaʻole i kēia manawa.
Pehea e inikua ai
ʻAʻole pāpā ke kānāwai i nā hoa kāne mua mai ka ʻaelike a me ka māhele ʻana i ka waiwai ma ke ʻano a lākou i manaʻo ai he pono. Inā makemake ka ex-kāne e waiho i ka waiwai a pau i ka ex-wahine - ʻaʻohe pilikia. ʻO ka mea nui, ʻo ia ka hana ʻana i kēia mau ʻaelike ma ka pepa. A ʻo ia ka mea, i ka hōʻike ʻana i ka hanohano i ka wā mua, hoʻololi kekahi o nā kāne i ko lākou manaʻo ma hope o kekahi mau makahiki a hoʻomaka e hoʻoiho i nā kuleana.
Auē, i ka wā o ka hakakā ʻohana a me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana, he kakaikahi ka poʻe e mālama i ka noʻonoʻo o ka noʻonoʻo a me ka hiki ke kaʻana like i kekahi mea "pololei" ma laila - hele hihiu nā manaʻo. No laila,ʻo ka'ōlelo aʻo nui a nā loio,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kūkākūkāʻana ma ka hoʻomakaʻana o ke olaʻohana,ʻoiai ua maikaʻi nā mea a pau. ʻAʻole e nānā i ke aloha, akā inā loaʻa kekahi mea, hiki ke hoʻokaʻawale i kahi ʻano civili.
- Inā he waiwai kāu a ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei ʻoe e hoʻonui ʻia ka male, mai palaualelo e hoʻopau i kahi ʻaelike male. ʻO kēia ka mea e maʻalahi loa i ke ola a hoʻemi i ke kiʻekiʻe o nā manaʻo i ka wā e hoʻokaʻawale ai, - ʻōlelo ʻo Victoria Danilchenko.
ʻO ka māhele kiʻekiʻe loa o nā oligarchs
ʻO Roma lāua ʻo Irina Abramovich hui i ka wanaʻao o ka dizzying 'oihana o ka wā e hiki mai oligarch. He kahu lele ʻo ia, ua lele ʻo ia ma kāna lele… Ua hānau ʻia ʻelima mau keiki ma ka male. Ua aʻo ʻo Irina e pili ana i ka kumakaia ʻana o kāna kāne me Dasha Zhukova mai ka paʻi. Uaʻae lākou me ka maluhia, ua hemo i loko o ka hale hoʻokolokolo Chukchi, kahi i nohoʻole ai lākou,ʻo ko lākou mau luna wale nō. Ma hope o ka hemo ʻana, ua lilo ʻo Irina i mea nona ka villa a me ʻelua mau hale nani ma ʻEnelani, he hale kākela ma Farani, a ua loaʻa pū hoʻi he 6 biliona paona a me ka manawa e hoʻohana ai i kāna Boeing pilikino a me ka moku moku no ka wā pau ʻole. Pono wau e ʻōlelo ua hele maluhia ka male ʻana o ka mea ʻoihana mai Dasha Zhukova. Wahi a nā lono, ua ʻae nā kāne i nā mea āpau ma mua o ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ka pilina.
ʻO Dmitry lāua ʻo Elena Rybolovlev Ua hui pū lākou mai ko lākou mau makahiki haumāna, nā kauka ʻelua, i ka hopena o 80s, hoʻomaka lākou e loaʻa kālā maikaʻi i kēlā manawa ma ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i kahi keʻena pilikino. I ka makahiki 1995, ua lilo ʻo Dmitry i mea nona ka Uralkali a loaʻa iā ia nā ʻāpana i kekahi mau ʻoihana ʻē aʻe, a ua neʻe koke ka ʻohana i Switzerland. Aia ma ka ʻaha Swiss i waiho ai ʻo Elena no ka male male. ʻO ke kumu, ʻo ka nui o ka hoʻomaloka o ka wahine. Pono wau e ʻōlelo i kekahi mau makahiki ma mua o kēia, ua hāʻawi ʻo Dmitry iā Elena e hoʻopau i kahi ʻaelike male, e like me ka mea e loaʻa iā ia he 100 miliona euros i ka wā o ka hemo ʻana, akā hōʻole ʻo ia e hana i kēia, ʻoiai he manaʻo maikaʻi ʻo ia. ka helu maoli o ka waiwai o kana kane. Ma hope o ka hoʻoholo hope loa, ua loaʻa iā Elena ma mua o 600 miliona mau kālā a me nā hale ʻelua ma Switzerland. Ua hala kekahi mau makahiki, i ka manawa i kūʻai ai ʻo Dmitry i ka waiwai a puni ka honua e pale i ka uku o ka hemo ʻana, a ua hoʻāʻo ʻo Elena e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ma ka waiho ʻana i nā hoʻopiʻi ma nā ʻaha o nā ʻāina ʻē. ʻElua mau kaikamahine a lāua, nona ka hiapo, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe, ʻelua mau mokupuni Helene, a ʻo kekahi o nā hale kūʻai nui loa o ka honua. Ua manaʻo ʻo Elena i mea e hūnā ai i ka waiwai waiwai i ka wā o ka hemo ʻana i kākau ai kāna kāne mua i kāna kaikamahine hiapo.
Nā nīnau a me nā pane kaulana
"Ua mare ke kaikamahine, ua neʻe i kāna kāne ma kahi hale pilikino. Noho no 22 makahiki. I kēia manawa ʻaʻole lāua e noho pū, akā ke noho nei kaʻu kaikamahine i kēia hale. 'Ōlelo ke kāne mua e kipaku ka 'aha iā ia. He pono anei kona? ʻO ka hale kona mau mākua, he hoʻoilina.
ʻO ka mea pōʻino, ma hope o ka hemo ʻana, aia iā ia ke kuleana e hāpai i ka hihia o ka kipaku ʻana i kāna wahine mai kēia hale ma ke ʻano he lālā mua o ka ʻohana.
"ʻAʻole maikaʻi loa ke kaikunāne me kāna wahine. Ua loaʻa iā ia ka noʻonoʻo e kūʻai i hale keʻena a kākau i kāna wahine. Akā ua pūlima ʻo ia i kahi ʻaelike hōʻaiʻē me ia. E kōkua anei kēia i koʻu kaikunāne i ka hemo ʻana e hoʻopiʻi i ke keʻena nona iho?
ʻAʻole. A hiki i ko lāua hemo ʻana, ʻaʻole he hale keʻena wale nō kā lākou waiwai maʻamau, akā ʻo nā kālā a pau i loaʻa i ka wā male. ʻAʻole pono inā hana ke kāne, a noho ka wahine me nā keiki. Manaʻo ke kānāwai e kōkua nā kāne ʻelua i ka ʻohana maʻamau. No laila, ʻaʻole kūpono ka ʻaelike hōʻaiʻē i hoʻopaʻa ʻia me ka wahine: ʻo ke kālā i hōʻaiʻē ʻia mau nō e like me ke kānāwai. ʻĀnō, inā ʻaʻole na ke kāne i hāʻawi i ke kālā i ka wahine ma lalo o ka ʻaelike, akā, e ʻōlelo ʻoe, ʻo ke kaikunāne o ke kāne a i ʻole kekahi ʻohana ʻē aʻe, a laila hiki ke lilo i mea hōʻike i ke kūʻai ʻana o ka wahine i ke keʻena me ke kālā o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.