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Eglantine Eméyé: "ʻAʻole keiki ʻo Samy e like me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe"
/ Kona hanau ana
Maikaʻi kou nānā ʻana, he pēpē uʻi e hiamoe nui ana, mālie loa, ʻo ia hoʻi ka chines e hōʻike i ka poʻe ua pōloli ʻo ia. ʻIke wau he hemolele ʻoe. I kekahi manawa, hoʻoneʻe au i ka pacifier i loko o kou waha, e pāʻani, e hoʻohālike wau e wehe iā ʻoe, a ʻo ka manawa koke, ʻike ʻia kahi minoʻaka maikaʻi ma kou mau maka, haʻaheo wau, ua ʻike ʻoe he ʻano ʻakaʻaka! Akā ʻo ka hapa nui o ka manawa, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hana i kekahi mea.
/ kanalua
ʻEkolu mau mahina ʻoe a he pēpē lole lole wale nō ʻoe, palupalu loa. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke paʻa i kou poʻo. Ke hoʻāʻo wau e noho i luna me koʻu ʻūhā ma koʻu mau kuli, koʻu lima e kākoʻo ana i kou ʻōpū, hāʻule kou kino holoʻokoʻa i lalo. ʻAʻohe leo. Ua kuhikuhi mua wau i ka pediatrician me he mea lā ʻaʻole mālama. Me he mea lā ua hoʻomanawanui loa au. (…) He ʻehā mau mahina ʻoe a hoʻomau ʻoe i ka hana ʻole. Ke hoʻomaka nei au e hopohopo nui. ʻOi aku ka nui o kou mau kūpuna, ka mea ʻaʻole i mince i kā lākou mau ʻōlelo, e hana mai ana i nā ʻōlelo e hoʻoweliweli iaʻu a e hōʻeha mai iaʻu: "Malia paha ʻaʻohe o ka hoʻoulu ʻana, ua mālie loa iā ʻoe" wahi a koʻu makuahine. “Nani maoli ʻo ia, lohi iki, palupalu, akā ʻoluʻolu maoli nō” i koʻu makuakāne, ʻakaʻaka āpau.
/ Ka hōʻailona”
Samy. Ka'u keiki. Ka'u pokii. ʻAʻole ʻo ia he keiki e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe, ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻIke ʻia ka hahau ʻana i loko o kekahi mau mahina wale nō, epilepsy, lolo lohi, a ʻo ia wale nō kā mākou ʻike. Noʻu, he autistic ʻo ia. E like me Francis Perrin, e hahai au i na papahana hou a kekahi poe i hookomo mai i Farani, a me he mea la, ke holomua nei keia mau keiki. ABA, Aʻo, Pecs, nā mea a pau e hiki ke kōkua iā Samy, makemake wau.
/ ʻO Marco, kona kaikuaʻana nui
ʻEkolu mau makahiki ʻoe i ka hiki ʻana mai o Samy i kou ola, ke kali nei ʻoe iā ia, e like me ke kaikunāne nui, lili, akā ʻo wai ka mea makemake e manaʻoʻiʻo i ka ʻōlelo a kona makuahine iā ia, ʻo ke kaikunāne he hoa pāʻani a mākou e hakakā ai i kekahi manawa, akā ʻo ia nō naʻe. he hoaaloha no ke ola. A ʻaʻohe o ia mea.
Ma waho o kou hoʻopili ʻana i nā kūlana he nui: "Mai hopohopo, he mea maʻamau ia, he autistic ʻo ia, he maʻi ma kona poʻo" e haʻi pololei mai ʻoe i ka poʻe e nānā mai nei iā mākou, ʻoluʻolu ʻole, ʻoiai ʻo Samy e koli me ka pīhoihoi, e hoʻopuka ana i nā uē liʻiliʻi. . Akā, hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi mai iaʻu me ka ʻoluʻolu no ka mea he nui kāu: “Pehea inā haʻalele mākou iā ia ma laila, e mama? .. I blaaaaagueuh!” ”
(…) ʻO kēia kauwela nā makahiki ʻelua o Samy. ʻOiʻoli nui ʻo Marco. E pāʻina kāua, e ka makuahine?
– E haʻi iā Māmā, i ka manawa hea ka lā hānau o Samy?
– I kēia pō i ka ʻaina ahiahi, ʻaʻohe kānalua. No ke aha mai ?
– ʻAe, ʻo ia ke kumu… Pono kākou e kali a hiki i kēia pō.
– E kali i ke aha ? Ke ninau nei au
- E hoʻololi iā ia! e hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia! I kēia pō ʻoiai ʻelua makahiki ʻo ia, ʻaʻole ia he pēpē hou, ʻike ʻoe, he keiki, no laila hele ʻo ia e hele, ʻakaʻaka, a hiki iaʻu ke pāʻani pū me ia! Pane mai ʻo Marco iaʻu me ka maikaʻi ʻole.
minoaka akahai au iaia a hele aku la iaia. ʻAʻole au e aʻa e uhaʻi i kāna moeʻuhane me ka maopopo.
/ Nā pō pilikia
Loaʻa iā Samy ka maʻi maʻi i ka pō, ua ʻino loa ʻo ia iā ia iho. ʻAʻole manawa hou kona mau papalina koko e hoʻōla. A ʻaʻohe oʻu ikaika hou e kaua aku iā ia i ka pō a pau, e pale aku iā ia mai ka hōʻeha ʻana iā ia iho. No koʻu hōʻole ʻana i ka manaʻo o ka lāʻau lapaʻau hou, hoʻoholo wau e hoʻolālā i kahi camisole. ʻO kēia hui pū kekahi o nā manaʻo maikaʻi loa i loaʻa iaʻu. ʻO ka manawa mua aʻu i kau ai, i ka wā i hoʻopaʻa ʻia ai nā kaula Velcro, manaʻo wau ua paʻa loa iaʻu… Ua nānā maikaʻi ʻo ia, mālie kona mau maka, hauʻoli… Ua ʻike au i kona mau ʻiʻo ma lalo o koʻu kino e hoʻomaha. ʻAʻole maikaʻi loa ka pō ma hope, akā ua emi iho ka uē ʻana o Samy, a ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hōʻeha iā ia iho. Eia naʻe, ua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā pō no kāua. ʻAʻole au i ala hou i kēlā me kēia ʻelua hola e pale iā ia mai ka hōʻeha iā ia iho ...
/ Ka nana o na mea e ae
I kēia kakahiaka ke lawe nei au iā Samy i ka hale mālama lā. Hana wau i kaʻu niche. Ua kāhea mai ʻelua mau kāne e noho ana i loko o ka cafe iaʻu: "E Mademoiselle!" Ma hea ʻoe i ʻike ai i kāu hōʻailona kino? I loko o kahi ʻeke kāhāhā? A i ʻole ʻike paha ʻoe i kekahi ma kahi kūlana maikaʻi? ʻAe, he kaikamahine uʻi e like me ʻoe! ”
Pono wau e mahalo i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana a i ʻole ke kipi i kā lākou hoʻomākeʻaka? Ke koho nei au i ka pono. Huli aʻela au a ʻoiai e wehe ana i ka puka o Samy, hāʻawi wau iā lākou i kaʻu minoʻaka maikaʻi loa "ʻAʻole e nā Keonimana. Ua loaʻa iaʻu he makana i ka hānau ʻana o kaʻu keiki! Inā makemake ʻoe e hāʻawi wau iā ʻoe. ʻO ka hope, hāʻawi wau iā lākou iā ʻoe. No ka mea, hele pū. “
/ He ʻohana hui ʻia
Ua hoʻololi maikaʻi ʻo Richard i koʻu ola pupule. Maʻamau, pupule, liʻiliʻi ʻo ia iā ia iho. E like me ke ea hou, me kāna ʻakaʻaka pololei, kona ʻoliʻoli, kona ʻano ʻōlelo hoʻomāʻewaʻewa i kekahi manawa, akā he mea maikaʻi ia e ʻōlelo ai, a me kona ikaika, ua hoʻohui ʻo ia i kāna ʻālohilohi o ke ola i kā mākou. Ua hōʻea ʻo ia, kuke, lawe ʻo Samy i kona mau lima, a ma luna o nā mea a pau, hiki iā Marco ke hoʻomāmā i ke kaumaha āna i hoʻopau ai ma luna o kona mau poʻohiwi. A laila he kaikamahine ʻo Richard, ʻo Marie, ka makahiki like me kaʻu keiki nui. Paʻi koke nā keiki ʻelua me ka kupanaha. He manawa kūpono. A ʻo ka makuahine e like me nā kaikamahine liʻiliʻi, wikiwiki ʻo ia i ka wā e kū ai ʻo Samy, hāʻawi e kōkua i nā meaʻai, e hoʻokani iā ia.
/ Mahalo iā Samy!
Akā, loaʻa iā Samy nā pono. Ua komo pū ʻo ia i ke ola ʻohana kupaianaha i loaʻa iā mākou a, ma kāna ʻano ponoʻī, hoʻopakele ʻo ia iā mākou mai nā kūlana he nui. A i kēlā mau hihia, hāʻawi mākou ʻo Marco i ko mākou mahalo a pau iā ia. No ka laʻana, hoʻohana mākou iā Samy i kekahi manawa ma kahi hale kūʻai. ʻAʻole wale no ka pale ʻana i ka laina a hele i mua o nā mea a pau (ʻo wau ke haʻi aku nei, hauʻoli nui wau i ka hana ʻana, ʻoiai, me ka hana mana, ua mālie ʻo Samy i ka lā, ʻaʻohe mea e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai i kaʻu ʻāwili ʻana i kāna kāleka handicap. e hele wikiwiki i ka checkout), i kekahi manawa no ka leʻaleʻa o ka waiho ʻana i kekahi ma ko lākou wahi. Pela no e ka'u Samy liilii, kupono no ka haawi ana ia kakou i ka ea! Me ia, ʻaʻohe kelu hou, ka nele o ka wahi ma ka metro, a i ʻole ma ka square. ʻO ka mea kupanaha, ke pae koke mākou i kahi, aia kahi hakahaka a puni mākou, a ma ko mākou wahi!
"Ka ʻaihue o nā pulupulu niho", na Églantine Éméyé, ed. ʻO Robert Laffont, i paʻi ʻia ma Kepakemapa 28, 2015. Mea hoʻokipa o "Midi en France", ma Farani 3, a me ka mea kākau moʻolelo ma "RTL week-end" me Bernard Poirette. ʻO ia hoʻi ka mea hoʻokumu a me ka pelekikena o ka hui "Un pas vers la vie", i hana ʻia ma 2008 no nā keiki autistic.