I kekahi mau lā i hala aku nei, ua kāʻili ʻia nā ʻoihana pūnaewele e ka nalu o kekahi mau uila uila. Hōʻike nā mea hoʻohana i nā moʻolelo o kā lākou hāʻule ʻana a me nā pio, e hele pū me lākou me ka tag #mewasn't hired. He aha ke ʻano o kēia mau mea e pili ana i ka psychotherapy? ʻO kā mākou loea ʻo Vladimir Dashevsky he categorical: he uē kēia mai ka ʻuhane o ka poʻe i hōʻeha ʻia, a ʻo ka mob flash ponoʻī he mea paʻakikī a kamaliʻi.
I ka psychotherapy, ʻo ka mea nui ka hoʻolohe. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe ʻo Sherlock Holmes a ʻaʻole ʻo Dr. House, inā ʻaʻohe ou maka ʻekolu a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke "nānā i loko o ka ʻuhane" a nānā i nā manaʻo, e hana nā maka kanaka a me nā pepeiao a me ka ʻike. Ke kamaʻilio nei nā kānaka iā lākou iho. Pono, ma ka lae, hoʻomau a nui.
ʻAʻole wale lākou e ʻōlelo me nā huaʻōlelo, akā me nā mea i waena: reticence, hints, implied. Ma ka ʻepekema, kapa ʻia kēia ʻo "implication". Hōʻike kekahi ʻōlelo i kekahi mea, a kūkulu ʻia ke kamaʻilio ma waena o nā kānaka me ke kōkua o ia mau memo. Hana ʻia ka mea like ma nā kikokikona. ʻOi aku ma nā kikokikona o nā ʻoihana pūnaewele. ʻOi loa ma Facebook (kahi hui extremist i pāpā ʻia ma Rūsia).
No ka laʻana, inā ua heluhelu ʻoe a hiki i kēia mau laina, he aha kāu e huki ai e pili ana iaʻu ma ke ʻano he mea kākau? Eia kekahi laʻana, he snob ka mea kākau, he nerd a he "nerd" i hoʻoholo e holo i kahi palai, me ka makaʻu i hoʻoholo e hiki iā ia ke hoʻouka i ka poʻe heluhelu me ka manaʻo naʻaupō, "hoʻopaʻa no ka manawa lōʻihi i ka wā o ka mob flash. hoomaka.» A pela aku a pela aku. ʻO ia wale nō kāu e heluhelu ai ma waena o nā laina kikokikona.
No laila, ʻaʻole ka mea hoihoi a ka poʻe i kākau ai, akā ʻo ka manaʻo o kā lākou mau leka. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻo ia ka manaʻo maoli o ke kanaka, ma ka pae o ka ʻike ʻole, kahi mea hiki ʻole iā ia ke hoʻomalu.
I kēia mau lā he mea hilahila ke kūleʻa ʻole. ʻOi aku ma luna o ka pāpili kaiapili
No laila, e pili ana i ka mob flash, #ʻaʻole lākou i lawe iaʻu. He mea kupanaha ka wikiwiki o kona lanakila ʻana iā Facebook (kahi hui extremist i pāpā ʻia ma Rusia). Ka mana maʻi kupaianaha! No nā lā ʻelua - mau tausani, ʻumi kaukani ʻatikala, nā leka, nā ʻakaʻaka, nā loulou, nā ʻōlelo a me nā repost. Ua maopopo iaʻu ua hānau mua ʻia nā mea noiʻi nāna e wehewehe i nā kānāwai hou o ka psychology media social e hoʻohana ana i ka laʻana o ka ʻano o ka poʻe ma nā ʻoihana pūnaewele.
He aha nā mea ma luna a me nā mea a ka poʻe i kākau mua e pili ana: he flash mob # ʻaʻole lākou i lawe iaʻu — 90% o kēia mau moʻolelo kūleʻa. "ʻAʻole wau e hoʻolimalima ʻia e ka hui X, akā i kēia manawa aia wau i ka hui Y ("hoʻokumu i kaʻu ʻoihana ponoʻī" / "hoʻomaʻamaʻa i koʻu ʻōpū i Bali") a me ke kokoleka piha. E kapa aku kakou he hookamani.
I kēia mau lā he mea hilahila ke kūleʻa ʻole. ʻOi aku ma luna o ka pāpili. Hoʻopuka wale ʻia ka ʻaila o ka honua i kēlā me kēia lā. Aia ia e nā mea nūpepa, nā mea kākau kiʻi, nā mea kākau, nā mea i kapa ʻia ʻo ka papa hana. A ʻoiaʻiʻo, ma ke kumu o kēia mau pou, ʻaʻole hiki ke huki i nā hopena e pili ana i nā kumu o nā hāʻule. Aia kekahi mea - "ke kuhihewa o ke ola," i ka wa, e like me na meheu o na poka ma ka fuselage o ka mokulele e hoi ana i ke kahua, hoao lakou e huki i na manao e pili ana i na kumu o ka haahaa "survivability" o ka mokulele. ʻAʻole hoʻi mai ka mokulele i paʻi ʻia e ka ʻenekini a i ʻole ka pahu hau. ʻAʻohe mea i ʻike ʻia e pili ana iā lākou.
ʻO ka poʻe #ʻaʻole i komo maoli i ka mob flash. He ʻeha a ʻaʻohe manawa.
Hoʻopili ka manaʻo o ka mea kākau i nā wai laudatory, ulu ka manaʻo ponoʻī, hoʻokō ka pahuhopu
I kēia manawa e pili ana i ka mea huna, e pili ana i ka manaʻo.
Ua maloʻo ka waimaka o ka poʻe kākau, akā mau ka huhū. ʻO ka huhū i ka poʻe #samifools, #ʻaʻole i lawe iaʻu i ka nani, #nahu i kou kuʻekuʻe lima, #nuisabogus mai komo i kēia. Hōʻike koke ʻia nā manaʻo ma lalo o nā pou: "e lili iā lākou i kēia manawa", "hewa lākou", "ʻoluʻolu ʻoe". Hoʻopili ka ego o nā mea kākau i nā wai laudatory, ulu ka manaʻo ponoʻī, hoʻokō ka pahuhopu. Eia kekahi, ma keʻano he kūlana, he kahiko nā kūlana, he kamaliʻi ka huhū, aʻo ka huhū kamaliʻi ka mea hōʻeha loa.
Nui ka inaina. Mai kahi pōlele hau liʻiliʻi i hoʻokuʻu ʻia i ʻelua mau lā i hala aku nei, ke holo nei kahi puʻupuʻu o nā ʻōhumu i hoʻopaʻa ʻia i ka mauna o Facebook (kahi hui extremist i pāpā ʻia ma Rusia). ʻOi aku ka nui aʻe o nā papa e pili ana iā ia, ke ʻohi nei nā pāpaho like ʻole i ka pahu, i kēia manawa ke lele nui nei ka ʻauwaha nui ma luna o ka Pūnaewele, kahili ʻana i ka poʻe heluhelu, kahili ʻana i nā nūhou a me nā kumuhana ʻē aʻe. He maʻalahi, palekana a maikaʻi. Me he mea lā ke komo nei au i ka leʻaleʻa flash mob, a i ka manawa like ke loaʻa nei au i ka lāʻau lapaʻau.
He aha ka hōʻino, he mob flash - paʻakikī a me nā kamaliʻi. ʻO ka huaʻōlelo ʻo "ʻAʻole wau i lawe ʻia" e hōʻike ana he mea wau i ka mea ikaika, hāʻawi ʻia i ka mana, ke kūʻokoʻa a lawe ʻole paha. Manaʻo ka mea kākau i ke ʻano o ka mea i hōʻeha ʻia a ʻaʻole hiki ke "ma ke ʻano makua", e nānā pono i ke kūlana.
He maikaʻi ka paʻi ʻana o ka inaina, e like me ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana o ka pus mai kahi ʻeha. Akā, ʻoi aku koʻu makemake e kū ma kahi kaʻawale i kēia manawa, i ʻole e ʻeha i ka nalu pahū.
ʻO ka wikiwiki o ka hāʻawi ʻana a me ke ʻano nui o ke kaʻina hana e hōʻike i ka maikaʻi. Ua ʻike au ʻo nā mob uila uila nui loa (e like me nā mea hou #makaʻu wau e ʻōlelo) he psychotherapeutic mau. Ma ke ʻano maʻamau, ma ka hopena o ka mob flash, hui pū ʻia nā hopena narcissistic ma ʻaneʻi.
He mea nui e nānā i kēia, i ko mākou nānā ʻana i kahi ʻōpuʻu kukui ʻālohilohi - mai lalo o ka hapalua pani pani ʻia, i hiki ai i nā huaʻōlelo ke hele, a nānā i ka mea e hana maoli nei.