Nā keiki hoʻokumu: no ke aha hiki ʻole ke hoʻokaʻulua e hoʻopaʻa inoa i kahi keiki

Ka mālama ʻana i nā keiki, ʻaʻole ka mea ʻē aʻe ... ʻO ka hope Duma o ka Mokuʻāina ʻo Valentina Petrenko, me he mea lā, ua pili loa i ka puʻuwai ka moʻolelo o kahi keikikāne i kapa ʻia ʻo BOCh rVF 260602 (Ka mea olaola kanaka o ka ʻohana Voronin-Frolov, i hānau ʻia ma Iune 26, 2002). ʻIke ʻia e noho ana ke keiki me ka ʻole o nā palapala no 10 mau makahiki - hōʻole lākou e hoʻopaʻa inoa iā ia me kēlā inoa i nā keʻena hoʻopaʻa inoa o Moscow.

Ua hoʻoholo ʻo Valentina Aleksandrovna e kākau i kahi kānāwai e pāpā aku ai i nā mākua mai ke kāhea ʻana i kā lākou keiki i nā helu, nā pōkole, a ʻoi aku me ke kōkua o nā huaʻōlelo mai ka ʻōlelo hōʻino. He mea maikaʻi paha ia e pale ai i ke keiki mai nā manaʻo hauʻoli o ko lākou mau makuahine a me nā makuakāne. Eia nō naʻe, ma hope o ke kuhi manaʻo e pili ana i nā inoa i haki ka hopena o nā keiki, ʻaʻole i ʻike ʻia kahi ʻano liʻiliʻi o ka bila hou.

"I ka hihia ke hōʻike ʻole nā ​​mākua i ka hānau ʻana o kahi keiki i loko o ka manawa i kuhikuhi ʻia (hāʻawi ke kānāwai i ka palena o hoʻokahi mahina. ke kānāwai Pekelala "Ma nā kūlana kūlana kivila".

Wehe mākou i kēia ʻatikala a heluhelu i ke poʻo inoa: "Ke kākau inoa aupuni ʻana no ka hānau ʻana o kahi keiki i loaʻa (kiola ʻia)."

I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, inā i loko o hoʻokahi mahina ʻaʻole ʻoe i hoʻoholo i kahi inoa no kāu pēpē a i ʻole no kekahi kumu ʻē aʻe i kiʻi ʻole ai i ke keʻena hoʻopaʻa inoa a ʻaʻole i loaʻa kahi palapala hānau, ʻike ʻia ʻo ia ma ke ʻano he hoʻokumu. ʻOiai inā he makuahine hoʻokahi ʻoe. ʻOiai inā ʻaʻohe mea e haʻalele i ka pēpē, akā naʻaupō e huki i ka pēpē me ʻoe. He mea ʻole ia no ke aha - ʻo ka mea nui ʻaʻole ʻoe i hele i ke keʻena hoʻopaʻa inoa i hoʻokahi mahina. A i kēia manawa, ma ke kānāwai, he keiki makua ʻole kāu keiki ʻike ʻole ʻia kona mau mākua.

Mai kēia manawa, e hui pū nā luna hoʻomalu nohona i ka pāʻani a mālama i kāu keiki e like me kahi keiki makua ʻole. ʻO ia, ua manaʻo lākou i kahi inoa a me ka inoa nona, e hoʻopuka i kahi palapala hānau no kēia ʻikepili. ʻAʻole ʻike ʻia nā mākua. ʻAʻole ʻoe i ʻike ʻia i mua o ke kānāwai. No laila ke ʻōlelo nei kāna huaʻōlelo. A inā, ʻo kahi laʻana, 33 mau lā ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o kahi keiki, hele mau ʻoe e hoʻopaʻa inoa, ʻaʻole ʻoe e makua, ʻaʻole. ʻO ʻoe ka "mea loaʻa pēpē".

A inā pēlā, ʻaʻohe ou kuleana iā ia. A he kuleana ko nā luna o ke kaiāulu e lawe i ke keiki i ka hale makua ʻole! Mai piliwi iaʻu? Hiki ke heluhelu ʻia ka pila kumu maanei.

ʻAe, no ka hoʻohālikelike, e hoʻomanaʻo mākou iā ʻoe: i kēia manawa e uku ʻia ʻoe no ka lohi ʻana no ke kau inoa ʻana. Mai hoʻokahi a me ka hapalua a i ʻelua a me ka hapalua tausani rubles. Inā ʻae ʻia ke kānāwai, ʻo ʻoe, me ka ʻike ʻole, me ka ʻole o ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo, e lilo i mea ʻole na kāu pēpē. Kānāwai.

-ʻO ke kūlana o ka "hoʻokumu" ʻaʻole ia he "mālama makua" a ke keiki, ʻo ia, ʻo ia pū me ʻoe me ke kānāwai ʻole. Ke mālama nei nā luna kiaʻi i ka pale o ia mau keiki, - wahi a Olga Baranets, ka ombudsman lehulehu no ka pale ʻohana ma St. Petersburg a me ka moku ʻo Leningrad. Ua hāpai ʻo ia i kahi haunaele, me ka ʻike ʻana i kēia kiko "nui ʻole" o ka pila. Hoʻomaka ʻo ia e hoʻopahū i ka State Duma me nā hoʻopiʻi a me nā keleka, e koi ana e hōʻole ʻia ka hoʻoponopono hou.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka hemo ʻana o kahi keiki mai ka ʻohana he mea nui loa ia, kahi mea paʻakikī ʻole e lawe ʻia e kekahi. Eia nō naʻe, he holoholona ʻoe e lawe i ka hānau hou mai ka makuahine. Inā ʻaʻole palena palena ʻole ka ʻohana, ʻoiaʻiʻo, kahi i poina ai ka makuahine e pili ana i ka hoʻopaʻa inoa ʻana o ka pēpē no nā mea nui "koʻikoʻi". Akā ʻike ke Akua i ka nui o nā pōʻaiapuni o ke keʻena ʻoihana āu e hele ai e hōʻoia i kāu keiki. ʻŌiwi.

- Ma ke kumu hea e hiki ai ke hoʻokau i ke kūlana o "hoʻolei" inā hānai ka makuahine a hāʻawi i ka wai i ke keiki? - huhū ka mea hana kaiaulu. - E lilo ia i kumu e lawe aku i ke keiki mai nā mākua aloha a hoʻouna iā ia i kekahi "kikowaena rehabilitation". ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻopakele i ka pēpē mai kahi, no ka mea, i kāna palapala hou, e hoʻopuka ʻia e nā luna kiaʻi, ʻaʻohe ʻōlelo e pili ana i ka makuahine a me ka makuakāne. I kēia manawa, e hoʻopiʻi nā mākua i nā keʻena aupuni, e hoʻoholo ʻia ka hopena o ka hānau hānau e kekahi mau hui aloha keiki me nā kālā haole ...

Ma ka lā 7 o Malaki, ua hoʻoholo ʻia ka pila ma ka heluhelu mua. ʻOiai ʻaʻole i ʻae nā MP i ka manaʻo o ka hoʻokumu, ʻaʻohe manaʻolana e waiho wale ka noi pupule i ka waihona o nā bila. Ma ka liʻiliʻi ua hoʻohiki ʻo Valentina Petrenko ma ka heluhelu ʻelua e hana ʻo ia i nā hoʻoponopono e pili ana i kēia kuhi. E ʻike mākou i nā mea i ka manawa koke.