Hāpai a me nā keiki: hoʻonohonoho i kāu male
No ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i ko lākou kūlana ʻohana, e hōʻoluʻolu i nā keiki, no ka mea ʻaʻole makemake lākou i nā makahiki he ʻumi i hala akā i kēia lā ʻae ... hoʻi hope kekahi mau kāne i ke kani o "He nui nā keiki a male lākou ". ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kāu mau keiki ponoʻī i mea hōʻike i kāu male ʻana, ʻoiai he mau mahina hāpai a ʻaʻahu i ka lole keʻokeʻo, hiki i kekahi mea!
Mare me na makua
ʻO Marina Marcourt, ka mea kākau o ka puke "Organiser son mariage" ma Eyrolles, hāʻawi i nā ʻōlelo aʻo koʻikoʻi i nā male hou i ka wā e hiki mai ana he mau mākua a inā hāpai ʻo makuahine: inā ʻO ka wahine mare a me ke kāne mare he mau mākua no kahi keiki ma lalo o 5 mau makahiki, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā ʻohana, e hoʻomaikaʻi i kēia lā nani. a e kiai i ka hui. Me ka poina ʻole e lawe iā lākou i ke kiʻi kiʻi.
Ma hope o 5 a 6 mau makahiki, hiki i nā keiki ke lawe i kahi kuleana nui. I ka manawa pinepine i ka huakaʻi, makemake lākou e hui pū me kēia lā nui no ka hoʻohanohano ʻana i ka hui ʻana o ko lākou makua. Hiki ke koho ʻia nā lunakahiko i mau hōʻike.
Nā hōʻike mai nā makuahine
Ua hoʻoholo ʻo Cécile a me kāna kāne e hāpai i kahi keiki ma 2007. Ma hope o nā hoʻokolohua gynecological, haʻi nā kauka iā lākou e lōʻihi ka huakaʻi. Ke nānā nei lākou i ka hoʻomākaukau ʻana no kā lāua male ʻana. He ʻumi mau lā ma mua o ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻana, ma ka ʻōlelo aʻo a ka gynecologist, hana ʻo Cécile i nā hoʻāʻo koko. He ʻano ʻē lākou. Hāʻawi ka gynecologist i kahi manawa no ka ultrasound follow-up. ʻO ka pilikia, ʻo ka Pōʻalima ka lā o ka hoʻomākaukau nui a me ka hoʻonani o ka lumi. ʻAʻohe pilikia, lawe ʻo Cécile i ka ultrasound ma 9am. Hōʻoia: aia kahi ʻōpae liʻiliʻi he 3 pule ma ke kiʻi. Ma ka D-Day, mālama ʻia ka male me ka hauʻoli, makemake nā mea a pau i ka wahine mare a me ke kāne i nā pēpē nani. I ke ahiahi, i ka wā o ka haʻiʻōlelo, mahalo ʻo Cécile a me kāna kāne i kā lākou mau malihini. A haʻi i ka lehulehu i ka hiki ʻana mai o kahi pēpē ... i loko o 9 mau mahina. Ma ka lā 22 o Kepakemapa, 2007, ua hoʻomau ʻia ka hoʻolauleʻa i nā kiʻi a me nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni. Akā no nā male hou, ʻo ka manaʻo maikaʻi loa ʻo ia ka "ma 3" i kēlā lā.
"Ua male mākou ma ka hale pule a ma ke kaona. Ua koho mākou i ka Pōʻalima, i ka hola 16 pm, e hāʻawi manawa i nā keiki e hiamoe. Aia mākou i loko o kahi lumi me kahi "māla" i hoʻopaʻa ʻia, mamao loa mai kahi alanui e hiki ai iā lākou ke pāʻani i waho i ka wā o ka aperitif i hana ʻia ma waho. ʻO kā mākou mea nui i lawe mai i nā berita i ka halepule, haʻaheo loa ʻo ia. Ua hauʻoli loa nā keiki i ke komo ʻana i kēia hanana, ke kamaʻilio mau nei lākou iā mākou no ia mea. Eia kekahi, ma ka hoʻolaha ʻana, ʻo lākou ka poʻe i kono i ka poʻe i ka male ʻana o ka makuahine a me ka makuakāne. »Marina.
“No kā mākou male ʻana, he 6 mau mahina koʻu hāpai. Ua hoʻoholo mākou e male ma hope o ka ʻike ʻana ua hāpai au no ka mea ʻaʻole wau makemake e loaʻa kahi inoa ʻē aʻe ma mua o kaʻu keiki. Ua koho mākou i ka lā o ka male ʻana ma Mei 2008, male mākou i ʻAukake 2008 a hānau wau i ka lā 2 o Dekemaba. Ua kōkua ko mākou ʻohana iā mākou e hoʻonohonoho i nā mea āpau. ʻAʻole wau e hoʻololi i kēia koho. No ke ahiahi, ua loaʻa iā mākou he 6 mau moʻopuna, he ʻohana nui mākou, mālama pū mākou i kā mākou mau keiki. »Nadia