A hāpai nā luahine niho ʻole a puni.
Hoʻolaʻa ʻia i koʻu makuahine, ka mea ma 61 i kūkulu hale, a ma 63 i hele i nā ululāʻau a me nā mauna o Peru.
ʻAʻole makahiki ʻo "Kūpuna". ʻAʻole hoʻi ke kāne. ʻIke wau i nā «kuāhine» nona nā makahiki 25 a me 40. Aia ma waena o nā kāne.
Ua ʻike nō hoʻi au i ka poʻe akamai a ʻeleu ma 70 a ʻoi. A mahalo nui au iā lākou.
He kūlana manaʻo ʻo Grandma.
Noʻu, ʻo ke kupuna wahine he kanaka nāna:
- Ua ʻawaʻawa no ka manawa lōʻihi a ʻaʻole ulu.
- ʻO ka ʻōhumu mau a me ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana a i ʻole ka huhū.
- Hoʻopilikia ʻia e ka honua no ka hoʻonohonoho pono ʻole ʻia. A me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, no ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻole ʻana.
- ʻO ka ʻōhumu he hewa ʻole ka manawa, ka ʻāina a me ka mana. A, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻoi aku ka pilikia o ka hui kipi honua.
- Noho ʻo ia ma kahi peni, mālama, ʻeha. Akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hana i kahi mea e hoʻololi ai i kēlā.
- Kuokoa? ʻoihana ponoʻī? Nā hoʻololi i kahi ʻoihana e kū nei? He aha ʻoe, weliweli loa. ʻO ka ʻōlelo a ke kupunawahine: "Ua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka ʻiole ma ka lima ma mua o ka lark i ka lani."
- Ua uē ʻo ia no ka maikaʻi ʻole o ke olakino, hele i nā kauka a ʻai i nā pūʻulu lāʻau. Ma mua o ka lawe ʻana i kou olakino i kou mau lima ponoʻī.
- He ʻōpū momona kona, he ʻōpū haʻahaʻa a me ke ʻano kekee. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke kūlou i lalo a hiki i ka papahele me kona mau lima. ʻO ka manawa hope loa i holo ai ʻo ia ma ke kula ma kahi papa hoʻonaʻauao kino. He anu a hohonu loa ke kai a me ka muliwai nona.
- ʻAi nui ʻo ia a me nā mea a pau.
- Nui kāna ʻōpala kahiko ma ka home a ma kāna keʻena hana, kahi āna e haʻalulu nei: aloha - malia paha e hiki mai ana. ʻAe, a i ʻole ʻaʻohe ikaika e wehe a hoʻolei aku. Ua piha ka pahu hau a me ka lumi kuke i nā ʻano ipu a me nā nishtyaks ʻawaʻawa.
- Noho ʻo ia e like me nā loina "Ma kahi i hānau ʻia ai ʻo ia ma laila", "ʻAʻole hāʻule kahi ʻāpala mai kahi lāʻau apple". I kekahi manawa, haʻi mai kekahi kupuna wahine iaʻu a me Olya (kaʻu wahine): "Ua like ka wahine me ka turnip. Ma kahi i kanu ai ke kāne, ma laila nō e ulu ai.
- Aia ʻo ia i ka wā ma mua: "Akā ma lalo o ke aupuni Soviet he hoo! Akā, koʻu kupuna kāne…”
- Hoʻopili ʻo ia i nā poʻe a puni iā ia me kāna pessimism.
- Loaʻa iā ia nā mea a pau, huli lākou mai ona aku. Koe na lepelepe.
Hana hana
E pane pololei i ka nīnau:
He kupunawahine ʻoe?
ʻAʻole iaʻu, iaʻu iho.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hemolele ka honua. Hiki iaʻu ke papa inoa i nā pilikia e hoʻopuni ana iā mākou i ka lōʻihi a me ka luhi - aia ka nui o lākou. Dope - lawa!
Akā naʻe, makemake au i ka loina:
Hiki ke hana ʻino, akā ʻaʻole pono ia e wehewehe i ko mākou ola.
A ke ho'āʻo nei au e ola me ia.
ʻAe, ʻo Nietzsche kahiko me kāna "ʻO ka mea e pepehi ʻole iā mākou e ikaika ai mākou."
ʻOiaʻiʻo, i kekahi manawa lilo mākou a pau i mau kupuna, ma ka liʻiliʻi loa no kekahi manawa.
ʻAʻole wau he ʻokoʻa 🙂
Inā ʻike koke wau i nā hōʻailona o kēia i loko oʻu iho, a laila e hana koke wau i kekahi mea. ʻo kahi laʻana:
- Wehe au i kaʻu hoki ma luna o ka noho a hana i nā hoʻomaʻamaʻa, hoʻomaʻamaʻa yoga, "healing impulse" a me nā jogging ʻē aʻe me ka wela.
- Ke hoʻomaka nei au i kahi papahana hou: ʻoihana a / a i ʻole mea hana, kāhāhā (ʻo ka mea mua iaʻu) me kona ʻano palaka a me ka ʻike ʻole. Ua hānau ʻia kēia: kaʻu puke, kiʻiʻoniʻoni, nā kahua ʻoihana, nā hālāwai kūkā a me nā mea hou aku. Hōʻike ʻia ka hapa nui o nā ʻatikala ma ia mau manaʻo. A me nā pou Facebook…
- E aʻo ana au i kahi mea hou. I koʻu ola, ua hele au i nā haneli o nā haʻawina pōkole a lōʻihi, a ke loaʻa nei iaʻu kaʻu kula kiʻekiʻe ʻekolu.
- Ke pāʻani nei au me kaʻu kaikamahine a me kāna mau hoaaloha: hoʻokomo mākou i ka ulu piha.
- ʻIke wau i nā poʻe e hoʻoikaika iaʻu, nā hoaaloha, nā hoa.
- Hana wau i kahi mea hoihoi no nā mea kūʻai mai - mai iā ʻoe, e kaʻu mea aloha, loaʻa iaʻu nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo.
- E hele ana au i kahi huakaʻi: Paris, Madagascar, Sri Lanka, Thailand, Carpathians, etc.
- Hele au i ka holoholo me ka ʻeke ʻeke - maʻamau i nā mauna: Crimea, Caucasus, Altai ....
- Hoʻomaka wau e komo i kahi ʻano hana hou: i nā manawa like ʻole ʻo ia ka piʻi ʻana i ka pōhaku, freediving, yoga, «impulse», etc.
- Ke hoʻāʻo nei i kahi mea hou, e like me ka holo moku a hana ʻana i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni.
- Ke hele wāwae ma ke ʻano a i ʻole ke kūlanakauhale ʻoluʻolu. Aloha au a kahaha.
- Hele au i ka hele wāwae kiʻi: no ka nani a me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa.
- Heluhelu i kahi puke hoʻoikaika a nānā paha i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni (kakaikahi). He mea nui wale nō ʻaʻole e haʻalele i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole e hele i nā moeʻuhane no ka manawa lōʻihi.
- Hoʻolohe wau i nā mele e hoʻopiha ai iaʻu i ka ikaika a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana: mai ke mele kahiko a me ka jazz a hiki i Queen a me Rammstein — wow!
- Hoʻoulu wau i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i kēia mau hana 🙂
- A i kekahi manawa - ua lawa au i ka hiamoe a moloā wau i koʻu naʻau. Eia naʻe, ʻo kēia ka lāʻau lapaʻau mua no ka blues.
Ma ke ala, ʻike wau ʻo Facebook, kahi aʻu i makemake nui ai i ka makahiki i hala, he mea ikaika. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻokomo iā ʻoe i ke kūlana o ke kupuna wahine, a hoʻokiʻekiʻe iā ʻoe i nā hōkū o ka hoʻoikaika ʻana (ʻo wau a me koʻu mau hoaaloha). E nānā ana i ka mea e kākau ai a heluhelu ma laila. ʻAe, e hoʻohana me ka haʻahaʻa.
Hana hana
A he aha kāu e hana ai ke ʻike koke ʻoe ua lilo ʻoe i "kūpunahine"?
E aʻo e nānā i ka hoʻokomo ʻana o kēia mokuʻāina iā ʻoe iho.
Hana i kahi papa inoa o nā hana e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe mai ia mea.
Hana i hoʻokahi mea i kēlā me kēia lā!
He mea maikaʻi ke hoʻomaopopo i nā kumu kumu - no ke aha ʻoe i lilo koke ai i kupuna wahine? A laila e hemo mālie lākou. He mea pono ke hana pū me ka psychologist maikaʻi.