ʻO ke ao holoʻokoʻa: mai ka wā kamaliʻi makemake nā keiki i ke kaha kiʻi. "I ka manawa a mākou e hāʻawi ai iā lākou i ka manawa, inā ma ke one me kahi lāʻau a i ʻole ma kahi ʻāpana me nā māka, huki lākou." A no ke kumu maikaʻi, "he mea nui ia o kā lākou hoʻomohala psychomotor", wehewehe ʻo Roseline Davido. ʻO ia hoʻi "he ala maikaʻi a aloha e kamaʻilio me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Nui ka manaʻo o ke kiʻi », Hōʻike i ka psychoanalyst. E like me kāna wehewehe ʻana, "ʻaʻole he hana hoʻokahi ke kaha kiʻi. Ma ka hāʻawi ʻana i kāna kiʻi kiʻi i kona mau mākua, hana maoli ʻo ia i makana. ʻAʻole huki ke keiki nona iho akā e kaʻana like i kona pono, e hōʻike i hiki iā ia ke hana i kekahi mea ". Eia kekahi, inā makemake kahi mea liʻiliʻi e haehae i kāna mau kaha kiʻi, "hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i kahi haʻalele iā ia iho a i ʻole nā pilikia i ke kamaʻilio ʻana. », Hoʻohui i ka loea.
No Roseline Davido, he mea nui e hōʻike i ko mākou hoihoi i nā kiʻi o kāna keiki liʻiliʻi, ma ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana iā ia, me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana iā ia. Mai hoʻokaʻulua e hōʻike a lawe paha i kāna hana haku i ke keʻena e hoʻonui ai. "He ala ia e launa pū ai me kāu keiki, e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia, e hōʻike iā ia ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hana i kēia mau hana me ka ʻole". E hoʻomanaʻo hoʻi e hāʻawi i kāu keiki liʻiliʻi me nā pepa a me nā penikala ma kahi kikoʻī o ka hale.
Kiʻi ʻohana
Ke hoʻomaka ʻo ia e kaha kiʻi, ʻo ia hoʻi, mai ke kahua scribbling, "hana ka mea liʻiliʻi i kahi projection o kāna hoʻomohala ʻana," wahi a Roseline Davido. A i ka manawa e hana ai ʻo ia i nā kiʻi, pinepine, hoʻomaka ʻo ia ma ke ʻano he ʻohana. Hōʻike ʻia nā hoʻopili makua ma kāna kiʻi. Eia kekahi, Wahi a ka poʻe loea, ma kahi pepa, "ʻo ka hema ka mea pili i ka makuahine, i ka wā i hala, ke kikowaena, kēia manawa, ka ʻākau, ka pili ʻana i ka makua kāne, ʻo ia hoʻi ka holomua. ʻIke ʻia ka manawa o ka complex Oedipus i nā kiʻi o nā keiki liʻiliʻi. Eia kekahi laʻana, "ʻo ke kaikamahine liʻiliʻi, ka mea i manaʻo hewa iki no kona makemake i kona makuakāne ma mua o kona makuahine, e ʻike a hoʻohui iā ia i kāna mau kiʻi. Hāʻawi kekahi mau kaikamahine iā lākou iho i nā ʻano like me ko lākou makuahine: nā apo pepeiao, nā ʻaʻahu… ʻike ʻia ke ʻano like i ke keiki liʻiliʻi, e makemake ana e holoi a hoʻohālike paha i kona makuakāne e like me ka hiki, "i ʻōlelo ai ʻo Roseline Davido.
ʻO ke kaha kiʻi a ke pēpē, e hōʻike ana i nā pilikia?
"ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i nā kaha kiʻi he ʻoihana loea," wehewehe ʻo Roseline Davido. ” Mai ka wā e huki ai ke keiki, ʻaʻole na nā mākua e wehewehe », Ua hoakaka ia. A laila ʻaʻole hiki i kahi kiʻi kiʻi ke hōʻike i nā mea āpau, pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ka pōʻaiapili, "hoʻohui ʻo ia. Wahi a ka psychoanalyst, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka nānā ʻana i nā hopena o kāu keiki i ka wā e huki ai ʻo ia, e hoʻolohe i ka moʻolelo āna e haʻi nei, me ka nīnau ʻole ʻana iā ia i nā nīnau he nui. Pono e ʻae ʻia ke keiki e hōʻike iā ia iho, e nīnau iā ia ma ke ʻano kūʻokoʻa i ʻole e hoʻohuli iā ia. "ʻIke mākou i kekahi manawa i nā keiki 6-7 mau makahiki e hōʻole i ke kaha kiʻi no ka mea maopopo lākou he manaʻo huna kā lākou kiʻi a i ʻole e ʻae lākou e komo i loko o ko lākou ola".
Inā ʻae nā kiʻi i nā loea e ʻike i nā pilikia noʻonoʻo a i ʻole nā hakakā ʻohana, mahalo i nā kala, nā haʻalele ʻana o nā ʻano a i ʻole nā ʻāpana o ke kino, hiki iā lākou ke ʻike i nā pilikia physiological. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ” ke kahakiʻi ke keiki i nā kiʻi hina, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ua kaumaha ʻo ia. He makapō kala wale paha ʻo ia », Hoʻoikaika ʻo Roseline Davido. A inā ma 4-5 mau makahiki, hoʻohana ke keiki i kona manawa doodle, pono e nānā ʻia kona lohe ʻana a i ʻole kona ʻike maka ma mua o ka noʻonoʻo pono ʻana i nā pilikia noʻonoʻo. No Roseline Davido, pono ʻoe e hoʻolohe i kāu keiki liʻiliʻi no ka mea "ʻo nā kiʻi e hāʻawi iā mākou i ka ʻike leo e pili ana i ka ulu ʻana o kāu keiki".