PSYchology

Ua ʻike ʻia a helu ʻia i nā hola: ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka mea noho ma Rusia ma mua o nā ʻEulopa, ʻAmelika a me ʻAsia. Akā ʻo ia, ʻaʻole ʻike ʻo ia i ka hoʻomaha. Huhū ʻo ia, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomaha, hoʻomaha a, no laila, ʻaʻole hiki ke hana hou me ka hoʻolaʻa piha o ka ikaika. No laila, e hoʻomaka kākou e aʻo e hoʻomaha.

He noʻeau ka palaualelo me ka ʻono a me ka leʻaleʻa. ʻO ka ʻāina no ka palaualelo hiki ke ʻokoʻa - ʻo ka mea nui ʻo ia kāu pilikino. ʻO kahi mokuʻāina liʻiliʻi kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke pakele mai nā hopohopo.

Hiki iā ia ke lilo i kou noho lima punahele, sofa, moena, TV rug a i ʻole kahi noho ma ke kihi o ka pākaukau kīhini. Pono wale ʻoe e ʻoluʻolu ma laila, aia kahi e waiho ai i kāu mau mea punahele punahele: e kau i ke kīʻaha, e kau i kahi makasina. A ʻoiai he wahi moe ka moena, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kekahi ʻano pūnana ʻoluʻolu ma laila. E ʻai i ka ʻaina kakahiaka, e moe i lalo, e heluhelu, e ʻai i nā kuki Pelekane…

Akā ʻo ka wahi maʻamau no ka palaualelo, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ka sofa. A pono ʻo ia e like me ʻoe. E hoʻonohonoho e like me kou mau manaʻo ponoʻī o ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka coziness. I ka manawa like, e hoʻomanaʻo e pili ana i nā uluna, no ka mea, ʻo kahi uluna he "moʻomeheu" holoʻokoʻa, kahi ʻano hiʻohiʻona i ka hoʻolālā a he mea ʻoluʻolu a nani wale nō.

I nā hola hana paʻa, e hoʻomanaʻo i ke kali ʻana o kou sofa, ka pākeke, ka pahu kokoleka ma lalo o kou uluna iā ʻoe ma ka home.

Hiki i nā pillowcases no nā cushions sofa kekahi mea: nā kala ʻulaʻula a pastel paha, patchwork, knitted, velvet, canvas, tapestry (ʻo ka mea nui e ʻoluʻolu ʻoe e hoʻopā iā lākou). Me nā ʻōpala, nā kaula, nā ʻano puʻuwai, nā lau maple a me nā lau ʻoka…

Ua piha nā hale kūʻai i nā uluna i hoʻomākaukau ʻia, a me nā lole a me nā mea pono e hana ai i nā pillowcases iā ʻoe iho. E hana hoʻokahi - e hoʻomaha ʻoe no ka manawa lōʻihi. Pono e nui nā uluna ma ka sofa. E like me kou ʻono, ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā, i kekahi hihia, ʻoi aku ma mua o ʻelua. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, inā moloā ʻoe no ka pono o kāu ʻoihana, pono ʻoe e moe i lalo me nā uluna, ʻo ka mua, ma lalo o kou poʻo, a ʻo ka lua, ma lalo o kou mau wāwae. Pono e hoʻokiʻekiʻe nā wāwae, a laila hoʻomaha loa lākou.

Hiki ke pani ʻia kekahi o nā uluna me nā mea pāʻani palupalu. ʻO nā bea, nā ʻīlio a me nā holoholona ʻē aʻe e ʻoluʻolu e hoʻopā, paʻa i nā lima, hahau ʻaʻole no nā keiki wale nō. E hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe i kāu pāʻani ponoʻī, hiki iā ʻoe ke waiho ma lalo o kou poʻo, ma lalo o kou mau lima, ma lalo o kou mau kuli, e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomaha.

Ma ke ala, ke hele mai nei nā wahine i nā hale kūʻai pāʻani e kūʻai aku i nā pēpē, puaʻa momona, nā kīʻaha ʻakaʻaka a me nā mea ʻē aʻe ʻaʻole no nā keiki, akā no lākou iho. A pololei loa lākou.

Ma ke ala, pono e ʻike nā ʻohana he ʻāina kūʻokoʻa kēia a hiki ke noho ʻia me kāu ʻae.

Pono ka nānā kūikawā i kahi ākea ākea, pono e kau pololei ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka sofa a i ʻole ka noho lima. Hiki iā ia ke pākaukau liʻiliʻi (no ka laʻana, mobile), kahi pā a i ʻole kahi noho lāʻau liʻiliʻi.

ʻO ke ala maʻalahi a maʻalahi loa e hoʻonohonoho i kou ʻāina ponoʻī, ʻo ia ka lawe ʻana i kahi noho lāʻau maʻamau, pena i ke ʻano āu e makemake ai, kau i kahi kīʻaha nani ma luna, kahi pā me ka ʻāpana ʻalani, ʻāpala, ʻono, kuki a noho i lalo. e nānā i kāu moʻolelo punahele a i ʻole ke aʻo ʻana i ka mōʻaukala o ka Middle Ages. A i ʻole ka heluhelu puke a me ka makasina.

Hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe i kēia pākaukau a i ʻole kahi papaʻaina e hoʻomaha me ʻoe a puni ke keʻena. ʻO ka mea nui, ʻoiai e noho ana ma ka papahele (ma luna o kahi moena, uluna), manaʻo ʻoe i ka home, palekana. Kahi hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaha.

I nā hola hana paʻa, e hoʻomanaʻo i ke ʻano o kou sofa, ka pākeke, ka pahu kokoleka ma lalo o ka uluna a me kahi kīʻaha kofe e kali nei iā ʻoe ma ka home. A laila e hala ka lā paʻakikī ʻaʻole wale i ka wikiwiki, akā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.

Ma ke ala, pono e ʻike nā ʻohana he ʻāina kūʻokoʻa kēia a hiki ke noho ʻia me kāu ʻae. A o ka manawa o ko oukou hoomaha ana e laa ia lakou. ʻIke au i nā ʻohana kahi, ma hope o nā huaʻōlelo "pono ​​ka makuahine e hoʻomaha" a i ʻole "Ua luhi ʻo Sveta," hiki mai kahi "hola mālie" no kahi wahine, i ka wā ʻaʻole loaʻa iā lākou nā nīnau, ʻaʻole lākou e huki iā ia. A inā hele lākou, a laila ma ka piko. A i loko o ia mau ʻohana e hauʻoli ai ka wahine a piha i ka ikaika.

He mea nui ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ʻoluʻolu e hoʻomaha ai, akā i mea e aʻo ai pehea e hoʻomaha piha ai, ʻaʻole lawa kēia. ʻO ka hohonu o ka hoʻoinu ʻana i ke ʻano o ka mālie a me ka palaualelo e pili ana i ka nui o kou ʻae ʻana iā ʻoe iho e hoʻomaha. Ke manaʻo nei paha ʻoe i kekahi manawa ua loaʻa iā ʻoe nā kuleana āpau e hana ʻole?

Hana wau me nā ʻōlelo hōʻoia a aloha i kēia: "ʻOiai wau e palaualelo, ʻo ke ola ponoʻī e hoʻoponopono i koʻu mau pilikia noʻu" (hiki iā ʻoe ke kākau iā ia a i ʻole e haʻi pinepine iā ʻoe iho). Kōkua ia i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i ka hewa, ʻaʻole ia e ʻae i kā mākou wahine e palaualelo loa. Akā, he kumuhana kēia no ke kūkākūkā kaʻawale.

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