"ʻAe, he aha ka keke me kou kiʻi", "he mau papalina kou e like me ka hamster", "inā ʻoi aku kou lōʻihi ...". I nā mākua he nui, ʻo ia mau ʻōlelo e pili ana i ke ʻano o kā lākou mau kaikamahine me he mea lā he hala ʻole, no ka mea, "ʻo wai ka mea e haʻi i ke keiki i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, inā ʻaʻole he makuahine aloha." Akā me kā lākou mau ʻōlelo a me kā lākou hana, waiho lākou i loko o ka manaʻo o ke keiki kānalua ponoʻī, paʻakikī a me nā makaʻu. ʻO kahi moʻo pāʻoihana hou e kōkua iā ʻoe e nānā iā ʻoe iho mai waho.
Cosmetic brand Dove ua hoʻomaka i ka moʻo o ka nohona wikiō "I loko o ka 'ohana 'aʻole me ka haʻawina" - he papahana i loko o ka presenters Tatyana Lazareva a me Mikhail Shats, me ka hoʻohana 'ana i ka laʻana o nā kūlana kūikawā mai ke ola, ma keʻano hoʻohenehene, kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka ka mana o na makua i ka manao o ka lakou mau kaikamahine. ʻO ka pahuhopu o ka papahana ka huki ʻana i ka manaʻo o ka poʻe mākua i ke ʻano o ko lākou ʻike ʻole ʻana i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i nā complexes i nā keiki.
Ua koi ʻia nā mea hoʻonohonoho e hana i ka papahana e kahi noiʻi i hana pū ʻia me ka All-Russian Center for Public Opinion. Ua hōʻike ʻia kāna mau hopena i nā helu helu kaumaha i nā mea e pili ana i ka manaʻo ponoʻī i waena o ka hanauna ʻōpio: ʻo ka hapa nui o nā kaikamahine ʻōpio makahiki 14-17 ʻaʻole hauʻoli i ko lākou helehelena. I ka manawa like, ʻōlelo ʻo 38% o nā mākua makemake lākou e hoʻololi i kekahi mea i ka helehelena o kā lākou kaikamahine.
Hōʻike ʻia nā wikiō o ka papahana ma ke ʻano o kahi hōʻike kamaʻilio, e hana ana ma ke kumu o ka ʻōlelo aʻo maikaʻi ʻole. Ke holo nei kēlā me kēia paʻi o ka papahana fictitious ma lalo o ka slogan "Bulling hoʻomaka ma ka home": i loko o kona ʻano, hiki i nā mākua ke aʻo pehea e hōʻino ai i ka hilinaʻi ponoʻī o nā keiki "pololei".
Ma ka pukana mua, e aʻo nā mākua o Lena liʻiliʻi i ke ʻano o ka "imperceptibly" i kā lāua kaikamahine, me kona helehelena, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kiʻi ʻia ʻana me kona lauoho i lalo.
Ma ka lua o ka pukana, loaʻa i ka makuahine a me ke kupuna wahine o Oksana nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e pili ana i ka pale ʻana i kahi kaikamahine mai ke kūʻai ʻana i nā jeans ʻano ʻaʻole hiki ke ʻaʻahu ʻia me kona ʻili. ʻO ka hoʻopuka pū kekahi i ka «star expert» — mele Lolita, ka mea i hōʻoia i ka «effectiveness» o keia ano a me ka hoomanao ana pehea, me kona kokua, kona makuahine i ka manawa i hoʻohaʻahaʻa iho i ka hilinaʻi ponoʻī o kahi mea kaulana e hiki mai ana.
Ma ka pukana ʻekolu, loaʻa ka ʻōlelo aʻo e ka makuakāne a me ke kaikunāne o Angelina, ka mea makemake nui e aʻo i ke kaikamahine e pili ana i nā hemahema o ke kiʻi. ʻO ka trolling i kēlā me kēia lā ka mea āu e pono ai!
Manaʻo ka hapa nui o nā mākua e makemake wale lākou i ka maikaʻi no kā lākou mau keiki. Akā i kekahi manawa he hopena maikaʻi ʻole kekahi mau hōʻike o ke aloha a me ka mālama. A inā ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou iho ke ʻae i ke keiki e like me ia, ʻaʻole paha e hiki iā ia iho ke hana i kēia. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, i ka wā kamaliʻi, ua hoʻomanaʻo ʻia kona kiʻi ponoʻī i nā manaʻo o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe: ʻo nā mea a pau a nā mākua nui e ʻōlelo ai e pili ana iā ia e hoʻomanaʻo ʻia a lilo i ʻāpana o kona manaʻo ponoʻī.
Makemake wau e manaʻolana kēlā mau mākua i ʻike iā lākou iho i loko o nā wikiō e noʻonoʻo i kā lākou makemake maoli no kā lākou mau keiki. I ka wā kamaliʻi, ʻaʻole i loaʻa ka nui o mākou i nā loiloi maikaʻi mai nā pākeke, akā i kēia manawa ua loaʻa iā mākou kahi manawa e pale aku ai i kēia i kā mākou pilina me kā mākou mau keiki. ʻAe, he nui ko mākou ʻike ola, ua ʻelemakule mākou, akā e ʻae kākou: he nui kā mākou e aʻo ai. A inā ʻo ia mau haʻawina hoʻohenehene e noʻonoʻo hou ai kekahi i ko lākou manaʻo e pili ana i ka makua, maikaʻi ia.
* https://wciom.ru/analytical-reviews/analiticheskii-obzor/indeks-podrostkovoi-samoocenki-brenda-dove