Hoʻomaopopo wau, i ka papa hope loa, ua haʻi mai ke kumu physics iā mākou: "Mai hala i nā hōʻike, e hele ʻoe i ke kula hana no nā mea lauoho." A ʻaʻohe mea ʻo ka uku o ka mea lauoho lauoho maʻalahi ʻoi aku ʻelua a ʻekolu paha manawa ma mua o kāna. Akā ua haki ʻia mākou i loko o ko mākou mau poʻo e hele wale nā mea nalo i nā lauoho. No laila, ʻo ka hala ʻole o ka hōʻike e hāʻawi i kou ola.
Ma ke ala, ʻo kekahi o kaʻu mau hoa papa, i ke aʻo ʻana e lilo i economists, pau i ka hana me ka manicure. ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole wau e kāhea ana no ka sabotaging ʻana i ka ʻike kiʻekiʻe. Akā ua kaumaha nui ʻia nā haumāna puka ma muli o kāna. A ma luna o nā mea āpau i nā kula.
Ke hoʻopau nei ke kaikamahine a kaʻu hoaloha i ka papa 11 ma kēia makahiki. He kaikamahine akamai a loea kēia. Makemake ʻo ia i ka ʻepekema lolouila, ʻaʻole lawe mai i nā pākolu o kāna puke pai. Akā hopohopo ʻo ia ʻaʻole e hala i kahi hōʻike.
"Makaʻu wau ʻaʻole wau e hana, ʻaʻole wau e kū i kāu mau manaʻolana," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia i kona makuahine. "Makaʻu wau e hoʻokuʻu wau iā ʻoe i lalo."
ʻOiai, ke hoʻāʻo nei kahi hoaaloha e hōʻoluʻolu i kāna kaikamahine, akā paʻakikī kēia, no ka mea a laila hele ke kaikamahine i ke kula, a ma laila, ma muli o ka Unified State Exam, aia kahi hysteria maoli.
- I kēlā me kēia puna, i waena o nā ʻōpio 16-17, ke ulu nui nei ka nui o nā hoʻāʻo pepehi kanaka. Aia kekahi mau hopena make, - i ʻōlelo ʻia e ka psychologist ʻo Larisa Surkova. - Ua ʻike nā kānaka āpau i ke kumu: "hala ma mua o ka hōʻike." Pōmaikaʻi ke kanaka nona ka manaʻo o kēia mau "leka leʻaleʻa" ʻekolu.
Pehea e hoʻomaha ai i kāu keiki ma mua o ka hōʻike
1. Inā he mea nui ka hopena o ka hōʻike iā ʻoe, a laila pono ʻoe e hoʻomākaukau i kāu keiki ma ka liʻiliʻi i ʻelua mau makahiki ma mua.
2. Mai hoʻohaʻahaʻa i kāu keiki. Mai hoʻohana i nā māmalaʻōlelo "inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hele - mai hoʻi i ka home", "inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻokolokolo, ʻaʻole wau e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe e hoʻi i ka home". I kekahi manawa ua lohe wau i kahi ʻāpono mai koʻu makuahine me ka huaʻōlelo "ʻaʻole ʻo ia kaʻu keiki hou, hilahila wau iā ia." Mai ʻōlelo i kēlā!
3. E kiaʻi i kāu keiki. Inā ʻai iki ʻo ia, hāmau, ʻaʻole kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe, haʻalele iā ia iho, ʻaʻole hiamoe maikaʻi - he kumu kēia e kani ai ka pū waikaua.
4. E kamaʻilio mau me kāu keiki. Hana i nā hoʻolālā no kona wā e hiki mai ana. E hele ana ʻo ia i ke kulanui. He aha ka mea e kali ai mai ke ola.
5. E kamaʻilio me ia e pili ana i nā mea hou aʻe ma mua o kāu mau haʻawina. I kekahi manawa, ma kaʻu noi, mālama nā mākua i nā diary kamaʻilio. Ma laila ka hele ʻana o nā huaʻōlelo āpau i ka nīnau: “He aha ka mea i ke kula?”
6. I nā kūlana kānalua, e ʻōlelo pololei. E kamaʻilio e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo, aloha ʻoe iā ia a he mea nui ia iā ʻoe. E kamaʻilio me kāu keiki e pili ana i ka waiwai o ke ola. Inā ʻike ʻoe i nā ʻōuli kānalua, lawe koke mai i kahi psychologist, laka i nā hale, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka mālama ʻana.
7. E kaʻana like i kāu mau ʻike. E pili ana i ka ʻike o ka hala ʻana i nā hoʻokolohua, e pili ana i kā lākou holomua.
8. ʻAʻole hoʻopilikia ʻo Glycine lāua ʻo Magne B6 i kekahi. ʻO ka papa o ke komo ʻana no 1-2 mau mahina e hoʻihoʻi i nā aʻa o ke keiki i ka maʻamau.
9. E hoʻomākaukau pū! I ka wā e hoʻomākaukau ana māua ʻo kaʻu kaikamahine ʻo Masha no ka USE ma nā puke, poina iaʻu ka manaʻo "he nonsense piha kēia." A laila ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka palena iki o ka moho.
10. He mea nui ke aʻo ʻana, akā waiwai ʻole nā hoa aloha, ʻohana, ola a me ke olakino. E kūkā kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke koʻikoʻi o ke ola. E haʻi mai iā mākou aia he mau mea i ʻoi aku ka weliweli ma mua o ka hāʻule ʻole ma ka hōʻike. Hāʻawi i nā laʻana kikoʻī.
11. E hāʻawi i ke kākoʻo kiʻekiʻe loa i kāu keiki, no ka mea, kau pinepine ʻia nā keiki ma lalo o ke kaomi nui ma ke kula.