"E nānā iā ia": he nīnauele me Anna Starobinets

Nā manaʻo noʻonoʻo: No ke aha i pane aku ai nā kauka Lūkini i nā nīnau e pili ana i ka hoʻohemo ʻana? ʻAʻole anei nā hale lapaʻau āpau e hana i kēia ma ko mākou ʻāina? A i ʻole he kānāwai ʻole ka hoʻopau ʻana i ka wā lōʻihi? He aha ke kumu o ia pilina ʻano ʻē?

Anna Starobinets: Ma Rūsia, ʻo nā keʻena lapaʻau kūikawā wale nō e hana i ka hoʻopau ʻana i ka hāpai ʻana no nā kumu olakino i ka wā hope. ʻOiaʻiʻo, he kānāwai kēia, akā ma nā wahi i koho ʻia. No ka laʻana, i loko o ka like infectious maʻi haukapila ma Sokolina Gora, ka mea i aloha nui e makau wahine hapai ma antenatal clinics.

ʻO ke aloha aloha i kahi keiki: ka moʻolelo o Anna Starobinets

ʻO ka wahine i kū i ka pono e hoʻopau i ka hāpai ʻana i kahi lā ma hope aku ʻaʻole hiki ke koho i kahi keʻena olakino e kūpono iā ia. Akā, ʻo ka koho maʻamau ʻaʻole i ʻoi aku ma mua o ʻelua mau wahi kūikawā.

E pili ana i ka hopena o nā kauka: pili ia me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ma Rūsia ʻaʻohe pono o ka pono a me ka ethical protocol no ka hana ʻana me ia mau wahine. ʻO ia hoʻi, ma ka ʻōlelo ʻana, subconsciously kekahi kauka - ʻo kā mākou a i ʻole Kelemania - manaʻo i ka makemake e hoʻokaʻawale iā ia iho mai kahi kūlana. ʻAʻole makemake kekahi o nā kauka e lawe i kahi pēpē make. ʻAʻole makemake kekahi o nā wahine e hānau i kahi keiki make.

ʻO ia wale nō ka pono o nā wāhine. A no nā kauka i laki i ka hana i loko o nā hale hana ʻaʻole e pili ana i nā keakea (ʻo ia hoʻi, ka hapa nui o nā kauka), ʻaʻohe pono. ʻO ka mea a lākou e haʻi aku ai i nā wahine me ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka nui o ka hoʻopailua, me ke kānana ʻole ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo a me nā leo. No ka mea, ʻaʻohe protocol etika.

Eia nō hoʻi e hoʻomaopopo ʻia i kekahi manawa, e like me ka mea i ʻike ʻia, ʻaʻole ʻike nā kauka i loko o kā lākou keʻena keʻokeʻo aia nō ka hiki ke hoʻopau ʻia. Eia kekahi laʻana, ma ke kikowaena Moscow. Kulakov, ua haʻi ʻia iaʻu "ʻaʻole lākou e hana i nā mea like." I nehinei nei, ua hoʻopili ʻia au e ka luna hoʻomalu o kēia kikowaena a hoʻomaopopo ʻia i ka makahiki 2012 e hana mau ana lākou i ia mau mea.

Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole like me Kelemania, kahi i kūkulu ʻia ai kahi ʻōnaehana e kōkua i ka mea maʻi i kahi kūlana pilikia a loaʻa i kēlā me kēia limahana kahi protocol o nā hana ma ia ʻano, ʻaʻohe o mākou ʻōnaehana. No laila, he kauka ultrasound specializing i loko o ka hapai pathologies hiki pono e ike ole i kona keʻena keʻena hana i ka hoopau ana o keia mau pathological pregnancies, a me kona mau luna i maopopo ole ia e ike e pili ana ia mea, no ka mea, o kona 'oihana 'oihana ultrasound.

Loaʻa paha nā alakaʻi tacit e pale aku i nā wahine mai ka hoʻopau ʻana i ka hāpai ʻana i mea e hoʻonui ai i ka helu hānau?

ʻAʻole. Kūʻē. I kēia kūlana, ua ʻike ka wahine Lūkini i ke koʻikoʻi psychological mai nā kauka, ua koi maoli ʻia ʻo ia e hana i ka ʻōpū. He nui nā wāhine i haʻi mai iaʻu e pili ana i kēia, a ʻo kekahi o lākou e kaʻana like i kēia ʻike i loko o kaʻu puke - ma kāna ʻāpana ʻelua, nūpepa, ʻāpana. Ua ho'āʻoʻo ia e koi i kona kuleana e hōʻike i ka hāpaiʻana me ka maʻi maʻi o ka'ōpū, e hānau i kahi keiki i mua o kāna kāne, e'ōlelo maikaʻi a kanu. ʻO ka hopena, ua hānau ʻo ia ma ka home, me ka pilikia nui o kona ola a, me he mea lā, ma waho o ke kānāwai.

I Kelemānia, ʻoiai ma kahi kūlana me kahi keiki ola ʻole, ʻaʻole e haʻi i kahi keiki me ka Down syndrome like, hāʻawi mau ʻia i kahi wahine ke koho inā e hōʻike i kēlā hāpai ʻana a hoʻopau paha. Ma ka hihia o Down, ua hāʻawi pū ʻia ʻo ia e kipa aku i nā ʻohana i ulu ai nā keiki me ia maʻi maʻi, a ua hōʻike ʻia hoʻi lākou aia kekahi poʻe e makemake ana e hānai i kēlā keiki.

A inā loaʻa nā hemahema i kūpono ʻole i ke ola, ua haʻi ʻia ka wahine Kelemania e hana ʻia kona hāpai ʻana e like me nā ʻōpū ʻē aʻe, a ma hope o ka hānau ʻana, e hāʻawi ʻia ʻo ia a me kona ʻohana i kahi keʻena kaʻawale a me ka manawa e haʻi aku ai i ka pēpē. ma laila. A ma kāna noi, kāhea ʻia ke kahuna.

I Rusia, ʻaʻohe koho o ka wahine. ʻAʻohe mea makemake i ka hāpai ʻana e like me kēia. Ua kono ʻia ʻo ia e hele i "hoʻokahi ʻanuʻu i ka manawa" no ka hoʻomake ʻana. ʻAʻohe ʻohana a me nā kāhuna. Eia kekahi, ʻoiai i ka hihia o nā pathologies non-lethal, akā koʻikoʻi, ʻo ke ʻano o ka ʻano o nā kauka ke ʻano like: "E hele koke i kahi hoʻopau, a laila e hānau ʻoe i kahi olakino."

No ke aha ʻoe i hoʻoholo ai e hele i Kelemānia?

Ua makemake au e hele i kekahi ʻāina kahi i hana ʻia ai ka hoʻopau ʻana i ka wā hope ma ke ʻano kanaka a me ka makaʻala. Eia kekahi, he mea nui iaʻu he mau hoaaloha a ʻohana paha ma kēia ʻāina. No laila, ʻo ka koho i ka hopena mai ʻehā mau ʻāina: Farani, Hungary, Kelemānia a me ʻIseraʻela.

Ma Farani a me Hunegaria ua hoole mai lakou ia'u, no ka mea. e like me kā lākou mau kānāwai, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻokō ʻia nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa hope loa ma luna o ka poʻe mākaʻikaʻi me ka loaʻa ʻole o kahi palapala noho a kamaʻāina. I loko o ka ʻIseraʻela, ua mākaukau lākou e ʻae mai iaʻu, akā ua ʻōlelo aku lākou e mau ka liʻiliʻi ʻulaʻula i hoʻokahi mahina. I loko o ke keʻena ʻo Berlin Charité, ʻōlelo lākou ʻaʻohe o lākou kapu no nā haole, a e hana koke ʻia nā mea āpau a me ke kanaka. No laila, hele mākou i laila.

ʻAʻole anei ʻoe e manaʻo no kekahi mau wahine he mea maʻalahi ke ola i ka nalowale ʻana o kahi "fetus" a ʻaʻole he "pepe"? A ʻo kēlā kaʻawale, hoʻolewa, kamaʻilio e pili ana i kahi keiki make, pili i kekahi noʻonoʻo a ʻaʻole kūpono i nā mea āpau ma aneʻi. Manaʻo ʻoe e aʻa kēia hana ma ko mākou ʻāina? A ke kōkua maoli nei i nā wahine e hoʻomaha iā lākou iho i ka hewa ma hope o ia ʻike?

I kēia manawa ʻaʻole ia. Ma hope o ka ʻike i loaʻa iaʻu ma Kelemānia. I ka wā mua, ua hele au mai nā ʻano ʻano like ʻole o nā mea āpau o ko mākou ʻāina: ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e nānā i kahi pēpē make, i ʻole e ʻike ʻia ʻo ia i loko o nā moeʻuhane i kona ola a pau. Mai kanu oe iaia, no ka mea, "no ke aha la oe i makemake ai i ka lua o na keiki."

Akā, e pili ana i ka terminological, e olelo aku, acute angle — «fetus» a «pēpē» — Ua hina koke au. ʻAʻole naʻe he kihi ʻoi, akā he ʻoi ʻoi a kui paha. He mea ʻeha loa ka lohe ʻana i kāu keiki, ʻoiai ʻaʻole i hānau ʻia, akā maoli maoli no ʻoe, e neʻe ana i loko ou, ua kapa ʻia he fetus. E like me ia he ʻano paukena a lemona paha. ʻAʻole hōʻoluʻolu, ʻeha.

ʻO ke koena - no ka laʻana, ka pane i ka nīnau, inā paha e nānā iā ia ma hope o ka hānau ʻana a ʻaʻole paha - ua hoʻololi koʻu kūlana mai ka liʻiliʻi a i ka hoʻohui ma hope o ka hānau ʻana iho. A ke mahalo nui nei au i nā kauka Kelemania no ka ʻoiaʻiʻo i ka lā holoʻokoʻa ua hāʻawi ʻoluʻolu lākou iaʻu e "nānā iā ia", hoʻomanaʻo mai iaʻu he manawa kūpono. ʻAʻohe noʻonoʻo. Aia nā manaʻo kanaka āpau. Ma Kelemānia, ua aʻo ʻia lākou e nā poʻe loea - psychologists, kauka - a hana i ʻāpana o ka helu helu. Akā ʻaʻole mākou i aʻo iā lākou a hoʻomaka mai ka manaʻo o ke kupuna wahine antediluvian.

ʻAe, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka wahine inā haʻi aku ʻo ia i ke keiki, no laila e hōʻike ana i ka mahalo a me ke aloha i ke kanaka i hala a ua hala. I kahi liʻiliʻi loa - akā kanaka. ʻAʻole no ka paukena. ʻAe, ʻoi aku ka ʻino o ka wahine inā huli ʻo ia, ʻaʻole nānā, ʻaʻole ʻōlelo maikaʻi, haʻalele "e like me ka hiki ke poina." Ua hewa ʻo ia. ʻAʻole loaʻa iā ia ka maluhia. ʻO ia ka manawa e loaʻa ai iā ia nā moeʻuhane. Ma Kelemānia, ua kamaʻilio nui wau e pili ana i kēia kumuhana me nā loea e hana pū me nā wahine i nalowale i ka hāpai ʻana a i ʻole kahi pēpē hānau hou. E ʻoluʻolu, ʻaʻole i māhele ʻia kēia mau poho i nā ʻukena a me nā ʻukena ʻole. Ua like ke ala.

No ke aha e hiki ai i ka wahine ma Rusia ke hōʻole ʻia i ka hoʻohemo ʻana? Inā pili kēia i nā hōʻailona, ​​​​a laila ua hoʻokomo ʻia ka hana i loko o ka ʻinikua a i ʻole?

Hiki iā lākou ke hōʻole wale inā ʻaʻohe hōʻailona olakino a pilikanaka, akā he makemake wale nō. Akā ʻo ka maʻamau o nā wahine ʻaʻole i loaʻa ia mau hōʻailona i ka lua o ka trimester a ʻaʻohe makemake e hana pēlā. Makemake paha lākou i pēpē, a inā ʻaʻole lākou, ua hoʻopaʻa ʻia lākou ma mua o 12 pule. A ʻae, manuahi ke kaʻina hana hoʻopau. Akā ma nā wahi kūikawā wale nō. A, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe lumi hoʻomaha.

He aha ka mea i ʻike nui iā ʻoe e pili ana i kēlā mau ʻōlelo hoʻoweliweli ma nā ʻaha kūkā a me nā pānaehana kaiapili āu i kākau ai (ua hoʻohālikelike ʻoe iā lākou me nā ʻiole ma lalo)?

Ua ʻeha au i ka nele loa o kahi moʻomeheu o ke aloha, kahi moʻomeheu o ke aloha. ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻaʻohe «ethical protocol» ma nā pae āpau. ʻAʻole i loaʻa i nā kauka a me nā maʻi. ʻAʻole wale ia i loko o ke kaiāulu.

No ka mea he Puritans mākou, no ka hewa o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana, hiki i ka wahine haumia ke ʻeha - mai nā maʻi moe a hiki i ka hānau ʻana. A ʻoiai ʻo mākou ʻo Sparta, pono mākou e hele i loko o kēia mau ʻeha me ka ʻole o ka ʻōlelo ʻana. No laila ka ʻōlelo maʻamau o kahi pale keiki i ka hānau ʻana: "Makemake au ia ma lalo o kahi mahiʻai - mai ʻuā ʻoe." No ka nawaliwali ka uwa a me ka waimaka. A ʻoi aku ka nui o nā hoʻololi genetic.

ʻO kahi embryo me ka hoʻololi ʻana he ʻokiʻoki, he pēpē spoiled. He maikaʻi ʻole ka wahine e ʻaʻahu ana. ʻAʻole makemake nā Spartan iā lākou. ʻAʻole manaʻo ʻia ʻo ia e ʻoluʻolu, akā ʻo ka pāpā ʻana a me ka hoʻomake ʻana. No ka mea, he koʻikoʻi mākou, akā maikaʻi: mai ʻōhumu, hilahila iā ʻoe, holoi i kou snot, alakaʻi i ke ala kūpono o ke ola - a e hānau ʻoe i kahi ola olakino.

He aha ka ʻōlelo aʻo āu e hāʻawi ai i nā wahine i hoʻopau i ka hāpai ʻana a i ʻole ka hāʻule ʻana? Pehea e ola ai? I ʻole e hoʻohewa iā ʻoe iho a ʻaʻole e hāʻule i loko o ke kaumaha hohonu?

Eia, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke aʻo ʻana iā ʻoe e ʻimi i ke kōkua mai kahi loea psychologist. Akā, e like me kaʻu i ʻōlelo ai he kiʻekiʻe iki, paʻakikī loa ka loaʻa ʻana. ʻAʻole e haʻi ʻia he pipiʻi kēia leʻaleʻa. Ma ka lua o ka hapa o ka puke "E nana ia ia", au e kamaʻilio pololei ma keia kumuhana - pehea e ola - me Christine Klapp, MD, poo kauka o ka Charité-Virchow obstetrics clinic ma Berlin, i specializes i ka hope hapai hoopau ana, a. hana 'aʻole wale gynecological, akā, a me psychological 'ōlelo aʻo no ko lakou mau maʻi a me ko lakou mau hoa. Hāʻawi ʻo Kauka Klapp i nā ʻōlelo aʻo hoihoi.

Eia kekahi laʻana, ua manaʻoʻo ia he pono ke komoʻana o ke kāne i loko o ka "kaʻina kanikau", akā pono e hoʻomanaʻo e ho'ōla wikiwikiʻo ia ma hope o ka nalowaleʻana o kahi keiki, a ua paʻakikī hoʻi i ka hoʻomanawanui i ke kanikau a puni ka manawa. Eia naʻe, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻonohonoho maʻalahi me ia e hāʻawi i kahi keiki nalowale, e ʻōlelo, ʻelua mau hola o ka pule. Hiki i ke kanaka ke kamaʻilio i loko o kēia mau hola ʻelua wale nō ma kēia kumuhana - a e hana ʻo ia me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. No laila, ʻaʻole e kaʻawale ka kāne.

Akā ʻo kēia wale nō na mākou, ʻoiaʻiʻo, he ʻāpana o ke ʻano o ka nohona pilikanaka a me ka ʻohana. Ma ko mākou ala, ʻōlelo wau i nā wahine e hoʻolohe mua i ko lākou puʻuwai: inā ʻaʻole mākaukau ka naʻau e "poina a ola", a laila ʻaʻole pono. He kuleana kou i ke kaumaha, ʻaʻole pili i ka manaʻo o kekahi.

ʻO ka mea pōʻino, ʻaʻohe o mākou mau pūʻulu kākoʻo psychological ʻoihana ma nā halemai hānai, akā naʻe, i koʻu manaʻo, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka kaʻana like ʻana i nā ʻike me nā hui ʻoihana ʻole ma mua o ka ʻole e kaʻana like. Eia kekahi laʻana, ma Facebook (kahi hui extremist i pāpāʻia ma Rusia) no kekahi manawa i kēia manawa, e kala mai i ka tautology, aia kahi hui i paniʻia "Ua wehe ka naʻau". Loaʻa ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa kūpono, kahi e pale aku ai i nā trolls a me nā boors (he mea kakaʻikahi no kā mākou pūnaewele kaiapuni), a he nui nā wahine i ʻike a i ʻole ke pohō.

Manaʻo ʻoe ʻo ka hoʻoholo ʻana e mālama i ke keiki he manaʻo wahine wale nō? A ʻaʻole ʻelua mau hoa? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hoʻopau pinepine nā kaikamāhine i kā lākou hāpaiʻana ma ke noi a kā lākou hoaaloha, kāne. Manaʻo ʻoe he kuleana ko nā kāne i kēia? Pehea e mālama ʻia ai kēia ma nā ʻāina ʻē?

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe kuleana kānāwai i ke kāne e koi aku i ka wahine e hoʻopaʻa keiki. Hiki i ka wahine ke pale aku i ke kaomi a hōʻole. A hiki ke hāʻule - a ʻae. He mea maopopo e hiki i ke kanaka ma kekahi ʻāina ke hoʻoikaika i ka noʻonoʻo i ka wahine. ʻO ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o Kelemania a me Russia ma kēia ʻano ʻelua mau mea.

ʻO ka mea mua, ʻo ia ka ʻokoʻa o ka hānai ʻana a me nā code moʻomeheu. Ua aʻo ʻia nā ʻEulopa Komohana mai ka wā kamaliʻi e pale i ko lākou mau palena pilikino a mahalo i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Makaʻala loa lākou i nā manipulations a me ke koʻikoʻi noʻonoʻo.

ʻO ka lua, ʻo ka ʻokoʻa o nā hōʻoia pilikanaka. ʻO ka ʻōlelo koʻikoʻi, ʻo ka wahine Komohana, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hana, akā hilinaʻi nui ʻia i kāna kāne (he mea kakaʻikahi loa ia), he ʻano "cushion palekana" inā haʻalele ʻo ia me kahi keiki. Hiki iā ia ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo e loaʻa iā ia nā pōmaikaʻi kaiaulu, kahi e ola maoli ai kekahi, ʻaʻole naʻe i ka nani loa, nā unuhi mai ka uku o ka makua kāne o ke keiki, a me nā bonus ʻē aʻe no ke kanaka i kahi kūlana pilikia - mai kahi psychologist. i kahi kanaka paahana.

ʻO ka mea pōʻino,ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka wahine Lūkini i kahi kūlana i makemakeʻole ai ka hoa i kahi keiki, akā makemakeʻo ia.

ʻO ka hoʻoholo hope loa, ʻoiaʻiʻo, e noho pū me ka wahine. Eia naʻe, i ka hihia o kahi koho "pro-life", pono e ʻike ʻo ia e lawe ana ʻo ia i ke kuleana ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ka wahine Kelemania kūlana, ʻaʻole loaʻa iā ia kahi cushion pilikanaka, a ʻo ka alimony, inā he, he mea hoʻohenehene. .

No ka ʻaoʻao kānāwai: Ua haʻi mai nā kauka Kelemania iaʻu inā e hoʻopau ʻia ka hāpai ʻana, e ʻōlelo, no ka Down syndrome, loaʻa iā lākou nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e nānā pono i nā kāne. A, ina he mea hoʻohuoi i ka wahine hoʻoholo i ka hoʻopaʻa 'ana ma lalo o ka puʻe mai kona hoa, koke lakou e pane, e hana, kono i ka psychologist, wehewehe i ka wahine i ka pilikanaka pono ia a me kana keiki i hanau ole ia ke kuleana ina oia. hānau ʻia. Ma kahi hua'ōlelo, hana lākou i nā mea a pau e hiki ai ke hoʻokuʻu iā ia mai kēia pilikia a hāʻawi iā ia i ka manawa e hoʻoholo kūʻokoʻa.

Ma hea ʻoe i hānau ai i nā keiki? Ma Rusia? A ua kōkua anei ko lākou hānau ʻana iā lākou i ka ʻeha?

Aia ke kaikamahine hiapo ʻo Sasha ma laila i ka wā i nalowale ai ke keiki. Ua hānau au iā ia ma Rusia, i loko o ka halemai hānai Lyubertsy, i ka makahiki 2004. Ua hānauʻo ia no ka uku, "ma lalo o kaʻaelike." ʻO kaʻu hoaaloha a me kaʻu hoa pili i ka wā hānau (Sasha Sr., ka makuakāne o Sasha Jr., ʻaʻole hiki ke hele mai, a laila noho ʻo ia ma Latvia a ʻo nā mea āpau, e like me kā lākou e ʻōlelo nei, "paʻakikī"), i ka wā o ka Ua hoʻolako ʻia mākou me kahi keʻena kūikawā me ka ʻauʻau a me kahi pōpē nui.

ʻO kēia mau mea a pau he maikaʻi loa a me ka lokomaikaʻi, ʻo ke aloha wale nō mai ka Soviet i hala aku nei he wahine hoʻomaʻemaʻe kahiko me ka bakeke a me ka mop, nāna i ʻelua manawa i uhaʻi i loko o kēia idyll o kā mākou, holoi ʻino i ka papahele ma lalo o mākou a ʻōhumu mālie iā ia iho ma lalo o kona hanu. : “E nana i ka lakou mea i haku ai! Hānau moe ka poʻe maʻamau.

ʻAʻole i loaʻa iaʻu ka anesthesia epidural i ka wā hānau keiki, no ka mea, manaʻo ʻia he mea ʻino ia no ka puʻuwai (ma hope, haʻi mai ke kauka aʻu i ʻike iaʻu i kēlā manawa i loko o ka hale ʻo Lyubertsy kekahi mea i hewa me ka anesthesia - he aha ka "ʻaʻole pololei" , ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu). I ka hānau ʻana o kaʻu kaikamahine, ua hoʻāʻo ke kauka e hoʻoheheʻe i nā ʻokiʻoki i loko o kaʻu hoa kāne kahiko a ʻōlelo ʻo ia, "Ua manaʻo ʻia ʻo Pāpā e ʻoki i ke kaula ʻoʻo." Ua hāʻule ʻo ia i loko o kahi stupor, akā ua hoʻopakele kaʻu hoaaloha i ke kūlana - lawe ʻo ia i ka ʻokiʻoki mai ona aku a ʻoki i kahi mea ma laila. Ma hope o kēlā, ua hāʻawi ʻia mākou i kahi lumi ʻohana, kahi o mākou ʻehā - me kahi keiki hānau hou - a noho i ka pō. Ma keʻano laulā, ua maikaʻi ka manaʻo.

Ua hānau au i kaʻu keiki muli loa, ʻo Leva, ma Latvia, i loko o ka hale maʻi hānai nani ʻo Jurmala, me kahi epidural, me kaʻu kāne aloha. Ua wehewehe ʻia kēia mau hānau ʻana ma ka hope o ka puke Nānā iā ia. A, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua kōkua nui ka hānau ʻana o kahi keikikāne iaʻu.

Aia kekahi mea e like me "lima lima". Ke manaʻo nei ʻoe i kahi keiki, akā no kekahi kumu nalo ʻoe, manaʻo ʻoe me kou ʻuhane a me kou kino a puni ka uaki ua nele kou mau lima, ʻaʻohe o lākou mea e pono ai - kāu pēpē. Ua hoʻopiha ke keiki i kēia hakahaka iā ia iho, ma ke kino. Akā ʻo ka mea ma mua ona, ʻaʻole au e poina. A ʻaʻole au makemake e poina.