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No ke aha mākou e ʻae ai i nā pilina ʻaʻole wale e hoʻohauʻoli iā mākou, akā e hoʻopau i ko mākou olakino a me nā hoʻolālā ola, e lawe i ka ikaika a me ka hoihoi e neʻe i mua? ʻAʻole paha mākou e ʻimi nui i ke aloha ʻoiai mākou e hoʻāʻo nei i kahi kūlana ʻeha, e like me ke aniani, e ʻike a hoʻomaopopo iā mākou iho, e hoʻoponopono i nā hakakā huna huna? Nānā kā mākou poʻe akamai i kekahi o kēia mau moʻolelo.
ʻO ke aloha mōhai he mea hōʻailona pepehi kanaka
ʻO Chris Armstrong, kaʻi
Ua ʻike ʻo Anna i kēia kāne no ʻekolu a me ka hapa makahiki a ua aloha ʻo ia iā ia no ka manawa like. ʻOiai ʻo kēia manaʻo i kekahi manawa hāʻawi iā ia i nā manawa o ka ʻike euphoric, hoʻohana ʻo ia i ka hapa nui o ka manawa i kahi kūlana o ka manaʻo ʻole a me ka melancholy. ʻO kāna mea i kapa ai ʻo ke aloha ua hoʻopau i kona ola holoʻokoʻa. Ua kākau ʻo Anna iaʻu e noi ana i ke kōkua, me ka haʻi ʻana he liʻiliʻi kona manaʻolana e hoʻololi i ke kūlana.
Ke haʻi aku nei au ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei au i ka manaʻolana inā ʻaʻole ia e hoʻohuli i ke kūlana maoli o nā mea, e alakaʻi ana i ka honua o nā manaʻo kilokilo. ʻAʻohe mea kupanaha e pili ana i ka ʻae ʻana o ka mea aloha a Anna iā ia iho e hoʻokele i kahi kaʻa i ka ʻona i ka wā e noho ana ʻo ia ma hope ona. A ua kamaʻilio ʻo ia i nā mea ʻino e pili ana iā ia i nā hoaaloha i kona ʻike ʻana ua hopohopo ʻo ia i kona pilikia me ka waiʻona.
Nui nā hiʻohiʻona like ma ka moʻolelo o Anna. Ma muli o nā ʻike, ua lilo ʻo ia i ka nui o ke kaumaha, ua piʻi aʻe nā maʻi maʻi, a ua ulu ke kaumaha. ʻO ka mea nāna i hāʻawi i ka ikaika nui e noho ana ma kekahi kūlanakauhale ʻē aʻe. A no kēia mau manawa, hoʻokahi wale nō ʻo ia i lele aku iā ia e hui ai. Lele ʻo Anna iā ia iho a ma kāna uku ponoʻī. Ma ka hana, ʻaʻole wale ʻo ia i loaʻa i kahi hoʻokiʻekiʻe, akā ua kokoke ʻo ia e hoʻokuʻu ʻia ma muli o ka aneane pau ʻole o kona hoihoi i nā mea āpau.
Me ka lawe ʻole ʻana i ko mākou ola ponoʻī, hana mākou i kahi hōʻailona pepehi kanaka.
He mau keiki kāne ʻelua ʻo Anna o ke kula, a ʻike maopopo ʻia ʻo ka hoa pili i ka waiʻona ʻaʻole ia he kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi loa no lāua. Ua hoʻomaopopo ʻo ia e hoʻopau ana kēia pilina ʻeha i kona ola a pili i ke ola o kāna mau keiki, akā ʻo ka hoʻopau ʻana iā lākou ma waho o kona mana. Ua ʻike mākou a pau i ka mele kaulana Beatles: "ʻO ke aloha wale nō ʻoe." E ʻōlelo hou wau: ʻo ke aloha olakino wale nō kā mākou e pono ai. A i ʻole, hāʻule mākou i loko o kahi puʻupuʻu o ka ʻeha naʻaupō e lawe i nā makahiki o ko mākou ola.
Manaʻo wau aia ke kī o ke kūlana o Anna i hoʻokahi ʻōlelo o kāna leka. Ua ʻae ʻo ia ua moeʻuhane ʻo ia i ka loaʻa ʻana o ke aloha e hiki ai ke make. He mea aloha ia, a makemake mākou a pau e piʻi aʻe ma luna o ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā, akā ʻo ke aloha i kūpono i ka make no ka mea maʻamau ke alakaʻi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo me ka ʻole o ka lawe kino ʻana i ko mākou ola ponoʻī, hana mākou i ka pepehi kanaka hōʻailona. Nalo mākou i ka ikehu, nā makemake a me nā hoʻolālā, hoʻohaʻahaʻa mākou i kā mākou mau makahiki maikaʻi loa.
Pono anei ke aloha i ka mohai? Hiki paha i ka pane pololei i kēia nīnau ke hoʻololi i ke kūlana.
"ʻO ka ʻike pilikino wale nō e hiki ke pale iā mākou"
ʻO Lev Khegai, ka mea loiloi Jungian
No ke aha mākou e komo ai i loko o nā pilina hoʻomāinoino loa? Hiki ke nui nā kumu.
He mau hiʻohiʻona hoʻohaʻahaʻa paha kēia e koi iā mākou i ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana iā mākou iho, a ʻo kahi kuʻikahi me kahi hoa e hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā mākou e kōkua i kēia. Malia paha he mau ho'āʻo kēia e kūkulu hou i ka wā kamaliʻi, i ka wā i hoʻopiʻi ʻia ai ka pilina me ka makua kāne a makuahine paha me ka hana ʻino, mālama ʻole, palekana.
Ma ia mau hihia, ho'āʻo mākou me ka ʻike ʻole e hana hou iā lākou, me ka manaʻolana huna o ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā mea āpau. Ke ʻimi nei ka heroine i kahi pilina, e like me kāna, ʻaʻole ia he mea minamina i ka make. Hiki i kēia hulina ke hūnā i ka moeʻuhane o ka make hōʻailona o ke ʻano mua o ke kanaka a me ka hānau hou ʻana ma kahi ʻano hou.
ʻO ka hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi ʻana iā mākou iho a me kā mākou mau ʻike ʻole hiki ke pale iā mākou mai ka luku ʻana iā mākou iho.
ʻO ke aloha nui, ka ecstasy o ka pilina, ka ʻike pilikino hiki ke waiho ʻia me ka ʻike ʻole ʻia e ke kanaka i ke kumu o kahi ʻike hou, no ka ʻike ʻana i nā pilina hou e pono ai.
Makemake mākou e lilo i mea ʻokoʻa, a ua kīkē maoli ʻia ka wedge e ka wedge. ʻAʻole mākou e hoʻokaʻawale me ka "I" kahiko inā ʻaʻole mākou e hāʻule i loko o ka ʻino o kahi pilikia ʻike. No laila, he aloha hou, i kapa ʻia e hoʻololi i ko mākou ola, hiki ke pupule a luku.
ʻO ka hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi wale ʻana iā mākou iho a me kā mākou mau ʻike ʻole e hiki ke pale iā mākou mai ka luku ʻana iā mākou iho.