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Ua ulu aʻe ka nui o mākou me ka manaʻoʻiʻo he polygamous nā kāne a he monogamous nā wahine. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole pili kēia stereotype e pili ana i ka moekolohe, wahi a kā mākou sexologists. Akā he aha ka mea maʻamau i kēia lā - ʻo ka polygamy o nā kāne ʻelua a i ʻole ko lākou kūpaʻa?
"ʻO nā kāne a me nā wahine he polygamous ma ke ʻano"
ʻO Alain Eril, ka mea noiʻi psychoanalyst, sexologist:
Ke aʻo mai nei ke kumumanaʻo o ka psychoanalysis iā mākou āpau, nā kāne a me nā wahine, ma ke ʻano he polygamous, ʻo ia hoʻi, hiki i ka manawa like ke ʻike i nā makemake multidirectional. ʻOiai ke aloha a makemake mākou i kā mākou hoa a i ʻole hoa, pono kā mākou libido i nā mea he nui.
ʻO ka ʻokoʻa wale nō inā e neʻe mākou i nā hana kūpono a i ʻole mākou e hoʻoholo a loaʻa ka ikaika i loko o mākou iho e pale aku iā lākou. Ma mua, i loko o kā mākou moʻomeheu, he kuleana ko ke kāne, akā ʻaʻole ka wahine.
I kēia lā, koi pinepine nā kāne ʻōpio i ka hilinaʻi piha.
Ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, hiki ke ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e hoʻoikaika iā mākou i kekahi pilikia, i kekahi manawa paʻakikī ke hoʻomanawanui, akā ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka huhū kahi manawa e hoʻomanaʻo ai ʻaʻole mākou mana loa a ʻaʻole pono mākou e noʻonoʻo i ka honua. pono e hoʻolohe i ko mākou makemake.
ʻO ka mea nui, ua hoʻoholo ʻia ka hihia o ka hilinaʻi i loko o kēlā me kēia kāne ma nā ʻano like ʻole, ma muli o ka ʻike pilikino a me nā makahiki o nā hoa.
"I ka wā mua, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā kāne"
ʻO Mireille Bonierbal, psychiatrist, sexologist
Inā mākou e nānā i nā holoholona, e ʻike mākou i ka pinepine o ka male ʻana i nā wahine he nui, a laila ʻaʻole ʻo ia e komo hou i ka incubation o nā hua a i ʻole ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki. No laila, ʻike ʻia ka polygamy kāne i ka biologically hoʻoholo, ma ka liʻiliʻi loa i nā holoholona.
Akā ua hoʻokaʻawale ʻia nā holoholona a me nā kānaka e kahi hana lōʻihi o ka launa pū ʻana. Hiki ke noʻonoʻo ʻia he nui nā kāne i ka polygamous i ke ʻano.
Ma ka hoʻomohala ʻana i ka mana no ka haipule, ua hoʻololi mālie lākou i kēia ʻano o ka moekolohe.
I ka manawa like, ʻo kaʻu mau maʻi e hele mau nei i kekahi mau pūnaewele no ka "kūʻai wahine" ke hōʻoia nei aia kekahi ʻokoʻa ma waena o ke ʻano o nā kāne a me nā wahine i kēlā kūlana.
ʻO ke kanaka, ma ke ʻano he kānāwai, ke ʻimi nei i kahi pilina maʻemaʻe kino, paʻa ʻole i ka lā hoʻokahi. ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka manaʻo e pili i ka wahine mai ka wahine mai he kumu wale nō ia, ʻoiaʻiʻo, manaʻo ʻo ia e kūkulu i kahi pilina maoli me kāna hoa.