Hui ka poʻe, aloha ka poʻe, male. Loaʻa i nā keiki, hoʻopunipuni, nalowale nā mea aloha. Hōʻike lākou i mua o kekahi i ko lākou nāwaliwali āpau. He kanalua ko lakou koho pono ana. Ua luhi kekahi i kekahi. Hoʻoholo lākou e neʻe. ʻO Modern Love kēia, he moʻolelo moʻolelo e pili ana i nā moʻolelo pilikino mai ke kolamu Modern Love ma The New York Times.
He aha ke ʻano o kahi loio eccentric me ka maʻi maʻi bipolar a me kahi mea hoʻokumu i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ka app dating? He «bookworm» a me ka wahine hāpai home ʻole? He kanaka elemakule nana i kanu i kana wahine aloha i eono makahiki aku nei, a he kaikamahine i makemake nui i ka malama makua ana i ike ole ai?
He poʻe kamaʻāina lākou a pau ma New York, nani, ʻokoʻa, multinational. A ua lilo kēlā me kēia o lākou i mea koa o ke kolamu "Modern Love" ma ka nūpepa i kēlā me kēia lā ʻo The New York Times. I ka makahiki 15 o kona noho ʻana, ma muli o nā leka maikaʻi loa i loaʻa i nā mea hoʻoponopono, ua pana ʻia kahi moʻo.
I ka kau mua, ʻewalu mau ʻāpana - e pili ana i nā lā i hewa ai kekahi mea (a i ʻole hewa loa nā mea a pau). E pili ana i ka hiki ʻole ke wehe i kahi ʻē aʻe ma muli o ka makaʻu ʻaʻole loa mākou e ʻae ʻia e like me mākou, ʻo ia hoʻi, ua make mākou i ka mehameha mau loa.
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo pinepine i ka wā makua ma kahi pilina e hoʻāʻo mākou e loaʻa i ka mea i loaʻa ʻole iā mākou i ka wā kamaliʻi, a ma kēia hihia e pono ke hōʻoia pono iā mākou iho.
ʻOi aku ka nui o ke aloha ma mua o ke aloha a me ka wahine a ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi ma mua o ke ola
E pili ana i ka male ʻana me he mea lā ʻaʻole e hoʻopakele. E pili ana i nā manawa i hala a me nā aloha ola ʻole. ʻAʻole ʻike kēia manaʻo i nā palena makahiki, ʻaʻole ʻike i ka māhele kāne.
ʻOi aku ka nui o ke aloha ma mua o ke aloha a me ka wahine a ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi ma mua o ke ola.
A ʻaʻohe mea e ʻōlelo ai ka poʻe e pili ana i ka manaʻo o ka hapa nui o kēia lā e hoʻomaka i ka pilina ma hope a i ʻole e noho hoʻokahi, a i ʻole ka helu ʻana o ka hemo ʻana ma ke ʻano he kānalua i kahi hanana e like me ka male ʻana, ʻike maopopo ʻia mākou e pono ai ke aloha.
He ʻano ʻokoʻa iki paha ma mua. Malia paha me ka ʻole o ka hoʻohiki ʻana a me ka pōʻino "... a hiki i ka make ʻana o ʻoe" (a me lākou paha). ʻO ia ke aloha ʻokoʻa, unpredictable, ʻē aʻe o kēia wā.