Ua pīhoihoi ka makuahine o nā keiki ʻelua i ka pūnaewele o nā kiʻi ʻōlohelohe ma hope o ka hānau ʻana

ʻO ka mahele ʻōlelo Lūkia o Instagram kahi kahaha My My Line kupaianaha. I loko o laila, haʻi ka wahine (a hōʻike) pehea i loli ai ko lākou kino ma hope o ka hāpai ʻana a me ka hānau ʻana. Ke nānā nei lākou āpau i ke kākoʻo, no ka mea paʻakikī loa ka ʻae ʻana i kā lākou noʻeau hou, "kāhiko" me ka mākaukau, nā scars, nā paona keu. ʻOiai ma laila hoʻohilahila lākou i kekahi manawa: "Ua hoʻomaka wau iaʻu iho, e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kāu kāne." ʻĀ, he ʻano maikaʻi ʻole kā mākou - pono ke nānā pono ka wahine ma hope pono o ka hānau ʻana, lahilahi, kūpono a me nā cubes ma kona ʻōpū.

Ua hoʻoholo ʻo Stella Mackie, kahi makuahine o ʻelua, e hakakā me kēia mau stereotypes. ʻĀ, ʻaʻole hiki i kēlā me kēia wahine ke hōʻike i ka honua i kahi kiʻi hanohano, e waiho wale nei i ka puka o ka haukapila. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ma mua o ka hānau ʻana, ʻaʻole kūpono ke kino no nā mea āpau.

"E nānā, i kēia kiʻi ʻelua wau ma hope o ka hānau ʻana a hāpai i ka manawa like," ua pūlima ʻo Stella i kekahi o kāna mau kiʻi. ʻO kāna keiki hiapo i kēlā manawa hoʻokahi a me ka hapalua ona makahiki. - Aia wau āpau i nā kaha kau, kahiko a hou. Loaʻa wau i cellulite, varicose veins - mahalo i nā genetics - a me kahi ʻōpū e kau ana. He aha kaʻu e hana ai, ʻo kēia ka hopena o koʻu kino i ka hāpai ʻana. “

Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Stella ma hope o ka hānau mua he paʻakikī loa nona e maʻa i kona ʻano. "Ua uē wau i kēlā me kēia manawa ke nānā wau iaʻu iho i ke aniani," kākau ʻo ia. A laila hiki koke mai ka ʻike: he makuahine ʻo ia, ʻaʻole kiʻi mai ka makasina. “ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e aloha i kēlā me kēia ʻīniha o kou kino. Akā ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e inaina iā ia. ʻAʻole lōʻihi e like me kēlā. ʻAʻole mau ka hāpai ʻana. E hoʻāʻo e aloha iā ʻoe iho, "wahi a Stella.

ʻAʻole manaʻo kēia kino maikaʻi āpau ua haʻalele ʻo Stella i ka hana ʻana iā ia iho, ʻaʻole loa. Akā he manawa ko nā mea āpau. Ua hānau hou ʻo ia i kāna pēpē ʻelua e ka ʻāpana caesarean a ʻaʻole i hoʻokaʻulua e hōʻike i kona ʻōpū ʻekolu mau pule ma hope o ka hānau ʻana. ʻAe, nānā hāpai ʻo ia iā ia. No ka hoʻohālikelike - ma ka pua i ka ʻākau, e ʻike ʻoe i kahi kiʻi o ka ʻano o Stella i ka hebedoma 39 o ka hāpai ʻana.

"I kēia manawa mālama wale wau i hoʻokahi mea - e hele i kēia lā. A laila ka mea aʻe. Hoʻopilikia nā mea āpau iaʻu: ke humuhumu ma hope o ka cesarean, koʻu umauma - ma muli o kaʻu piranha niho ʻole, e nau i koʻu mau nipples, a ma hope o ka pō hiamoe ʻole e huhū nui loa nā pā ", - kaʻana like ʻo Stella i kāna mau ʻike me ka poʻe kau inoa. Hoʻohilahila kekahi o lākou iā ia: ʻōlelo lākou, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kāna kāne. “ʻAʻole kaʻu kāne kaʻu ʻona. ʻO koʻu kino kaʻu ʻoihana, - ʻAʻole hele ʻo Stella i loko o kāna ʻeke no kahi ʻōlelo. - ʻIke kuʻu kino i ka hānai a hānai ʻana i nā keiki. Ua haku ʻia ia naʻu ma mua o nā mea āpau, ʻaʻole no ka makemake o kekahi. “