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Ka makuahōnōwai wahine a me ka hūnōna wahine: paʻakikī ke kamaʻilio
Ma waena o ʻoukou, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia, he nīnau no ka hanauna. I kona mau lā, hoʻokuʻu mākou i nā pēpē e uē, kau mākou ma ko lākou ʻōpū, hānai mākou iā lākou i nā manawa paʻa. ʻO nā manawa ʻē aʻe, nā hana ʻē aʻe… Mai komo i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa, lawe mai i ka ʻōlelo aʻo a kahi loea. E haʻi iā ia: "Ua aʻo mai kaʻu pediatrician iaʻu e ...". Hiki i nā loina a me nā loina ʻohana ke kūʻē iā ʻoe: Ua hōʻoia ʻo Madame Durand ʻaʻole pono kekahi o nā Durand liʻiliʻi i kahi pacifier… E lawe me ka ʻakaʻaka: ke hoʻowalewale nei kāu liʻiliʻi Durand iā ʻoe i nā ʻike hou, he paionia ia!
Ma waena o ʻoukou, aia ma luna o nā mea a pau, he kāne kāna keiki, ʻaʻole ia e noho hou me ia akā me ʻoe. ʻOiai ʻaʻole ʻo ia he ʻano moa makuahine castrating, aia nō ke ʻano o ka lili i loko ona. No laila, ua ʻoi aku ka ikaika ma mua o kona, ua hoka ʻia: ua makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma mua o kāna ʻono, makemake ʻo ia i ka hemolele no kāna keiki.
Ma kou ʻaoʻao. Manaʻo ʻoe pehea e hiki ai i ke aloha o kou ola ke ʻoluʻolu me ia, ʻaʻole ʻike i kona mau hemahema, kona ʻano, a me ka "hele" nui iā ia, ʻoiai ʻo ia me ʻoe hiki ke ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ʻole.
Eia naʻe, ʻelua wahine ʻoe, ʻelua makuahine, hiki i kēia paʻa ke hoʻokokoke iā ʻoe. Inā maikaʻi ʻole ka kamaʻilio ʻana, e hoʻāʻo e hālāwai me ia wale nō no kahi ʻaina awakea kahi e kamaʻilio ai ma waena o nā wahine a loaʻa paha, nā mea maʻamau.
E hoʻokumu i nā lula o ka mahalo kekahi
E hana i nā lula me kāu hoa. He mea hilahila inā lilo ka makuahōnōwai wahine i kumu hoʻopaʻapaʻa ma waena o ʻolua. E hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ia kona makuahine. E kamaʻilio e pili ana ma mua o ka hiki ʻana o kahi pilikia.
Mai hoʻokahuli. E mahalo i ka pilikino o kou ʻohana: mai ʻae ʻoe ua hōʻea mai ʻo ia me ka manaʻo ʻole a kono ʻo ia iā ia iho i ka ʻaina ahiahi, a ʻaʻole hoʻi ma o ke kelepona paʻa o kāna keiki. No kou ʻaoʻao, e ʻae i ka ʻaina ahiahi ma kona wahi i kēlā me kēia manawa (ʻaʻole pono i kēlā me kēia Sābati!) A i kou hiki ʻana i laila, e launa pū. E hōʻike iā ia ʻo ia ke kīʻaha ma kona hale a hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia.
Ma ka lima 'ē aʻe, mai ʻae ʻoe e hoʻohewa ʻo ia i kāu hana i mua o nā keiki. Akaka loa: inā he mea kāna e ʻōlelo ai, ʻaʻole pono ia i mua o lākou.
Hāʻawi iā ia i kona wahi i kupuna kāne
ʻO ia ke kupuna wahine o kāu keiki, hōʻike ʻo ia i kona aʻa, he mea nui e mālama i ka pilina maikaʻi me ia. He mea maʻalahi e hiki ke helu i kāna kōkua mai ka manawa i ka manawa, e noʻonoʻo e pili ana, e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomanawanui i kāna mau hemahema.
Hāʻawi iā ia i kāu pēpē i kēlā me kēia manawa. Inā pono ʻo ia e mālama, e hōʻike iā ia i kāna mau maʻamau, akā mai hāʻawi iā ia i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo, hilinaʻi iā ia. Mai mālama iā ia. Hiki iā ia ke hana ʻokoʻa ma mua o ʻoe me ka ʻole e hōʻeha i kāu keiki.
E hoʻolohe i kāna ʻōlelo aʻo, ʻoiai inā ʻoe e hoʻokolokolo iā lākou no nā makahiki ʻē aʻe, a ʻaʻole i hoʻololi ʻia: ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hahai iā lākou. Mai hōʻole ʻoe iā ia, e hoʻopaʻa ʻo ia i ka inaina paʻakikī iā ʻoe. Makemake ʻo ia e hana maikaʻi a e hoʻokipa ʻia paha kekahi o kāna mau manaʻo.