ʻO nā hewa i hana ʻia e nā mea pepehi kanaka e hoʻoweliweli i nā miliona o nā kānaka. Ua hoʻāʻo ʻo Katherine Ramsland psychologist e ʻike i ka manaʻo o nā makuahine o ka poʻe lawehala e pili ana i kēia mau hewa.
He ʻokoʻa ka manaʻo o nā mākua o ka poʻe pepehi kanaka i ka hana a kā lākou mau keiki. He nui ka poʻe o lākou e weliweli: ʻaʻole maopopo iā lākou pehea e lilo ai kā lākou keiki i monster. Akā hōʻole kekahi i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo a pale i nā keiki a hiki i ka hopena.
I ka makahiki 2013, pepehi ʻo Joanna Dennehy i ʻekolu kāne a hoʻāʻo hou i ʻelua. Ma hope o kona hopu ʻia ʻana, ua haʻi ʻo ia ua hana ʻo ia i kēia mau hewa i mea e ʻike ai inā loaʻa iā ia ka manaʻo e hana. I loko o ka selfie me nā kino o nā mea i hōʻeha ʻia, ua hauʻoli loa ʻo Joanna.
Ua noho mālie nā mākua o Dennehy no kekahi mau makahiki, a hiki i ka manawa i hoʻoholo ai kona makuahine ʻo Kathleen e wehe i nā mea hoʻolaha: “Ua pepehi ʻo ia i nā kānaka, a noʻu ʻaʻole ʻo ia. ʻAʻole kēia koʻu Joe." I ka hoʻomanaʻo ʻana i kona makuahine, ua noho ʻo ia he kaikamahine ʻakaʻaka, ʻoliʻoli a paʻakikī. Ua loli nui kēia kaikamahine ʻoluʻolu i kona wā ʻōpio i ka wā i hoʻomaka ai ʻo ia e launa pū me kahi kāne i ʻoi aku ka nui. Akā naʻe, ʻaʻole hiki iā Kathleen ke noʻonoʻo e lilo kāna kaikamahine i mea pepehi kanaka. "E ʻoi aku ka palekana o ka honua inā ʻaʻole ʻo Joanna i loko," ʻae ʻo ia.
“ʻAʻole pepehi ʻo Ted Bundy i nā wahine a me nā keiki. ʻO ko mākou manaʻoʻiʻo i ka hala ʻole o Tad he pau ʻole a mau loa," i haʻi aku ai ʻo Louise Bundy i ka News Tribune, ʻoiai ua haʻi mua kāna keiki i nā pepehi kanaka ʻelua. Ua haʻi ʻo Louise i nā mea hoʻolaha ʻo kāna Ted "ke keiki maikaʻi loa ma ka honua, koʻikoʻi, kuleana a aloha nui i nā kaikunāne a me nā kaikuahine."
Wahi a ka makuahine, ʻo ka poʻe i hoʻopiʻi ʻia ka hewa: ua hoʻohenehene lākou i kāna keiki, akā ua paʻakikī loa ʻo ia.
Ua ʻae ʻo Louise he pepehi kanaka kāna keiki ma hope o kona ʻae ʻia e hoʻolohe i kahi lipine o kāna ʻae ʻana, akā naʻe ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hōʻole iā ia. Ma hope o ka hoʻopaʻi ʻia ʻana o kāna keiki i ka make, ua hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo Louise e "noho mau ʻo ia i kāna keiki aloha."
Ua hoʻopaʻa ʻia i ka makahiki i hala, ua noi ʻo Todd Kolchepp e ʻike i kona makuahine ma mua o ke kau inoa ʻana i kahi haʻi. Ua noiʻo ia i kāna kalaʻana a ua kalaʻo ia iā ia "aloha Todd, ka mea akamai loa a lokomaikaʻi a lokomaikaʻi".
Wahi a ka makuahine, ʻo ka poʻe i hoʻopiʻi ʻia ka hewa: ua hoʻohenehene lākou i kāna keiki kāne, akā ua maʻalahi ʻo ia. Me he mea lā ua poina iā ia ua hoʻoweliweli mua ʻo ia e pepehi pū kekahi iā ia. Ua hōʻole ka makuahine o Colhepp e kāhea i kahi ʻōpo. Ua haʻi hou ʻo ia i nā mea āpau ma muli o ka huhū a me ka huhū, ʻaʻole ia i manaʻo i kāna keiki he pepehi kanaka serial, ʻoiai ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua hōʻoia ʻia nā pepehi kanaka ʻehiku a ke noiʻi ʻia nei kekahi mau mea hou aʻe.
Nui nā mākua e ho'āʻo e ʻimi i ke kumu i lilo ai kā lākou mau keiki i mau monsters. ʻO ka makuahine o Kansas ka mea pepehi kanaka ʻo Dennis Rader, ʻaʻole i hopu ʻia ma mua o 30 mau makahiki, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomanaʻo i kekahi mea maʻamau mai kona wā kamaliʻi.
ʻAʻole ʻike pinepine nā mākua i nā mea a waho e ʻike ai. He keiki maʻamau ka mea pepehi kanaka ʻo Jeffrey Dahmer, a pēlā paha i ʻōlelo ai kona makuahine. Akā, ua manaʻo nā kumu iā ia he hilahila a hauʻoli loa. Hōʻole ka makuahine i kēia a ʻōlelo ʻo ia ʻaʻole makemake ʻo Geoffrey i ke kula, a ma ka home ʻaʻole ʻo ia i nānā i ka haʻahaʻa a me ka hilahila.
Manaʻo kekahi mau makuahine ua hewa ke keiki, ʻaʻole naʻe i ʻike i ka mea e hana ai
Ua manaʻo kekahi mau makuahine ua hewa ke keiki, akā ʻaʻole maopopo i ka mea e hana ai. ʻO Dylan Roof, ka mea i hoʻopaʻi ʻia i ka make no ka pepehi ʻana i ʻeiwa mau kānaka ma kahi hale pule Metodista ma South Carolina, ua huhū lōʻihi i ka hoʻolaha ʻana o ka pāpā ʻana i nā hihia hoʻokalakupua.
I ka ʻike ʻana o ka makuahine o Dylan ʻo Amy e pili ana i ka hanana, maule ʻo ia. Ma hope o ka ho'ōla hou ʻana, hōʻike ʻo ia i nā mea noiʻi i ka pahu paʻi kiʻi a kāna keiki. Aia i loko o ke kāleka hoʻomanaʻo nā kiʻi he nui o Dylan me nā mea kaua a me ka hae Confederate. Ma nā hālāwai hoʻokolokolo ākea, ua noi ka makuahine i kala no ka pale ʻole ʻana i ka hewa.
Hāʻawi kekahi mau makuahine i nā mea pepehi keiki i nā mākaʻi. I ka manawa i hōʻike ai ʻo Geoffrey Knobble i kona makuahine i ke wikiō o ka pepehi kanaka ʻana i kahi kanaka ʻōlohelohe, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i makemake e manaʻoʻiʻo i kona mau maka. Akā, i kona hoʻomaopopo ʻana ua hana hewa kāna keiki a ʻaʻole i mihi iki i kāna hana, ua kōkua ʻo ia i nā mākaʻi e ʻimi a hopu iā Jeffrey a hōʻike kūʻē iā ia.
Ma muli o ka moʻomeheu ʻohana a me ka pili o ka pilina ma waena o nā mākua a me nā keiki, ʻo ka pane ʻana o nā mākua i ka lono he monster kā lākou keiki. A he kumuhana hoihoi a nui kēia no ka noiʻi.
No ka mea kākau: ʻO Katherine Ramsland he kumu aʻoaʻo no ka noʻonoʻo ma ke Kulanui ʻo DeSalce ma Pennsylvania.