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Paʻi, nahu a paʻi e hōʻike iā ʻoe iho
ʻōpio loa, ʻaʻole hiki i ke keiki ke hōʻike i nā manaʻo (e like me ka ʻeha, ka makaʻu, ka huhū, a me ka ʻeha) me nā huaʻōlelo. No laila makemake ʻo ia e hōʻike ʻokoʻa iā ia iho, me ka hoʻohana ʻana ʻano ʻano ʻoi aku ka "hiki" iā ia : kuʻi, nahu, pahu, kuʻi… Hiki ke hōʻike i ke ʻano o ke kūʻē i ka mana a i ʻole nā mea ʻē aʻe. Hoʻohana ʻo ia i kēia ʻano e hōʻike ai i kona huhū, kona ʻoluʻolu a i ʻole e kūʻē iā ʻoe. No laila, lilo ka nahu ʻana i ala e haʻi aku ai i kona huhū..
Nahu kaʻu keiki: pehea e hana ai?
ʻOiai ʻo nā mea a pau, ʻaʻole pono mākou e ʻae i kēia ʻano, ʻaʻole hoʻi e hoʻokō a hoʻohaʻahaʻa paha. Pono ʻoe e komo, ʻaʻole naʻe i kahi ala kahiko! E hōʻalo i ke komo ʻana ma ka nahu ʻana iā ia, e "hōʻike iā ia i kona manaʻo". ʻAʻole kēia ka hopena kūpono. ʻO ka pane ʻana i ka hana ʻino a kekahi ʻaʻole ia he kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi e hoʻonoho a hoʻoneʻe iā mākou mai ke kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi e pono ai mākou no kā mākou mau keiki. ʻO kēlā me kēia ʻaoʻao, ʻaʻole maopopo kāu keiki liʻiliʻi i kāu hana. Ma ka nahu ʻana, hoʻonoho mākou iā mākou iho i kā mākou pae kamaʻilio, lilo mākou i ko mākou mana a ʻo ia ka mea e hopohopo ai ke keiki. ʻO ka NO paʻa ke ala maikaʻi loa no nā keiki i kēia makahiki. ʻO kēia ʻaʻole e ʻae iā ia e hoʻomaopopo ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia kāna hana. A laila e hana i kahi hoʻololi. Ma luna o nā mea a pau, mai kau i ka manaʻo nui (a i ʻole nā kumu i hoʻoikaika iā ia e nahu). He ʻuʻuku loa ʻo ia ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomaopopo i ka mea e koi ai iā ia e hana pēlā. Ma ka hoʻohuli hou ʻana i kona manaʻo ma nā wahi ʻē aʻe, pono ʻoe e ʻike i ka hele wikiwiki ʻana o kēia ʻano.
'Ōlelo aʻo mai Suzanne Vallières, psychiatrist
- E hoʻomaopopo i ka hapa nui o nā keiki, hiki i ka nahu ke ala e hōʻike ai i nā manaʻo
- Mai ʻae i kēia ʻano hana (e komo mau)
- Mai nahu ia ma ke ʻano he wawao