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ʻO ka makaʻu i ke kino wai nui
I loko o ka loko e like me ka uliuli nui, inaina kā mākou keiki i ka hele ʻana i ka wai. ʻAʻole hiki i ka manaʻo e hele i ka ʻauʻau ma mua o kona hoʻomaka ʻana e pout, hoʻopaʻapaʻa, uē a loaʻa nā kumu ʻaʻole e hele! A ʻaʻohe mea e hōʻoia i kēia makaʻu ...
"Ma waena o 2 a me 4 mau makahiki, hoʻoikaika ke keiki e hoʻolālā i kona honua i mea maopopo. Hoʻohui ʻo ia i nā mea: ʻo ke kupuna wahine ka makuahine o koʻu makuahine; ʻo ia ka pale hānai… Ke komo kekahi mea koʻikoʻi o waho i kēia hana e hoʻomau nei, hoʻopilikia i ke keiki. »E wehewehe ana i ka psychologist a me ka psychoanalyst Harry Ifergan, ka mea kākau o E hoʻomaopopo pono i kāu keiki, ed. Marabout. No laila, i loko o ka ʻauʻau maʻamau, liʻiliʻi ka wai a hōʻoluʻolu ke keiki no ka mea ua pā ʻo ia i ka lepo a me nā ʻaoʻao. Akā ma ka loko ʻauʻau, ma ka loko a ma ke kai paha, ʻokoʻa loa ke kūlana!
Makaʻu i ka wai: nā kumu like ʻole
ʻAʻole like me ka ʻauʻau ʻauʻau kahi āna e pāʻani ai, ma ka lihi o ka wai, koi mākou e kau ʻo ia i kona mau lana, noi mākou iā ia ʻaʻole e hele hoʻokahi i ka wai, ʻōlelo mākou iā ia e makaʻala. He mea hōʻoia kēia he pilikia, manaʻo ʻo ia! Eia kekahi, he anu ka wai maanei. Hoʻopiʻi ka maka. ʻono ia i ka paʻakai a i ʻole ke ʻala o ka chlorine. Ua walaʻau ke kaiapuni. ʻAʻole maʻalahi kona neʻe ʻana i ka wai. Ma ke kai, he mea kupanaha ka nalu ia ia a hopohopo paha ʻo ia e ale. Ua inu mua paha ʻo ia i ke kīʻaha me ka ʻike ʻole ʻia e mākou, a ua poino kona hoʻomanaʻo ʻana. A inā makaʻu kekahi o kona mau mākua i ka wai, ua hoʻouna paha ʻo ia i kēia makaʻu iā ia me ka ʻike ʻole.
E hoʻomaʻamaʻa mālie iā ia me ka wai
I mea e maikaʻi ai kāu mau ʻauʻau mua, makemake ʻoe i kahi mālie a me kahi hola ʻole. Manaʻo mākou e hana i nā hale kākela, e pāʻani ana ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka wai. “E hoʻomaka me ka wai hoe hoe a ma ke kai paha, e paʻa ana i kona lima. Hōʻoluʻolu iā ia. Inā hopohopo ʻoe i ka wai, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka misionari i kāu wahine. A ma laila, kali mākou i ka wai e paʻi i nā manamana wāwae o ke keiki. Akā inā ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e hele kokoke i ka wai, e haʻi iā ia e hele ʻo ia i kona makemake. Kākoʻo Harry Ifergan. A ma luna o nā mea a pau, ʻaʻole mākou e koi iā ia e ʻauʻau, ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻonui ai i kona makaʻu ... a no ka manawa lōʻihi!
He puke e kōkua iā lākou e hoʻomaopopo i ko lākou makaʻu i ka wai: "ʻO ka crocodile i makaʻu i ka wai", ed. Casterman
Ua ʻike ʻia he makemake nā koʻa a pau i ka wai. Koe wale, pololei, ʻike kēia crocodile i ka wai anuanu, pulu, ma ka pōkole, ʻoluʻolu loa! ʻAʻole maʻalahi…
Nā hana mua i ka wai: paipai mākou iā ia!
ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka noho ʻana ma ke one a ʻike i nā keiki liʻiliʻi ʻē aʻe e pāʻani ana i ka wai e paipai ʻia ʻo ia e hui pū me lākou. Akā, hiki nō hoʻi iā ia ke ʻōlelo ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e hele i ka ʻauʻau i ʻole e kūʻē i kāna mau ʻōlelo ponoʻī mai ka lā ma mua. A hoomau paakiki i kona hoole ana no keia kumu. He ala maikaʻi e ʻike ai: noi mākou i kekahi kanaka makua e hele pū me ia i ka wai a hele mākou. ʻO ka hoʻololi ʻana o ka "referent" e hoʻokuʻu iā ia mai kāna mau ʻōlelo a e komo koke ʻo ia i ka wai. Hoʻomaikaʻi mākou iā ia ma ka haʻi ʻana iā ia: "He ʻoiaʻiʻo he mea weliweli ka wai, akā ua hoʻoikaika nui ʻoe a ua kūleʻa ʻoe", ʻōlelo ʻo Harry Ifergan. No laila, e hoʻomaopopo ʻia ke keiki. E ʻike ʻo ia he kuleana kona e ʻike i kēia manaʻo me ka hilahila ʻole a hiki iā ia ke hilinaʻi i kona mau mākua e lanakila ai i kona hopohopo a ulu.