PSYchology

Ke hilinaʻi nei mākou iā lākou me kā mākou mau keiki, ua maʻa mākou i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana iā lākou he mana, poina pinepine lākou he poʻe e like me mākou. Hiki i nā kumu ke noho i loko o ka manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole, a ma muli o ka hopena, e lawe aku i ko lākou huhū i kā mākou mau keiki, e ʻoi aku i nā palena. ʻO ia ke kumu he mea nui e lilo i mea kākoʻo no kāu keiki.

E ʻōlelo paha wau ʻo ka mea anti-pedagogical loa o ka honua. Inā ʻāhewa ʻia ke keiki ma ke kula, mai lawe koke i ka ʻaoʻao o ke kumu. Mai wikiwiki i ke keiki no ka hui ʻana o ke kumu, ʻaʻohe mea āna i hana ai. ʻAʻole hana i nā haʻawina home? Auē, ka hewa weliweli, pēlā pū ka hana. Hoʻoweliweli i ka papa? Weliweli, weliweli, akā, ʻaʻohe mea weliweli loa.

He mea weliweli loa i ka wā e kau ai ke kumu weliweli a me nā mākua weliweli ma luna o kahi keiki. ʻO ia wale nō. Aohe ola. Hoʻohewa nā kānaka a pau iā ia. ʻO nā maniacs he mau loio i ka ʻaha hoʻokolokolo, a eia ke kū nei kēia kanaka pōʻino i aʻo ʻole i kekahi pauku lapuwale, a lilo ka honua i Gehena. I Gehena! ʻO ʻoe wale nō kāna kākoʻo nui.

ʻAʻole mālama mau nā kumu i nā haʻalulu ʻuhane, he kaʻina aʻo kā lākou, nānā i nā puke puke, nā luna nānā mai ke Keʻena Hoʻonaʻauao, a me ko lākou ʻohana ponoʻī. Inā pāpā ke kumu i ke keiki, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hana like. Ua lawa ka huhu o ke kumu.

ʻO kāu keiki ka mea maikaʻi loa ma ka honua. A kuhikuhi. Hele nā ​​kumu a hele, aia ke keiki me ʻoe

ʻAʻole pono e hoʻōho i ka hale holoʻokoʻa: "ʻO ka mea e ulu mai iā ʻoe, ua pau nā mea āpau!" ʻAʻohe mea e nalowale inā kokoke ʻoe, inā ʻoe e ʻōlelo mālie, ʻoluʻolu, hoʻohenehene. Uaʻike mua ke keiki i ke kaumaha, no ke aha e huki ai i ka "hoʻomāinoino"? ʻAʻole ʻo ia e hoʻolohe hou iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole maopopo i ke ʻano o nā huaʻōlelo ʻole, huikau wale ʻo ia a makaʻu.

ʻO kāu keiki ka mea maikaʻi loa ma ka honua. A kuhikuhi. Hele nā ​​kumu a hele, aia ke keiki me ʻoe. Eia kekahi, i kekahi manawa pono ke hoʻomaha i ke kumu iā ia iho. He poʻe hopohopo lākou, i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole lākou e kāohi iā lākou iho, hoʻohaʻahaʻa lākou i nā keiki. Mahalo nui au i nā kumu, ʻo wau iho i hana ma ke kula, ʻike wau i kēia hana ʻāhiu. Akā ʻike wau i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe, pehea lākou e hōʻeha a hōʻeha, i kekahi manawa no ke kumu ʻole. Hoʻonāukiuki wale ke kaikamahine noʻonoʻo iki i ke kumu. Infuriates me ka pohihihi minoʻaka, ʻakaʻaka hōʻailona ma ke kapa, nani manoanoa lauoho. Ua nawaliwali na kanaka a pau.

Makaʻu nui nā mākua i nā kumu. Ua ʻike au iā lākou ma nā ʻaha kūkā makua-kumu. ʻO nā makuahine ʻaʻole i hoʻopaʻa ʻia a paʻakikī hoʻi e lilo i mau keiki hipa haʻahaʻa: "E kala mai iā mākou, ʻaʻole mākou e ..." Akā nā kumu - e kāhāhā ʻoe - e hana hewa hoʻi. I kekahi manawa me ka manao. A uē ka makuahine, ʻaʻole manaʻo, hana ke kumu i nā mea koʻikoʻi: ʻaʻohe mea e hoʻōki iā ia. He lapuwale!

E oki oukou e na makua. E hele mai a kamaʻilio hoʻokahi me ke kumu: me ka mālie, me ka maikaʻi, me ke koʻikoʻi. Me kēlā me kēia hua'ōlelo, e wehewehe ana:ʻaʻoleʻoe e hāʻawi i kāu pēpē "eʻaiʻia." Mahalo ke kumu i kēia. ʻAʻole i mua ona he makuahine ʻoi loa, akā he loio no kāna keiki. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi inā hele mai ka makua kāne. ʻAʻole pono e haʻalele a ʻōlelo aku ua luhi ʻoe. He hopena maikaʻi nā mākua i nā kumu.

E loaʻa i ke keiki nā pilikia he nui i ke ola. ʻOiai ʻo ia me ʻoe, pono ʻoe e pale iā ia mai ka honua. ʻAe, ʻāhewa, huhū, ʻōhumu, akā pale

Ua ulu kaʻu keiki ma ke ʻano he keikikāne paʻakikī. Pahū, kāhili, paʻakikī. Hoʻololi ʻehā kula. I ka wā i kipaku ʻia ai ʻo ia mai ka mea e hiki mai ana (ua aʻo maikaʻi ʻo ia, pilikia me ka makemakika), wehewehe huhū ke poʻo kumu iaʻu a me kaʻu wahine i ke keiki weliweli ʻo ia. Ua hoʻāʻo kāna wahine e hoʻohuli iā ia e haʻalele - ʻaʻohe ala. Ua haʻalele ʻo ia me ka waimaka. A laila haʻi wau iā ia: "E hoʻōki! ʻO wai kēia ʻanakē iā mākou? He aha kēia kula iā mākou? Lawe mākou i nā palapala a ua lawa kēlā! E ʻoki ʻia ʻo ia ma ʻaneʻi, no ke aha ʻo ia e pono ai?"

Ua minamina au i kaʻu keiki. Ua lohi loa, ua piha kona mau makahiki he ʻumikumamālua. A ma mua o kēlā, ʻo mākou nā mākua, ʻo mākou iho i hoʻopaʻa iā ia ma hope o nā kumu. "ʻAʻole ʻoe i ʻike i ka papa hoʻonui! ʻAʻohe mea e loaʻa mai iā ʻoe!" He poe naaupo makou. Pono mākou e pale iā ia.

I kēia manawa he kanaka makua ʻo ia, he kanaka maikaʻi loa, hana ʻo ia me ka ikaika a me ke ʻano nui, aloha nui i kāna hoaaloha, hāpai iā ia i kona mau lima. A ua mau ka inaina o na keiki i na makua. ʻAʻole, he pilina nui ko mākou, ua mākaukau mau ʻo ia e kōkua, no ka mea, he kanaka maikaʻi ʻo ia. Akā ʻo ka huhū - ʻae, ua mau.

ʻAʻole ʻo ia i aʻo i ka papa hoʻonui, no laila pehea? Poino, "ʻohana ʻehiku kēia." ʻO ka pale ʻana i ke keiki he makemakika maʻalahi, ʻo ia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo "ʻelua manawa ʻelua."

I loko o ka ʻohana, pono e ʻāhewa kekahi. Inā hōʻeha kekahi, pale kekahi. ʻO nā mea a ke keiki e aʻo ai

E loaʻa iā ia nā pilikia he nui i kona ola. ʻOiai ʻo ia me ʻoe, pono ʻoe e pale iā ia mai ka honua. ʻAe, ʻāhewa, huhū, ʻōhumu, pehea ke ʻole? Akā mālama. No ka mea, ʻo ia ka mea maikaʻi loa ma ka honua. ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e ulu aʻe ma ke ʻano he mea hoʻomākeʻaka a me ka mea egoist. E ulu wale ana ka poe palaka i ka wa makemake ole i na keiki. I ka wā e puni ana nā ʻenemi a maʻalea kekahi kanaka liʻiliʻi, ʻūlū, hoʻololi i kahi honua ʻino.

ʻAe, a i loko o ka ʻohana pono ʻoe e ʻāhewa. ʻO ia ke hiki. Ua ʻike au i kekahi ʻohana maikaʻi loa, nā mākua o koʻu hoaaloha. Ma keʻano laulā, he poʻe walaʻau lākou, e like me ka hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni Italia. Ua ʻōlelo ʻino lākou i kā lāua keiki, a aia kekahi kumu: ʻaʻohe manaʻo o ke keiki, ua nalowale ʻo ia i nā ʻaʻahu a i nā kaʻa. A ʻo kēia ka wā Soviet maikaʻi ʻole, ʻaʻole pono e hoʻopuehu i nā lole.

Akā, he kānāwai hemolele ko lākou: inā hōʻeha kekahi, pale kekahi. ʻO nā mea a ke keiki e aʻo ai. ʻAʻole, i ka wā o nā hakakā, ʻaʻohe o nā mākua i wini kekahi i kekahi: "E hele mai, e kū i luna no ka pale ʻana!" Ua hana maoli ia.

Pono e loaʻa i hoʻokahi mea pale nāna e apo i ke keiki a haʻi i ke koena: "Ua lawa!"

I loko o ko mākou ʻohana, ua hoʻouka pū ʻia ke keiki, en masse, me ke aloha ʻole. Māmā, makua kāne, inā he kupunawahine - kupuna wahine pū kekahi. Makemake mākou a pau i ka hoʻōho, aia kahi kiʻekiʻe ʻehaʻeha i loko. ʻO ke aʻo ʻino. Akā ʻaʻole e lawe ke keiki i kekahi mea pono mai loko mai o kēia Gehena.

Makemake ʻo ia e peʻe ma lalo o ka sofa a hoʻopau i kona ola a pau ma laila. Pono e loaʻa i hoʻokahi mea pale nāna e pūliki i ke keiki a haʻi i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe: “Ua lawa! E kamaʻilio wau me ia me ka mālie. A laila hoʻohui ʻia ka honua no ke keiki. A laila he ʻohana ʻoe a ʻo kāu keiki ka mea maikaʻi loa ma ka honua. ʻO ka maikaʻi mau loa.

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