E hoʻonohonoho i kāu male ʻana

I loko o kāna puke "E hoʻonohonoho i kāu male mare", ʻo Marina Marcout, kahi loea mare, me ka hui pū ʻana me Inès Matsika, wehewehe ʻo ka ʻōlelo aʻo maikaʻi loa no ka wahine mare a me ke kāne male ka huaʻōlelo "manaʻo". ʻAʻohe wahi no ka improvisation no kahi lā koʻikoʻi, pono mākou e hoʻolālā i kēia lā a me ke ahiahi i nā kikoʻī nui, kokoke i ʻelua makahiki ma mua. ʻO ka mea nui loa, e like me Marina Marcourt, i ka manawa i koho ʻia ai ka lā me kāna kāne e hiki mai ana, ʻo ia ka ʻimi ʻana i kahi o ka hoʻokipa manuahi ma ia lā.

Hoʻolālā hou i hoʻokahi makahiki ma mua o ka male ʻana

 D- 1 makahiki : Ke koho ʻia ka lā, loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi makahiki e hoʻopau ai i nā mea āpau. E hui pū nā mea a pau a puni kēia lā nui. E papa inoa i nā malihini me ko lākou wā e hiki mai ana, e ʻimi i ka lumi hoʻokipa i loaʻa i ka lā i koho ʻia, e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke kālā me kā lākou hoa a me nā ʻohana, ka male hoʻomana a i ʻole, hui mākou i nā nīnau āpau e poina ʻole ai kēia lā.

E pili ana i ke kālā o ka male ʻana, ʻo ke kānāwai ka mālama ʻana o ka ʻohana o ka wahine mare i ka lole mare, nā mea komo a me nā lole o nā keiki hanohano. ʻO ka ʻohana o ke kāne kāne ma ke ʻano nui e mālama i nā apo mare, ka pua mare maʻamau, ka lole o ke kāne mare. Akā i kēia mau lā, ua kaʻawale nā ​​kāne a me nā kāne male mai kēia mau ʻaha kūkā.

D-10 mahina : koho mākou i ka mea laki: ka mea mālama! E kū ana ʻo ia i kahi kauoha kiʻekiʻe: e lawelawe i ka papa kuhikuhi kūpono no kēia ahiahi. ʻO wai ka mea e ʻōlelo nei i ke ʻano o ka hoʻokipa, a me kahi e ʻahaʻaina ai. Aia iā ʻoe ke koho i ka lewa āu e makemake ai e hāʻawi i kāu male: rustic ma waho, maʻalahi i loko o kahi lumi nui, pili i loko o kahi hale ʻaina papa kiʻekiʻe, etc.

Hoʻolālā hou 5 mau mahina ma mua o ka lā nui

 J-5 mahina: hāʻawi mākou i ka papa inoa male e hoʻomaopopo i nā malihini i nā makana nani a mākou e makemake ai. ʻOi aku ka nui o nā kāne, e noho pū ana ma mua o ka male ʻana, makemake lākou e hoʻolako i ka ipuhao no ka honeymoon ma nā ʻāina.

ʻO kekahi koho nui: nā kuki. Hoapili? hoa kamalii ? ʻO nā hoahānau hoahānau ? ʻO wai ka mea e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai i kēia hui? Pohihihi… koho mākou me kā mākou kāne e hiki mai ana.

Mai poina e kipa i ka humuhumu no ka hoʻopā ʻana i ke kapa mare a mākou i moeʻuhane mau ai.

D-2 mahina : Manaʻo mākou iā mākou iho. He mau pule ma mua o ka lā nui, manaʻo mākou e hoʻokaʻawale i ka mea hoʻomaʻamaʻa lauoho a me ka mea hana make-up, e hoʻi mākou e hoʻāʻo hou i kā mākou ʻaʻahu aliʻi wahine, hāʻawi mākou i nā lumi no ka poʻe e hele mai ana mai kahi mamao aku, a mālama mākou i ka mālama ʻana i nā keiki me ke kupuna wahine. .

D- hoʻokahi pule : Hoomaka makou e komo mau i ko makou mau kamaa mare. Hoʻopau mākou i ka ʻae ʻana me kāna mea aloha i nā kikoʻī o ka hoʻolālā papa ʻaina. Loaʻa iā mākou kahi wahi maikaʻi no kēlā me kēia malihini. Hoʻomaka mākou e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka pāʻina bachelor. Waiho mākou i ko mākou mau hoaaloha, ma ka maʻamau, na lākou e noʻonoʻo e pili ana!

Ma hope o ka lā nui : ʻaʻole poina iā mākou e uku i nā bila, mahalo i nā malihini a nānā pono i nā kiʻi nani o kēia lā, i hoʻopaʻa ʻia e ka mea paʻi kiʻi.