Le maʻi maʻi narcissistic e like me kā mākou i wehewehe ai he ʻano kakaikahi. ʻO ka mea a mākou e ʻike pinepine ai i loko o ke keʻena hauʻoli he poʻe i loaʻa kekahi mau ʻano a ʻoi aku paha o kēia ʻano, me ka loaʻa ʻole o lākou āpau. Ma ke ʻano he kauka, ʻoluʻolu wau i ka huaʻōlelo "narcissistic perversion" e kuhikuhi i kēia ʻano.

E "keakea", e like me ʻO Robert liʻiliʻi, ʻo ia hoʻi: "ʻO wai ka mea i makemake i ka hewa, makemake i ka hana ʻino", like me "corrupt", "depraved", "hewa", "vicious". ʻAʻole kūpono ke kanaka me ka "narcissistic personality disorder" i kēia wehewehe.

Inā, i ka heluhelu ʻana i kēia pepa, ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i nā hiʻohiʻona a mākou e wehewehe nei, ʻo kāu pane mua e hōʻole i ka ʻike ʻana i kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻae i kekahi mea hiki ke uhi i kou kiʻi o ka mana a me ka hemolele. Akā ʻo ka mea ʻoiaʻiʻo he pilikia paha ʻoe ma nā ʻano like ʻole o kou ola, e like me kāu pilina pili kanaka ma ke kiʻekiʻe o kāu noho male, ʻohana a me ka nohona pili kanaka, a me kāu hana. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke kaumaha a huikau pinepine ʻia e nā manaʻo hakakā. ʻIke ʻoe ʻaʻole mahalo nui ka poʻe āu e kamaʻilio nei i kou hele ʻana a maikaʻi ʻole kāu pilina.

Inā pili kēia kūlana iā ʻoe, e noʻonoʻo e ʻike i kahi psychologist a kauka paha āu e hilinaʻi nei. Hiki i ka lapa'au kūpono (ke kanaka, ka 'ohana, a i 'ole ka hui hui) ke 'oi aku ka maika'i a me ka le'ale'a i kou ola.

ʻO Dr Jacques Allard MD FCMFC