ʻO kā mākou mau nīnau kapu e pili ana i ka hāpai ʻana

No ke aha e ʻeha loa ai au inā maikaʻi nā mea a pau?

Manaʻo mākou he ʻeiwa mau mahina hauʻoli ma mua o mākou! Eia nō naʻe, ʻo kā mākou ʻoiaʻiʻo "ua lawa ka pilikia i kēlā me kēia lā". ʻO ka hopohopo, luhi, luhi, hiki iā mākou ke manaʻo hewa no ka manaʻo ʻole e like me ke ao. He kuleana koʻikoʻi nā hormones i kēia kaumaha manawa, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā mahina mua, ke loaʻa iā ʻoe nā pilikia āpau e pili ana i ka hāpai ʻana (nausea, hopohopo, luhi) me ka loaʻa ʻole o nā pono. Ke holomua ka hāpai ʻana, ʻo ke kino ke kumu e ʻeha ai. Ke ulu nei ka pēpē a loaʻa iā mākou ka manaʻo o ka loaʻa ʻole o kahi wahi no mākou iho. Manaʻo mākou HUGE, kaumaha, a hiki i ke kumu o ka mihi i ka hāpai ʻana. Me ka nui o ka hewa. He mea maʻamau kēia. ʻO kēia ka nui o nā wāhine hāpai, inā lākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana, e ʻike lākou ʻo ia kekahi o nā manaʻo nui o ka hāpai ʻana.

ʻO ka lilo ʻana i makuahine, he haunaele nui

ʻO ka psychological factor kekahi kuleana. ʻAʻole ia he mea liʻiliʻi ka manaʻo i kahi keiki. ʻO kēia kūlana kūikawā o ke ola o ka wahine hiki ke hoʻāla a hoʻoulu i nā ʻano hopohopo āpau. Hoʻopili ʻia nā wahine hāpai a pau ʻuhane ikaika pili i kā lākou moʻolelo pilikino. "ʻO ka hāpai ʻana he manawa o ka hakakā nui, kahi maturation a me ka pilikia psychic", kākau ka psychoanalyst Monique Bydlowski i kāna hana "Je rêve un enfant".

E makaala i ke kaumaha

Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole mākou e ʻae i kēia kūlana transient e hoʻokomo, ʻaʻole pono ka wahine hāpai i ke kaumaha mau. Inā ʻo ia ka hihia, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e kūkākūkā me kā mākou kauka. Hiki i nā makuahine ke loaʻa ke kaumaha. ʻO ka hālāwai ninaninau 4 mahina e mālama ʻia e ka palekeiki he manawa kūpono e kūkākūkā ai i kona mau pilikia. No laila hiki iā mākou ke kuhikuhi i ke kākoʻo psychological.

Puhi liʻiliʻi au a peʻe au, koʻikoʻi anei?

ʻIke mākou i ka pilikia o ka paka i ka wā hāpai! ʻO ka hāʻule ʻana, prematurity, haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa, hoʻopiʻi i ka wā o ka hānau ʻana, ʻo ka hōʻemi ʻana i nā pale pale pale: haʻalulu mākou i ka manaʻo o nā pilikia i loaʻa i kā mākou pēpē. Ua hōʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi hou e hiki ke loaʻa nā hopena i ka puhi ʻana i ka wā hāpai i ʻelua mau hanauna. ʻO ka puhi paka ʻana o ke kupuna wahine i ka wā o kona hāpai ʻana e hoʻonui ʻia ka pilikia o ka hānō i kāna moʻopuna, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole puhi ka makuahine. A ʻaʻole naʻe he nui nā wahine i hoʻōki. Hoʻemi iki lākou a hewa nui ka poʻe. Mai kēia lā, kākoʻo mākou i ka hoʻomanawanui ʻole. ʻAʻole ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka puhi ʻana i ʻelima mau paka ma mua o ke koʻikoʻi nui.

Pehea inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻalele i ka puhi paka?

Ma mua o ka hūnā a hoʻohewa iā ʻoe iho, loaʻa kōkua. He mea paʻakikī loa ka hoʻopau ʻana a pono paha ke kākoʻo. Hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia nā patches a me nā mea pani nicotine ʻē aʻe i ka wā hāpai. I ka hihia o ka hāʻule ʻole, ʻaʻole mākou e kānalua e nīnau i kahi loea paka. Eia kekahi, he kākoʻo kūpaʻa ʻole. ʻO kā mākou kāne, he hoaaloha, he mea hoʻoikaika iā mākou me ka hoʻohewa ʻole iā mākou a me ka hoʻohui ʻole i kou kaumaha.

Hoʻohuli iaʻu ka hana aloha, maʻamau anei ia?

Ke loli nei ka libido o ka hapai. I kekahi mau wahine, aia ma luna, a ma kekahi, aneane ʻole. I ka trimester mua, ma waena o ka luhi a me ka nausea, loaʻa iā mākou nā kumu (maikaʻi) ʻaʻole e moe kolohe. Ua ʻike ʻia ʻo ka hoʻokō ʻana i ka moekolohe i ka lua o ka trimester. Koe wale no mākou: ʻaʻohe mea! ʻAʻole ke aka o ka makemake. Akā ʻo ka huhū i kona piko. A ʻo ka hilahila pū kekahi. Me ka mahalo i ko makou hoa. ʻOiai mākou e hopohopo nei, ʻōlelo mākou iā mākou iho ʻaʻole mākou wale nō. He kuleana ko mākou ʻaʻole makemake. Ke kamaʻilio nei mākou me ka makuakāne e hiki mai ana e pili ana i ko mākou manaʻo, kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i kāna mau hopohopo. Ma nā hihia a pau, ho'āʻo mākou e mālama i ka pilina kino me kā mākou hoa. E pūliki iā ia, e hiamoe i loko o kāna, nā pūliki, nā honi ʻaʻole pono e pau i ka hana moe kolohe akā e mālama iā mākou i loko o kahi puʻupuʻu o ka sensuality.

ʻAʻole mākou e hoʻoikaika iā mākou iho… akā ʻaʻole mākou e kāohi.

ʻIke kekahi mau wahine i kā lākou orgasm mua i ka wā hāpai. He mea hilahila ke hala. A no ke aha e ho'āʻo ai i ka hopa ina he eha ka moe. Pono ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo, ʻike i nā kūlana o Kamasutra no nā wahine hāpai.

Hiki iaʻu ke masturbate i ka wā hāpai? He mea pōʻino no ka pēpē?

ʻAe, ʻo ke kuni kaulana o ka lua o ka malama… Ua lele hou kou libido. He nani a makemake ʻoe. Wahi a kahi noiʻi a ka pūnaewele SexyAvenue, hoʻokahi o nā wahine ʻelua e ʻae i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka libido "pahū" i ka wā hāpai. A ʻo 46% o nā hoa i hoʻopaʻa ʻia e ʻōlelo nei ua ʻike lākou "ʻaʻole hiki ke pale ʻia kā lākou hapalua" i kēia manawa. I ka pōkole, ʻo kāu mea aloha e pono i ka lani. ʻOiai… He ikaika loa a piha i kekahi manawa. Ma ka hopena, hilahila iki oe i kou mau manao a hoʻomaka e ʻeha. No laila no ke aha e hoʻomāʻona ʻole ai iā ʻoe iho? ʻAʻohe pono e manaʻo hewa, ʻAʻole pōʻino ka leʻaleʻa solo i kāu keiki, ma ke kue ! I ka wā hāpai me ka pilikia ʻole, ʻaʻohe pilikia o ka hana aloha a i ʻole ka masturbating. ʻOkoʻa nā ʻokiʻoki o ka ʻōpū i hana ʻia e ka orgasm mai ka "hana" o ka hānau ʻana. Eia kekahi, ua hoʻokuʻu ʻia nā endorphins, me ka hāʻawi ʻana iā ʻoe i ka leʻaleʻa a me ka hauʻoli, ʻoiaʻiʻo e hoʻokiʻekiʻe i ka pēpē! E hoʻomanaʻo i ka hana ʻana i ka hana hoʻokamakama e loaʻa i kahi hopena pale i ka hānau hānau ʻana.

Hoʻopilikia ka makuakāne iaʻu, he aha kaʻu e hana ai?

Ua hele ʻo ia i ke ʻano palekana pili? ʻAʻole paʻa hou i ka puka lumi ʻauʻau a i ʻole ka lawe ʻana i ka elevator ma kāu iho. Makemake ʻo ia e ʻai ʻoe i ka leeks a me ka wai kāloti no ka mea olakino? I ka pōkole, hoʻopau ʻo ia iā mākou me kona noʻonoʻo a me kona lokomaikaʻi. A ʻaʻole makemake mākou e hoʻopā i ko mākou ʻōpū i nā manawa a pau. ʻAʻole mākou manaʻo hewa, hiki i nā wahine hāpai ke haʻalele, ʻoiai ma ka lilo o ka makuakāne. E ʻike naʻe i kēlāke hoʻāʻo nei ʻo ia e hele i loko o "kona" hāpai ʻana, a ʻaʻole mālama nui nā makuakāne e hiki mai ana! E kūkākūkā pū me ia. ʻAʻole paha ʻo ia i ʻike ʻaʻole pono ʻoe i kēia mau mea a pau.

«No kēia hāpai ʻelua, ʻoi aku ka "hoʻomaha" ma ka ʻaoʻao meaʻai. Ke ʻae nei au, ʻai au i ka salmon puhi i kekahi manawa. ʻAʻole hiki i kaʻu kāne ke kū iki, noʻonoʻo mau ʻo ia iaʻu a haʻi mai iaʻu he manaʻo pilikino wau no ka mea ʻaʻole wau e nīnau i kona manaʻo. I ka manawa like, no ka lohe ʻana, pono wau e hoʻolohe i nā mea āpau. ʻOiaʻiʻo, luhi au i ka peʻe e ʻai i kahi ʻāpana ʻiʻo Grisons! ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu ka mea e hana ai e hoʻomaha iki iā ia.»

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He mea maʻamau anei kaʻu makemake e hoʻowalewale i koʻu wā hāpai?

Me he mea lā aia kahi hōʻailona "Pregnant!" E nānā i lalo ”. ʻIke loa, he pāʻani pāʻani wale nō kēia, akā paʻakikī loa ʻoe e ʻae aku i kekahi ua nalo ʻoe iā ia, ʻoiai ʻoiai e hāpai ana i ke keiki a kāu ipo. ʻIke ʻia e nā kāne, a i kekahi manawa i kou kane i kou kaumaha nui no ia mea, ʻO ka hāpaiʻana he manawa kūikawā, piha i ka lokomaikaʻi. Eia naʻe, pili loa kekahi mau kāne i ka nani o nā makuahine e hiki mai ana. Ma luna o nā mea a pau, e hoʻomanaʻo e hiki iā mākou ke hāpai a me ka wahine.

He aha inā inā wau e poop ma ka papa hoʻouna?

Aia kekahi makuahine ʻōpio ʻaʻole hopohopo e hāʻawi i ka pale keiki i makana nui? Mai makau oe, he mea maoli maoli. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki iā ia ke hōʻoia i ka pono, no ka mea, i ka wā e hoʻohaʻahaʻa pono ai ke poʻo o ke pēpē i loko o ke pelvis, kaomi ʻo ia i ka rectum, me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i ka neʻe ʻana o ka ʻōpū a hoʻolaha i ka hānau ʻana. Ua maʻa nā limahana lapaʻau i kēia ʻano hana liʻiliʻi. E hoʻoponopono ʻo ia i ka pilikia me ka ʻole o kou ʻike ʻana, me nā holoi liʻiliʻi. ʻOiaʻiʻo, inā ʻeha ʻoe i ka manaʻo e hoʻomaha iā ʻoe iho i mua o nā malihini, e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka, a i ka wā e hoʻomākaukau ai no ka hānau ʻana. Hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe i kahi laxative e lawe ʻia ma mua o ka haʻalele ʻana i ka hale hānai, a i ʻole nā ​​enemas e hana ʻia i ka wā i hiki mai ai. E hoʻomanaʻo naʻe, ma ke kumu, ʻo nā hormones i huna ʻia i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka hana ʻana e hiki i nā wahine ke loaʻa i ka ʻōpū maʻamau.