ʻO ka hāpai ʻana ma 20, 30 a i ʻole 40: ʻaʻohe makahiki maikaʻi e lilo i mau mākua
I ka manawa o ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻana o nā mākua ʻelima ma ke kumumanaʻo "Ka hāpai ʻana ma 20, 30 a i ʻole 40: aia kahi makahiki maikaʻi e lilo ai i mau mākua? Ua nīnau mākou i nā makuahine ma kā mākou mau ʻaha kūkā inā manaʻo lākou aia kahi makahiki kūpono e loaʻa ai kahi pēpē. ʻO kā lākou pane: ʻaʻole!
"I ka 20, he ʻōpio loa ia, ma 30, ʻaʻole ia ka manawa no ka mea e hoʻomaka ana ʻoe i ke ola ʻoihana, ma 40, ua lohi loa ... ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe manawa maikaʻi i ke ola, aia wale nō ka manawa i manaʻo mākou, ke makemake mākou. No laila, no kekahi, he ʻōpiopio loa ia (ʻo wau, mai ka makahiki 15, makemake au i nā keiki, a ʻike wau makemake wau iā lākou i ka wā mua), no kekahi ma hope. ʻAʻohe mea nui! ʻO kā mākou uaki ola wale nō ka mea e hopohopo nei no ka mea, i kekahi manawa, ma ke kali ʻana, ua lohi loa. ” ʻOihana 511
"Makemake au e lilo i makuahine ma 24 akā ʻaʻole i ʻae ke kūlana. ʻAʻole mākaukau ʻo Monsieur. ʻO wau iho, manaʻo wau ʻaʻohe makahiki kūpono. E like me ka moʻolelo o kēlā me kēia a me nā hormones e titillate. A inā hiki iā mākou ke loaʻa nā keiki olakino ma hope, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi! Ua lōʻihi ko mākou ola ʻana, ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi o ko mākou ola kino. ” Kitty 2012
“ʻAʻole wau i manaʻo he makahiki e lilo ai i makuahine. ʻAʻole wau i manaʻoʻiʻo i ka "mākaukau". Pehea ʻoe e mākaukau ai no ka ʻike ʻole o ka hāpai ʻana a me ke keiki? Makemake mākou, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke "mākaukau" no ka mea ʻaʻole mākou i ʻike mua i ka hopena o nā mea a pau. Laki wau i hiki iaʻu ke nānā i ʻelua mau "ʻoi loa": ʻo koʻu makuahine koʻu kaikaina ma 38 a ʻo koʻu kaikuahine i kāna kaikamahine mua ma 15 (he 20 ʻo ia i kēia manawa a ke kali nei kāna keiki ʻelua i Kepakemapa). Pono kekahi e "'ōpiopio" a ʻo kekahi e "ʻelemakule". Paʻakikī koʻu kaikuahine, palupalu koʻu makuahine… mahalo au iā lāua ʻelua (…). A ma hope o nā mea a pau, he helu wale nō ka makahiki! ʻAʻole mākou mālama. ” Gigitte13
E komo i ka hoopaapaa o na makua elima! Ma ka Poalua Mei 3, ma Palika, ka lima o ka puke " Kūkākūkā nā mākua “Me ke kumuhana:” ʻO ka hānau ʻana ma 20, 30 a i ʻole 40: aia kahi makahiki maikaʻi e lilo ai i mau mākua? “. No ke kūkākūkā ʻana i kēia kumuhana me ʻoe, ua kono mākou: ʻO Catherine Bergeret-Amselek, kanaka kālailai, a Kumu. ʻO Michel Tournaire, Obstetrician-gynecologist a me ka mea mālama mua o ka hale hānai makuahine o Saint-Vincent de Paul ma Paris. Astrid VeillonʻO kā mākou makuahine akua wiwo ʻole, e ʻōlelo ʻia. Inā makemake ʻoe e komo i kēia hālāwai, e kākau inoa ma ke kaomi ʻana ma aneʻi: www.debats-parents.fr/inscription |