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Hāʻawi hua manu: he hana o ke aloha a me ka lōkahi no Sophie
Hāpai ʻia me kāna keiki ʻelua, ʻike ʻo Sophie i ka laki o kona hiki ke hānau. A laila kau ʻia ka hāʻawi hua manu ma luna ona, ma ke ʻano he kumu ...
“Pehea i loaʻa iaʻu ke kaomi …”
"ʻO ia ka manawa i laki wau i ka hāpai ʻana i kaʻu keiki ʻelua, i ka wā i hoʻoholo ai mākou, ua ʻike maoli wau i ka laki o mākou. A mai ia manawa mai au i olelo ai ia'u iho. inā hiki iaʻu ke kōkua i nā kāne e pilikia ana i ka hāpai ʻana, ma kekahi ano, alaila Pono wau e hana.
ʻO ka mea a mākou e ʻike nei me kā mākou keiki, nāna e hoʻoneʻe iā mākou i kēlā me kēia lā, a me kēia pēpē e ulu nei i loko o koʻu ʻōpū, pono i nā kāne a pau e makemake ana e ola, i hiki i nā mea a pau ke komo iā ia.
Ua paʻa ka manaʻo. I kekahi lā ke hana mākou i ko mākou ʻohana holoʻokoʻa, e kōkua wau i kahi kāne ma ka hāʻawi ʻana i kaʻu mau hua. “
“Ua kōkua ka hāʻawi hua manu ma kahi o ʻelua mau kāne. “
"A laila, ʻoi aku ka wikiwiki o ka manawa ma mua o ka mea i manaʻo ʻia. He 1 a me 3 makahiki ka'u mau keiki. Ma ka pūnaewele puni honua kahi aʻu i hoʻopaʻa inoa ai no nā makahiki, ua wehewehe kekahi wahine ʻōpio i nā lā, nā mahina, nā makahiki, i kāna ala keʻakeʻa lōʻihi no ia a me kāna hoa e lilo i mau mākua. ʻAʻole hoʻi hou ko lākou manawa lapaʻau hope loa, pono lākou e hele ma o ka hāʻawi hua manu e hanau keiki. Ma keʻano maoli, me ka noʻonoʻo ʻole, hāʻawi wau i kaʻu kōkua… ..
Ma Palani, lōʻihi nā papa inoa kali no ka hāʻawi hua manu, nā mea hāʻawi kakaʻikahi a me nā mea loaʻa he nui. Eia kekahi, no ka neʻe wikiwiki ʻana, manaʻo nā kauka e loaʻa i nā mea loaʻa nā mea hāʻawi manawaleʻa, nāna lākou e hoʻopaʻa inoa ma nā papa inoa pono. ʻAʻohe inoa a manuahi ka hāʻawi. Kōkua ka hāʻawi hua manu ma kahi o ʻelua mau kāne.
“ʻO kēia hāʻawi hua manu i hoʻokokoke mai iā mākou”
"No laila ua hana mākou i kahi manawa ma ke kikowaena AMP. ʻO mākou, kaʻu kāne a me aʻu! He a ka hele wāwae, ua ʻike mākou e hoʻololi ana kēia haʻawina i ko mākou ola i kēlā me kēia lā. Ua hiki iā mākou ke nīnau i kā mākou mau nīnau, ua hoʻokipa mau ʻia mākou me nā lima hāmama e ka hui lapaʻau, ka psychologist, ka palekeiki, ka geneticist, ka gynecologist. Ua hoʻokokoke kēia makana iā mākou.
Ua loaʻa iaʻu nā hoʻāʻo koko he nui i nā manawa like ʻole i koʻu pōʻai menstrual. A laila, i ka manawa i loaʻa ai nā hopena a pau a ua hoʻoponopono ʻia ka hoʻoponopono ʻana, lawe wau i ka papa mua e hoʻoulu ai i kaʻu mau ovaries, i mea e loaʻa ai ka ovulation maikaʻi. I ko mākou huakaʻi holoʻokoʻa, wehewehe wau i ko mākou hele ʻana i ka poʻe a puni mākou. Ua ho'āʻo wau e hoʻolaha i ka hāʻawi hua manu. Māhele ʻia nā manaʻo, nui nā mea mālama…. "
"ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā gametes: kahi hana o ke aloha a me ka lōkahi"
“No ke aha wau i hana ai? No ke aha i mahalo nui ai ka hui lapaʻau a pau iaʻu? Ua hana au no kaʻana like i ko mākou hauʻoli o ka lilo ʻana i mau mākua, e hana i kekahi mea maikaʻi, kahi mea e haʻaheo ai au me ka ʻole o ka priori, me ka ʻole o nā kumu huna. ʻAʻole lawe mai kēia haʻawina iaʻu? ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe, i loko o nā hālāwai, nā pae like ʻole, ua hiki iaʻu ke nānā i nā mea a kēia mau kāne a pau e hele ai, e hōʻike ana i ko lākou ola pili, kā lākou ʻai a me nā ʻano haʻuki,…. ʻO ko lākou wiwo ʻole e hoʻomau i ka hakakā ʻana i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana o ka poʻe a puni iā lākou "e hopohopo e hiki mai ana, hoʻōki i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana iā ia" a i ʻole "ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike pehea e hana ai ..."
Ua makaʻala loa au i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o hāʻawi manaʻolana i nā kāne ʻeha, e hoʻomaopopo iā lākou ʻaʻole ʻo lākou wale nō, ʻaʻole no ka loaʻa ʻana o kā mākou mau keiki i ka wā e makemake ai mākou e poina iā lākou a ʻo ka mea ʻē aʻe, ma o lākou lā mākou e hoʻomaikaʻi ai iā mākou iho i ka laki. aia iā mākou. Ma nā palapala a pau, hiki iaʻu ke heluhelu ʻo ka hāʻawi ʻana he a hana manawalea. ʻAe ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ia ka mea ma luna o nā mea a pau he hana o ke aloha a me ka lokahi. “