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“Kōkua, ʻaʻole au makemake iki! “
ʻO ka hānau ʻana o kahi pēpē he hoʻohiwahiwa hoʻohiwahiwa e hāʻawi ana i ka manaʻo maoli i ke ola. Akā, hōʻike pū ia i kahi pilikia o ka pilikia no ka lua. ʻO ka moekolohe, ma ke ʻano, hele pinepine ma o a wahi o ka haunaele. Hoʻololi ia, me ka ʻole o kēia pilikia. Aia nā mea a pau i ka ikaika o nā kāne a me ko lākou hiki ke hana ʻike. ʻO ka hoʻololi ʻana o kou kino, ka hoihoi i hōʻike ʻia i ka pēpē (e hiki mai ana) hiki ke haʻalele i kāu mea aloha, luhi, ʻeha kino ... he nui nā kumu i kūpono ʻole i ka ka ulu ʻana o ka libido. Akā inā paʻakikī nā kāne e ʻike i kekahi i kekahi, ua hala kekahi mau pule o ka haunaele maʻamau, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka ʻae ʻole i ka ʻōlelo ʻole ʻia, nā nīnau a me nā mea hilahila.
ʻO ka manaʻo o ka shrink: "Ua manaʻo kekahi mau wahine ʻaʻole i noʻonoʻo ka makemake kāne i kā lākou manaʻo. “
"Hoʻololi ka moekolohe i nā mahina, me ka hāʻule o ka libido no kekahi mau wahine, no nā mea ʻē aʻe, hoʻonui i ka libido. Aia nō i ke ʻano o ko kākou ʻike ʻana iā kākou iho i loko o kēia kino loli. ʻOliʻoli paha mākou i ka lawe ʻana i nā palapala a ʻaʻole paha ... I kēia hihia, pinepine, ʻaʻole makemake hou ka wahine e moe kāne ... Hiki i ka nele o ka makemake ke kūlike me ka hiki ʻana mai o ka pēpē, ʻaʻole ʻo ka male ka mea nui. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole like ke kumu o ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ka male no lāua. Makemake ka wahine e hoʻomaka i ʻohana, ʻo ke kāne he kāne. No ia, ʻaʻole makemake ka moe kolohe, akā ʻo ka makemake i ke keiki. ʻO kona hele ʻana mai e hoʻopiha a lawe i kahi o nā makemake ʻē aʻe. Hiki i kekahi mau wahine ke manaʻo ʻaʻole i noʻonoʻo ka makemake kāne i kā lākou manaʻo. ʻO ka mea nui, ʻo ka lawe ʻana i ka manawa e hoʻolohe ai kekahi i kekahi, e hoʻoulu i kahi pilina no ʻelua e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke ʻimi i nā manawa o ka naʻau i ʻole e neʻe nui loa i ke kino, ʻoiai ke liʻiliʻi ka pilina. “
ʻO Kauka Bernard Geberowicz, ka maʻi psychiatrist, kāne a me ka ʻohana therapist, co-mea kākau o "Babyclash, the couple to the test of the child", Albin Michel.
"He mea maʻamau ka hāʻule ʻana o ka libido. Hiki iā mākou ke ʻae i ka manaʻo no nā pule he ʻumi, ʻaʻole pono ka male. He mea nui e kamaʻilio nui kekahi i kekahi, ʻaʻole e manaʻo hewa ... a loaʻa ka makemake e hoʻowalewale. “
ʻO ka manaʻo o ke kauka wahine: "He mea nui e nīnau iā ʻoe iho inā makemake ʻoe ... makemake. “
"Ke kamaʻilio pinepine nei mākou e pili ana i nā hormones. ʻAʻole naʻe lākou e hana hewa. ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe, aia ka wahine hāpai i nā kūlana physiological maikaʻi loa e loaʻa ai ka makemake a me ka leʻaleʻa: ʻo ke kahe o ka estrogen e hoʻomaʻemaʻe a hoʻihoʻi i ka vagina. Inā ʻaʻole e haʻi mai kā mākou hoʻonaʻauao iā mākou e lilo ana mākou i makuahine a ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻopili ʻia ... Ma hope o ka hānau ʻana, he aha ka mea e pale ai i ka moe kolohe, hiki ke lilo i ka maloʻo vaginal, kahi kumu hormonal. Aia kekahi lāʻau lapaʻau kūloko e hoʻoikaika i ka hydration (e makemake ʻia i nā lubricants e maloʻo wikiwiki a ʻae i ke komo ʻana, akā e hoʻopili i ka hōʻike). I loko o kēia manawa, he mea nui e nīnau iā ʻoe iho inā makemake ʻoe ... makemake. No ka mea, ʻo ke kānāwai maoli i ka moekolohe ʻo ka hana hou ʻana! Ke kū mākou, ʻaʻole makemake hou. Inā ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia ʻoe, ʻo ka leʻaleʻa me ka mālama ʻana i hiki ke mālama i ka paʻa o ka male. A, ma muli o kona mōʻaukala, he manawa lōʻihi a pōkole paha ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana i ka moekolohe: inā, 2 mau mahina ma hope o ka hānau ʻana, ʻaʻohe āu pilina me ke komo ʻana, pono ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana iā ia a ma hope o 4 mau mahina, e kūkākūkā. “
ʻO Kauka Sylvain Mimoun, ka mea kaukaʻi maʻi maʻi andrologist, loea i ka moe kolohe. Mea kākau me Rica Étienne de “Côté puʻuwai, ʻaoʻao wahine, nā kumu o ka hauʻoli no ʻelua ”, Albin Michel.