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Ke noʻonoʻo nā keiki i ko lākou ʻano kāne
He mea koʻikoʻi nā nīnau a nā keiki e pili ana i ka moekolohe, no ka mea, aia ma waena o 3 a me 6 mau makahiki i hoʻokumu ai lākou i ke kumu o ko lākou moekolohe kanaka makua. Akā he aha ka pane iā lākou? Nā mea akaka, me nā huaʻōlelo kūpono i ko lākou mau makahiki.
Mai ka makahiki 2, e noʻonoʻo nā keiki i ko lākou ʻano moe kolohe. Ke hopohopo pinepine nei nā kamaliʻi ʻaʻole like kā lākou mau hoa liʻiliʻi me lākou ma nā ʻano āpau. Ke ʻike ʻo ia i ke ʻano o kahi kaikamahine liʻiliʻi, haʻohaʻo ke keiki liʻiliʻi a hopohopo: inā ʻaʻohe kāna penis, no ka mea paha ua hāʻule ʻo ia a hiki iā ia ke nalowale i kāna? ʻO kēia ka "castration complex" kaulana. Pēlā nō, hoʻonele ʻia ke kaikamahine i kahi "tap" a noʻonoʻo ʻo ia inā e pana ʻo ia ma hope. E kau pololei: he kāne ko nā kaikamāhine, e like me nā keikikāne, akā ʻaʻole like. ʻIke ʻia ka liʻiliʻi o nā kaikamahine no ka mea aia i loko (a huna paha). Eia naʻe, he ʻāpana o ke kino ka penis, ʻaʻole paha e hemo. "E lilo ana au i makuahine, makua?" Ua ʻike ke keiki liʻiliʻi i ka ʻokoʻa kāne. No ke kūkulu ʻana i kona ʻano pilikino, pono ʻo ia e ʻike he kaikamahine ʻoe a he keikikāne mau loa. E lilo ke kaikamahine liʻiliʻi i wahine hiki ke hāpai i kahi pēpē i loko o kona ʻōpū a lilo i makuahine. No ia mea e pono ai ia i ka hua liʻiliʻi a ke kāne e lilo i makua kāne. ʻO ka mea nui, ʻo ia ka hoʻonui ʻana i ke kuleana o kēlā me kēia kanaka.
3-4 makahiki: nā nīnau e pili ana i ka hāpai ʻana
” Pehea ka hana ʻia ʻana o nā pēpē ? “
I kēia mau makahiki, nui nā nīnau a nā keiki e pili ana i ko lākou kumu a me ka hānau ʻana. Hoʻoikaika i ke aloha a me ka leʻaleʻa like : “Ke honi a apo ka poe aloha i kekahi i kekahi me ka olohelohe, haawi ia i ka lealea nui. ʻO kēia ka manawa e hiki ai iā lākou ke hana i pēpē: waiho ka penis a ka makuakāne i kahi hua liʻiliʻi i loko o ka ʻāpana o ka makuahine, hui ka hua a ka makuakāne me ka makuahine, a hāʻawi ia i kahi hua manu, i hūnā maikaʻi ʻia i loko o ka ʻōpū o ka makuahine, e ulu nui aʻe a lilo. he pēpē. » Ua ʻoi aku ka lawa iā ia!
"Pehea wau i puka mai ai mai kou ʻōpū mai?" “
Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo: puka mai ka pēpē ma kahi lua liʻiliʻi e pili ana i ka wahine o ka makuahine. ʻAʻole kēia ʻo ka puka e ʻimi ai nā kaikamāhine, he puka liʻiliʻi ʻē aʻe ma hope, a he lohiʻo ia hoʻi, ke mākaukau ka pēpē e puka i waho, hoʻomāhuahua ka ala iā ia a paʻa ma hope. E hahai i ka manaʻo a me ka hauʻoli āu i manaʻo ai i kona hānau ʻana.
4-5 makahiki: nīnau nā keiki i nā mākua e pili ana i ka moekolohe a me ke aloha
"Hni anei nā mea aloha a pau i ka waha?" “
I kēia manawa, ke ʻike ʻo ia i nā mea aloha e honi ana, hilahila ʻo ia a ʻike ʻia he mea hoʻopailua. E wehewehe aku iā ia he makemake nā mea aloha iā ia, he mea ia e hauʻoli ai lākou, a ʻo ia, ʻo ia hoʻi e ʻike a mahalo i nā ʻano o ke aloha ke ulu ʻo ia, i kona halawai ana me kekahi kaikamahine opio ana e aloha ai. Akā no kēia manawa, liʻiliʻi loa ia no kēlā. A ʻaʻole loa e koi ʻia ʻo ia e hana inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e makemake!
"He aha ke aloha?" »
Ua pāʻani mua paha kāu keiki liʻiliʻi i ka "makemake" me kahi hoaaloha: pili mākou, honi mākou a ʻakaʻaka mākou, hewa iki. Pono ʻoe e haʻi aku iā ia i ʻelua mau ʻoiaʻiʻo: ʻO ka mea mua, na nā mākua ke aloha, ʻaʻole nā keiki. ʻO ka lua, ʻaʻole haumia a hilahila ʻole. E wehewehe i ka wā e aloha ai ka poʻe makua, makemake lākou e hoʻopā kekahi i kekahi, e hoʻopaʻa kapa ʻole no ka mea ʻo ia ka maikaʻi. Hoʻohana mua ʻia ka hana aloha e kaʻana like i kahi leʻaleʻa nui, a hiki nō hoʻi iā ʻoe ke hānau keiki, inā makemake ʻia.