Ua kapa ʻia ʻo "blues pēpē". He mokuʻāina kēia inā ʻaʻohe hauʻoli iki o kahi makuahine ʻōpio, akā kaumaha, puʻupuʻu a haki hoʻi.
Manaʻo ka nui o nā wahine he fiction wale nō ke kaumaha postpartum. ʻO Whim. “ʻAʻohe ou mea e hana ai. Huhū ʻoe me ka momona, ”- ʻōhumu e pili ana i kou kūlana hauʻoli ʻole, he maʻalahi loa ke holo i loko o ia ʻano pāpā. Eia nō naʻe, ʻokoʻa ka ʻōlelo a nā kauka: kaumaha ke kaumaha ma hope o ka hānau ʻana. A hiki ke lilo i maʻi koʻikoʻi inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻimi i ke kōkua. A i ʻole, ma ka liʻiliʻi, e hoʻomake i nā mahina hauʻoli loa o kou ola.
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I ka 2006, he keikikāne kā ka mea hana keaka, ʻo Mose, kāna keiki ʻelua. I hoʻokahi makahiki ma mua, ua ʻae ʻo ia ke ʻeha nei ʻo ia i ke kaumaha ma muli o ka make ʻana o kona makuakāne. A ʻo ka hānau ʻana o kahi keiki ua hōʻeha wale i ke ʻano o Gwyneth.
"Ua neʻe wau, hana i kekahi mea, mālama i ke keiki e like me ka lopako. ʻAʻohe oʻu manaʻo. ʻO ka maʻamau. ʻAʻohe oʻu manaʻo makuahine no kaʻu keiki - weliweli ia. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻike i kēlā pilina pili loa me kaʻu keiki. I kēia manawa ke nānā nei wau i kahi kiʻi o Mose, kahi o ʻekolu ona mahina - ʻaʻole wau e hoʻomanaʻo i kēlā manawa. ʻO koʻu pilikia hoʻi, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻae i kekahi mea i hewa. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻokuʻi i ʻelua a me ʻelua, ”i ʻae ka hōkū Hollywood.
Ua kapa inoa ʻia ka supermodel he 54 ona makahiki i ka Kino. ʻAʻole pili nā kānāwai o ka manawa iā ia. Noho maikaʻi ʻo Elle Macpherson e like me kona wā ʻōpio a ma mua o ka hānau ʻana o kāna mau keiki ʻelua. No ke aha e kaumaha ai? Eia naʻe, he ʻoiaʻiʻo.
ʻAʻole i hoʻolaha nui ʻo El e pili ana i kāna mea hoʻonāukiuki. Akā ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ua noi koke ʻo ia no ke kōkua: Ua hana wale wau i kaʻu mea e hana ai a hele aku i nā loea, no ka mea, he nui nā pilikia e pono ai e hoʻoponopono ʻia. “
Ke hānai nei ka mea mele Kanada i ʻelua mau keiki. Ma mua o ka hānau ʻana, ua pilikia ʻo Alanis me ka paʻa o ka naʻau: ua hakakā ʻo ia me bulimia a me anorexia. ʻO kona kaumaha i hoʻokahi manawa mai 45 a 49 kilokilo. No laila ma hope o ke ʻano o kāna keikikāne a me kāna kaikamahine, ʻaʻole hiki i ka psyche o ka mea mele ke pale aku.
“Ua pīhoihoi ka hohonu o kuʻu kaumaha hope hānau. Ua ʻike wau i ke ʻano o ke kaumaha. Akā i kēia manawa ua pā ʻia au e ka ʻeha o ke kino. Wāwahi nā lima, nā wāwae, hoʻi. Kino, poʻo - ʻeha nā mea āpau. Ua hala kēia no 15 mau mahina. ʻIke wau ua uhi wau i ke kēpau, 50 mau manawa ka lōʻihi o ka hana ma mua o ka maʻamau. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke uē ... ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, ʻaʻole kēia i hoʻopilikia i kaʻu pili me kaʻu keiki, ʻoiai manaʻo wau ua lilo ʻo ia i ikaika i koʻu wā e ola hou ai, ”i hoʻohalahala ai ka mea mele.
ʻO ka mea mele kaulana kaulana, i ka piko o kāna ʻoihana, hoʻolaha koke ʻo ia e hoʻōki i ka huakaʻi no 10 mau makahiki! A no ka pono o ka makuahine. Ua ʻōlelo mua ʻo Adele ua minamina ʻo ia no ka manawa nalowale i hiki iā ia ke noho me kāna keiki ʻo Angelo. A ma hope ua hoʻoholo ʻo ia: ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e haʻalele i nā manawa koʻikoʻi i ke ola o kāna keiki. Ma ka liʻiliʻi a hiki i kona puka ʻana mai ke kula kiʻekiʻe. Ke noʻonoʻo nei ua hānau ʻia ʻo Angelo ma 2012, aia kahi ala lōʻihi i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka huakaʻi.
Akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia wale nō! Ua ʻae ʻo Adele e makemake i nā keiki hou aku. A i ka hanana o kahi pēpē a pēpē paha, mākaukau ʻo ia e haʻalele holoʻokoʻa i ke kahua. Akā ma mua o ka mea a ka mea mele i ʻōlelo ai ma mua o ka manawa makaʻu ʻo ia e hānau keiki hou aʻe no ka nui o ke kaumaha postpartum, nāna e alo.
"Ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o Angelo, ua ʻike wau ʻaʻole lawa. E kala mai iaʻu, akā huikau loa kēia kumuhana iaʻu, hilahila wau e kamaʻilio e pili ana i koʻu mau manaʻo i kēlā manawa. “
Kaulana ka mea hana keaka a me ka mea hīmeni i ko mākou ʻāina no kāna hana hoʻokō e like me kāna male. Kūpono ʻole. Mai ka 2009, ua pili ka hōkū i ka mea hoʻokahakaha Wladimir Klitschko. Mai 2013 a 2018, noho like ʻo Hayden lāua ʻo Vladimir. A i ka 2014, he kaikamahine kā lāua (ʻo ka mea ma mua) he kaikamahine, ʻo Kaya Evdokia Klitschko.
"ʻO kēia kekahi o nā mea luhi a hoʻoweliweli loa i hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo. ʻAʻole wau i makemake e hana ʻino i kaʻu keiki, akā weliweli koʻu ʻano. Me he mea lā ʻaʻole wau i aloha i kaʻu kaikamahine, ʻaʻole wau i maopopo i ka mea e hana nei iaʻu. Ua ʻehaʻeha wau e ka manaʻo hewa. Inā manaʻo kekahi he kaumaha ka post-natal depression a he mea hou, ua hele a pupule, "- wahi a Hayden ma hope o ka hānau ʻana. Ua koi ʻia ʻo ia e ʻimi i ke kōkua o nā loea e kū i ke kaumaha.
Ke hānai nei ka mea hana keikikāne i ʻelua mau kaikamahine, ʻo ka hānau mua he 15, ʻo ka muli loa he 13 mau makahiki. Ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o kāna keiki ʻelua, ua pono ʻo Brooke e lawe i nā antidepressants, no ia mea i hoʻopiʻi nui ʻia e Tom Cruise. ʻAʻole maopopo iā ia e pili ana i ke kaumaha postpartum. Ua kākau ʻo Brooke Shields i kahi puke e pili ana i ke kū ʻana i kona ʻano. A ua ʻae ʻo ia ua kipa ʻia ʻo ia e nā manaʻo hoʻomake i ke ola.
"I kēia manawa ua ʻike wau i nā mea e hana nei i loko o kuʻu kino, i loko o kuʻu poʻo. ʻAʻole ia naʻu ka hewa i manaʻo ai. ʻAʻole ia i hilinaʻi ʻia iaʻu. Inā loaʻa iaʻu kahi kuhi ʻokoʻa, e holo wau no ke kōkua a komo i kaʻu ʻike e like me kahi hōʻailona. Maikaʻi ua hiki iaʻu ke pale a ola. ʻAʻohe ona pili me nā keiki aloha. ʻO kēia nā homone āpau. Mai nānā ʻole i kou mau manaʻo, e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka. ʻAʻole pono ia e hauʻoli ʻole, "i ʻōlelo ʻo ia ma ka Oprah Show.
Ua male ka hōkū ʻo Nine Yards i ka mea kākau kākau ʻo David Benioff mai ka makahiki 2006. ʻEkolu mau keiki a ka wahine: ʻelua mau kaikamahine a me kahi keikikāne. Ua loaʻa ʻo ia i ke kaumaha postpartum ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o kāna kaikamahine mua, pēpē Frankie.
"Ma hope o koʻu hānau ʻana, ua hoʻomaka wau e loaʻa i ke kaumaha hope loa o ka postpartum. Manaʻo wau no ka mea ua loaʻa wau i kahi hāpai euphoric maoli, "wahi a Amanda.
Ua lilo ka hōkū o ka moʻo Nāna i makuahine i lohi loa: ʻo kāna kaikamahine mua a hoʻokahi wale nō, ʻo Coco, i hānau ʻia i ka wā he 40 mau makahiki o ka mea hana keaka. Ua loaʻa ka kaumaha me Courtney. Akā ʻaʻole koke - alo ʻo ia i ke kaumaha kaumaha.
"Ua hele wau i loko o kahi manawa paʻakikī - ʻaʻole koke ma hope o ka hānau ʻana, akā i ka piha ʻana o Coco iʻeono mau makahiki. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hiamoe. Ke kuʻi nui nei kuʻu puʻuwai, kaumaha loa wau. Ua pono wau e hele i ke kauka, a ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia he pilikia koʻu me nā homone, "- wahi a Courtney.
He ʻekolu keiki kāne a ka mea mele. Ua hānau ka hānau mua i 18 i Ianuali, ʻo ka muli loa he māhoe, a ʻewalu i ʻOkakopa. Ua kamaʻilio ʻo Celine e pili ana i nā pilikia āna i kū ai ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o nā ʻōpio.
"I nā lā mua ma hope o koʻu hoʻi ʻana i ka home, ua hele iki wau mai koʻu manaʻo. Ua hoʻololi koke ʻia ka hauʻoli nui e ka luhi weliweli, ua uē wau no ke kumu ʻole. ʻAʻohe oʻu makemake a hoʻonāukiuki iaʻu. Ua ʻike koʻu makuahine i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole wau ola. Akā ua hōʻoiaʻiʻo mai iaʻu, ua ʻōlelo ʻia hiki mai ia, maikaʻi nā mea āpau. Ma hope o ka hānau ʻia ʻana o ka pēpē, pono maoli ka makuahine i ke kākoʻo naʻau. ”
He ʻelua mau kaikamahine a ka mea hana keaka: ʻeono makahiki ʻo Olive a me Frankie ʻehā makahiki. ʻO ka manawa mua, ua holo pono nā mea āpau, akā ʻo ka lua o ka manawa, ʻaʻole i hala ka māhele kaumaha a Drew o nā makuahine kaumaha.
“ʻAʻohe oʻu wā postpartum i ka manawa mua, no laila ʻaʻole wau i maopopo iki i ke ʻano o ia mea. "Maikaʻi loa wau!" - Ua ʻōlelo au, a he ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO ka lua o ka manawa aʻu i noʻonoʻo ai: He hana kaumaha loa ia. Me he mea lā ua hina wau i loko o kahi ao pulupulu nui, ”haʻi ʻia ʻo Drew Barrymore.
ʻOiai, i ke alo o ka maʻi, like nā kānaka āpau - ka wahine holoi holoi a me ka duchess. Ua kaumaha loa ʻo Kate Middleton: ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o kāna keikikāne ʻo George, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i makemake e haʻalele i ka hale, a ua hala kekahi i nā hanana kaiāulu. I kēia manawa ʻo Kate ma ke poʻo o kahi neʻe e paipai i nā wahine ʻaʻole e hūnā i ka naʻau iā lākou iho, akā e ʻimi i ke kōkua.
“He mea nui ka mālama ʻana i kou olakino noʻonoʻo, keu hoʻi i nā makahiki mua o ka makua. Naʻu, he makana a maikaʻi loa ka makuahine. Eia nō naʻe, i kekahi manawa paʻakikī loa iaʻu. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, he mau mea kōkua kaʻu, a ʻaʻohe o lākou ka hapa nui o nā makuahine, ”i ʻōlelo ai ʻo Kate i kona mau hoa makaʻāinana.
ʻO Cersei nani mai Game of Thrones he mau keiki ʻelua: he keikikāne a he kaikamahine. Eia kekahi, ua hoʻokomo ʻia nā hāpai ʻelua i ka moʻo, hoʻomau ka hana a ka mea hana keaka, i ke kūlana. Ua ʻeha ʻo Lena i ka huhū o ke kaumaha maʻi mai ka wā kamaliʻi. A ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o kāna keiki mua, pono hou ʻo ia i ke kōkua o nā loea.
“ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu ka mea e hana nei iaʻu. E hele pupule wale ana wau. I ka hopena, ua hele au i kahi kāne i kāwili i ka lāʻau Komohana a me ka akeakamai o ka Hikina, ua hana ʻo ia i kahi hoʻolālā lapaʻau noʻu. A laila ua loli nā mea āpau, "wahi a Lena Headey.
Me nā keiki liʻiliʻi, ʻo Jett lāua ʻo Bunny
Mea mele, mea hoʻohālike, mea kākau, mea hana keaka, mea hoʻolālā kiʻi a wahine wahine hoʻi. A he makuahine o ʻelima mau keiki. Ua lanakila ʻē ʻo ia i ka maʻi ʻaʻai. He wahine ikaika, he aha kāu e ʻōlelo ai? Akā ua pio ʻo Katie i ka kaumaha postpartum.
"Me he mea lā ua wili ʻia nā mea āpau i loko o koʻu ʻōpū i loko o kahi knot. Ua kaumaha loa wau i makemake lākou e lawe i kaʻu keiki mai oʻu aku a hiki i koʻu noʻonoʻo. Loaʻa iaʻu ke kōkua a hiki ke hele i loko. ʻAʻole wau hilahila e kamaʻilio e pili ana. A ʻaʻohe mea e hoʻohilahila ʻia, "maopopo ʻo Katie Price.
ʻAʻole i hala i kahi hoʻohālikelike ʻAmelike a me ka mea hōʻike TV. He ʻelua keiki a Chrissy - ua hānau ʻia ke kaikamahine ʻo Luna ma ʻApelila 2016, a me kāna keiki ʻo Miles i Mei 2018. Ua hāpai ʻia lāua ʻelua me IVF. Ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o Luna, ua ʻike ʻia ʻo Chrissy me ke kaumaha o ka postpartum.
"ʻO ka hele ʻana i waho o kahi moe a hele i kahi ma mua o koʻu ikaika. Back, lima - ʻeha nā mea āpau. ʻAʻohe ʻai. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻai a haʻalele i ka hale i ka lā holoʻokoʻa. I kēlā me kēia manawa a laila hoʻomaka ʻo ia e uē - no ke kumu ʻole, "hoʻomanaʻo ʻo Chrissy.
Ua kōkua kāna kāne ʻo John Legend i ka mea hōʻike e kū i ke kaumaha. Wahi a Chrissy, ua nānā ʻo ia i nā hōʻike ʻoiaʻiʻo lapuwale me ia.