He aha ka manaʻo o ka makuakāne ke hāʻawi ʻo ia i ka ʻōmole? 3 pane mai na makua

Nicolas, 36 makahiki, makua kāne o 2 kaikamahine (1 a me 8 makahiki): “He manawa kapu ia. “

“He hoʻololi maikaʻi ia ma waena o kaʻu kaikamahine me aʻu. ʻAʻole pono wale ke komo ʻana i ka hānai ʻana i ka pēpē, akā maopopo iaʻu a me kaʻu wahine! Pili maoli au i nā hana a pau me ka ʻōmole. Pili mau ʻo ia i koʻu lima ke inu ʻo ia, a makemake wau ia! Inā liʻiliʻi ka leʻaleʻa o nā ʻōmole o nā pō mua… ʻōlelo wau i nā poʻe āpau e lawe i ka manawa e ola i kēia mau manawa pōkole loa. Ke hauʻoli nei au me kaʻu kaikamahine i hoʻokahi makahiki, no ka mea, ʻaʻole ia e mau! “

ʻO Landry, makua kāne o nā keiki ʻelua: “ʻAʻole wau ʻoluʻolu loa, no laila e uku …”

"Makemake mākou e hānai ʻia kā mākou keiki i ka wā hiki. Akā, hāʻawi wau i ka ʻōmole ke hoʻi lohi koʻu hoa mai ka hana, no ka laʻana. ʻO nā manawa liʻiliʻi aʻu i hānai ai iā ia, ʻo ia nā manawa kūpono o ka hoʻololi ʻana me kaʻu keiki, o ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā hiʻohiʻona a me nā ʻakaʻaka, nā manawa e kamaʻilio ai mākou me kāna pēpē he alo a he alo. He manawa ʻoluʻolu hoʻi ia noʻu ka mea hōʻike ʻole. Ma muli o koʻu hoʻonaʻauao ʻana, ʻoi aku koʻu makemake e pāʻani me kaʻu mau keiki ma mua o ka ʻoluʻolu ʻana iā lākou, ʻaʻole maʻamau iaʻu. “

E hoʻolilo i kēlā me kēia manawa hānai omole i manawa aloha

ʻO ka hoʻopuni ʻana i ka pēpē me kona mau lima lokomaikaʻi ke hāʻawi aku mākou iā ia i ka ʻōmole ke ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻoulu ai i ka paʻa o ke aloha e hoʻohui iā mākou. He manawa kupua kēlā me kēia ʻōmole. Ua ʻoi aku ka mālie o ko mākou noho ʻana i kā mākou hānai ʻana i kā mākou keiki me ka waiū pēpē i kūpono iā ia a kūpono i kā mākou mau koi. Ke hoʻomohala nei ʻo Babybio i kāna ʻike no nā makahiki he 25, e kōkua i nā makuahine a me nā makuakāne e nānā pono i ka mea nui, ʻo ia hoʻi ka pilina me kā lākou pēpē. Hana ʻia ma Palani, ua hana ʻia kāna mau waiu pēpē kiʻekiʻe mai ka waiu bipi Farani kūlohelohe a me ka waiū kao kūlohelohe, ʻaʻohe ʻaila pāma. ʻO kēia SME Farani, i kūpaʻa i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i nā ʻāpana mahiʻai kūlohelohe, hana pū kekahi no ka pono holoholona a no ka maluhia o nā mākua ʻōpio! A no ka noho mālie, ʻo ia hoʻi ka maʻalahi o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka waiū pēpē āu i koho ai, loaʻa ka laulā Babybio ma nā hale kūʻai kūʻai a me nā hale kūʻai liʻiliʻi, ma nā hale kūʻai kūlohelohe, ma nā lāʻau lapaʻau a me ka pūnaewele.

Palapala Hōʻike Nui : ʻO ka waiū umauma ka meaʻai maikaʻi loa no kēlā me kēia pēpē. Eia nō naʻe, inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole makemake paha e hānai i ka umauma, e ʻōlelo kāu kauka i ke ʻano o ka pēpē pēpē. He kūpono ka waiu pēpē no ka meaʻai kūikawā no nā pēpē mai ka hānau ʻana i ka wā ʻaʻole lākou i hānai ʻia. Mai hoʻololi i ka waiū me ka ʻole o ka ʻōlelo aʻo kino.

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ʻO Adrien, ka makuakāne o kahi kaikamahine liʻiliʻi: “ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke kali e hānai i ka ʻōmole. “

"Noʻu, ʻo ka pilikia o ka hānai ʻana a i ʻole ka hānai ʻana i ka ʻōmole he mea ia na ka makuahine e hoʻoholo ponoʻī iā ia iho. Akā ua hauʻoli wau i kona hoʻoholo ʻana e hoʻololi koke i ka ʻōmole. I ka hoʻomaka ʻana, ʻōlelo wau iaʻu iho: "ʻOiai ʻo ia e inu nui ana, e like me ia, e hiamoe ʻo ia i ka manawa lōʻihi". Ma hope o nā pō hoʻomaha ʻole me nā ʻōmole nui (a i ʻole kekahi mau pō mālie ma hope o nā ʻōmole liʻiliʻi), maopopo iaʻu ʻaʻohe loulou! A laila, inā ʻaʻole mākou e hāʻawi iā lākou i ka ʻōmole, noho liʻiliʻi mākou i waho i ko lākou mau mahina mua! ”  

Ka manaʻo o ka mea akamai

ʻO Dr Bruno Décoret, psychologist ma Lyon a me ka mea kākau o "Families" (economica ed.)

«ʻO kēia mau ʻōlelo hōʻike he hōʻike kūpono ia o ka nohona o kēia mau lā, kahi i ulu nui ai. Hauʻoli kēia mau makua kāne i ka hānai ʻana i kā lākou pēpē, hauʻoli lākou mai ia mea. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole like ka hōʻike ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka hānai ʻana i ka hue. ʻO ka manaʻo nui o kēia hana he mea leʻaleʻa ia, hiki ke lilo i ʻāpana o kā lākou kuleana ma ke ʻano he makua kāne. Akā, he ʻano ʻokoʻa ka hana a lākou e hāʻawi ai i ka makuahine: ʻōlelo liʻiliʻi kekahi, hōʻike kekahi i kahi koho maʻamau me ia, a ʻo ke kolu e hana i kahi hierarchy, e hoʻokūpaʻa ana ʻo ka hānai mua ʻana i ka ʻoihana a ka makuahine. Maʻaneʻi, ʻo ka mea maikaʻi no ke keiki ʻaʻole i ʻike ʻia ma ke ʻano he kaohi. No ka mea, ʻaʻole ʻo ia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka omo ʻana i ka umauma e pono ai mai ka manaʻo o ka hoʻopili ʻana, ʻo ia ka mea i loko o nā lima o kahi kanaka mālama a aloha. He mea maikaʻi i nā mākua ke kamaʻilio kekahi i kekahi e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana a me ka hoʻoholo kūʻokoʻa. “

 

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