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He aha ka nīnauele ʻehā mahina?
Ua hoʻokomo ʻia ka nīnauele ʻehā o ka mahina ma ka kalena perinatal i ka makahiki 2006. ʻO ke kumu o kēia hui koho me kā mākou kauka e hōʻike iā mākou e pili ana i kā mākou hāpai ʻana a me ka hānau ʻana. Akā, e hoʻolohe mai iā mākou a e kuhikuhi iā mākou i nā ʻoihana inā pilikia nā pilikia olakino a pilikanaka paha.
THE4 malama malama ua hoʻolauna ʻia e ka 2005-2007 papahana hānau keiki, nona ka pahuhopu e hoʻonui i ka "kanaka, kokoke, palekana a me ka maikaʻi" i ke kākoʻo o nā wahine hāpai. Nā pahuhopu i kākoʻo ʻia e ka makemake e hoʻoikaika i ka pale ʻana i nā maʻi hoʻomohala psychoaffective i nā keiki, ma o ka hoʻopili ʻana i nā wahine a me nā kāne mai ka hāpai ʻana ma ke kaʻina o ka pale ʻana, hoʻonaʻauao a alakaʻi. Hoʻokumu ʻia i ka makahiki 2006, ʻo kēia hālāwai, ʻaʻole ia he hoʻokolohua lapaʻau, akā he kūkākūkā ʻike ʻole, ʻo ia ka hoʻohui ʻana i nā kipa prenatal koi ʻehiku. Hāʻawi ʻia me ka systematically i ka wā o ka huakaʻi prenatal mua, eia naʻe, he koho wale nō kēia nīnauele.
I ka manawa hea ka hālāwai ninaninau ʻehā mahina?
Hana ʻia ia ma ka hopena o ka trimester mua o ka hāpai ʻana, akā hiki ke hana ma hope inā, no nā kumu o ka hui pilikino, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻolālā ʻia no ka mahina 4. I kekahi manawa mālama ʻia e ke kauka, alakaʻi pinepine ʻia e ka palekeiki mai ka hale hānai, mai ka PMI, a i ʻole e ka pale keiki liʻiliʻi o kā mākou koho. Ma ke ʻano he kākoʻo honua, ʻo kēia nīnauele he ʻāpana o ka hoʻomau maʻalahi o nā hālāwai, pinepine pinepine, ma waena o ka wahine a me ka pale keiki. E pili ana i ka makuahine wale nō e hiki mai ana, a i ʻole e hele pū ʻia me ka makua kāne e hiki mai ana. Ua uhi ʻia ka mālama ʻana o ka mahina 4 e 100% e Social Security.
He aha ka malama o ka malama 4?
ʻO ke kumu o ka hālāwai ninaninau 4 mahina e ʻae iā mākou e kūkākūkā kūʻokoʻa i nā nīnau āpau a mākou e pili ana i ka nānā ʻana i ka hāpai ʻana, ka hoʻomākaukau ʻana no ka hānau ʻana, ka hānau ʻana, ka hānai ʻana, ka hoʻokipa ʻana a me ka mālama keiki hou, ma hope o ka hānau ʻana… Hiki iā ia ke kōkua iā mākou e hoʻokumu i kahi hoʻolālā hānau. . E hāʻawi pū ka loio iā mākou i ka ʻike e pili ana i nā pōmaikaʻi kaiapili e hiki ai iā mākou ke koi (ka uku hānau, ka haʻawina no nā mākua hoʻokahi, nā alana ʻohana, kōkua home, etc.) a i ʻole ma ke kānāwai hana.
E like me kona ke kumu o ka nānā ʻana no nā pilikia noʻonoʻo a i ʻole ka hilinaʻi ʻana, ʻae kēia nīnauele i ke kauka a i ʻole ka palekeiki e papa inoa i ko mākou moʻolelo pilikino a me ka moʻolelo ʻohana, a e ʻike i nā nāwaliwali o ka noʻonoʻo a i ʻole ka pilikanaka. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki i kekahi mau makuahine, ua palupalu i ka wā hāpai, hiki ke loaʻa i ke kaumaha postnatal ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o kā lākou keiki. Hoʻopilikia kēia hanana i ka 10 a 20% o nā wahine. ʻO ka pahuhopu o ka nīnauele 4 mahina ʻo ia hoʻi ka manaʻo i kēia ʻano pilikia.
ʻO ka hope, mai ka manaʻo kūpono, hōʻike kēia kūkākūkā i ka pūnaewele o ka poʻe loea (nā kauka lapaʻau a i ʻole nā loea, nā palekeiki manuahi a i ʻole nā palekeiki, nā limahana hana, nā hui ...), hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia inā pilikia. Hiki iā mākou ke hilinaʻi me ka hilinaʻi i ka loio nāna i hoʻokipa iā mākou: aia ʻo ia e haʻi mai iā mākou a, inā pono, e kōkua iā mākou. ʻOiaʻiʻo, aia ʻo ia i ka pilikino pilikino: ʻo ka mea i haʻi ʻia ʻaʻole e puka mai i waho o kāna keʻena.
No wai i paipai ʻia kēia nīnauele?
ʻO kekahi mau moʻolelo o nā makuahine hāpai, i manaʻo ʻia he ʻoi aku ka nāwaliwali, ua manaʻo ʻia ma ke ʻano he mea nui e kēia ninaninau pale.
- ʻO nā makuahine me kahi moʻolelo obstetrical ʻike maikaʻi ʻole (ka hāpai mua ʻana a i ʻole ka hānau ʻana paʻakikī a ʻeha paha);
- ka poʻe e noho nei me nā pilikia pili pili, i ko lākou pilina; ka poʻe i hōʻeha ʻia i ka hana ʻino home, ʻoi aku ka hoʻomāinoino i ka home; nā wahine e pilikia ana i ke koʻikoʻi a i ʻole ka hopohopo nui e pili ana i ko lākou hāpai ʻana a me ka hānau ʻana…
- ʻO nā wahine i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia a i ʻole i loaʻa i ka pilikia (hana, hale); ka poʻe e pili ana i ka hoʻololi koke ʻana i ko lākou kūlana ʻohana (haehae, make, maʻi, nele i ka hana);
- ʻO ka mea hope loa, ʻo nā wahine hāpai e loaʻa ana i kahi ʻōpū koʻikoʻi, ʻoiai me ka hoʻolaha ʻana i kahi maʻi, kahi kīnā ʻole a i ʻole ke kīnā o ka pēpē. ʻAʻole i pau kēia papa inoa.
ʻO ka manawa e hoʻopaʻa ai
ʻO ke kuleana nui o kēia hālāwai, ʻo ia ke kōkua ʻana i nā makuahine nāwaliwali a me ka pale ʻana i ke kaumaha postpartum. Inā ua hoʻokipa ʻia kēia ana e nā ʻoihana olakino āpau, me he mea lā ʻaʻole i hōʻike ʻia kona pono. ʻO 28,5% wale nō o nā wahine hāpai e pōmaikaʻi no ka manawa mai kēia nīnauele e like me ka hōʻike e loiloi ana i ka hāmeʻa.
Nīnauele 4 mahina: he aha ka manaʻo o nā makuahine?
“No kaʻu keiki mua ma 1, ʻaʻole wau e hoʻomanaʻo i ka loaʻa ʻana o kēia nīnauele. Ua hoʻomaka wau e hele i ka haukapila no ka hahai ʻana i kēlā me kēia mahina. A i ka mahina 2006, ʻaʻohe mea i ʻoi aku ma mua o nā nīnau maʻamau. ʻAʻole paha i hoʻokumu ʻia kēia kūkākūkā. Ma ka lima 'ē aʻe, Ua hiki iaʻu ke pōmaikaʻi mai ka mālama ʻana i ka malama ʻehā no kaʻu hāpai ʻelua i ka makahiki 4. ʻIke wau iaʻu iho, ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu ma ka PMI, a ma laila wau i loaʻa ai ke kuleana e hālāwai me kahi pale keiki. Ua kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i koʻu makaʻu, koʻu luhi mai kaʻu keiki mua. Ua hoʻopau ʻo ia i ka faila i loaʻa e Social Security akā ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe. Ua ukali ʻia ma ka haukapila, ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo ua lawe mai kēia hālāwai iaʻu i kekahi mea. He oiaio no e noi ana i na makuahine a me na halemai e hana maikai i keia ninau. Inā hiki ke kōkua, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. Akā ʻaʻole lawa ka ʻike iā mākou. ”
titcoeurprt oe
“Ke hoʻopau nei au i kaʻu hāpai ʻelua a ʻAʻole au i mālama i ka malama 4. Akā naʻe ma nā hihia ʻelua he a Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi hāpai pilikia. No ka mea mua, ua ukali ʻia au i ka haukapila mai ka mahina ʻehā e ka pale keiki, akā ʻaʻole i loaʻa iaʻu kahi hoihoi i kēia mau kūkākūkā. ʻAʻole koke, i kēia manawa, makemake wau ʻo kaʻu kauka wahine ka mea e hahai mai iaʻu i kēlā me kēia mahina. Akā ʻaʻole ia manaʻo ua loaʻa iaʻu ka nīnauele kaulana. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i ʻike ua puhi wau i ka puhi a hiki i kaʻu haʻi ʻana iā ia ua haʻalele wau! ”
lunalupo
"Noʻu, ʻaʻohe mea i haʻi mai iaʻu e pili ana i kēia nīnauele. He mea hilahila no ka mea Manaʻo wau he mea pono ia. I ka manawa like, ʻike wau he kakahiaka nui kēia o ka mahina ʻehā, hiki ke hana ʻia kēia hālāwai ma hope, ma kahi o ka mahina ʻehiku no ka mea ʻo ia ka manawa e hoʻomaka ai mākou e ʻike i ka mea e hiki mai ana iā mākou. Ma ke ʻano laulā, Minamina wau no ka nīnau ʻole ʻana o nā kauka iā mākou e pili ana i ko mākou olakino noʻonoʻoI kekahi manawa, kaumaha mākou i ka wā hāpai. Ma hope o ka hānau ʻana i nīnau mai ai kahi palekeiki iaʻu me ka hoʻolohe ʻole mai iaʻu: "A ʻo ka morale, ua maikaʻi ʻoe?". A i ʻole, ʻaʻohe mea. “
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* Ka noiʻi ʻana i ka hānau keiki 2016