ʻO ka mea a nā mākua miliona i aʻo ai i kā lākou keiki

Makemake nā mākua a pau i ka maikaʻi no kā lākou keiki. E ho'āʻo nā makuahine a me nā makuakāne e hāʻawi i kā lākou ʻike, hāʻawi i ka ʻōlelo aʻo, i ko lākou manaʻo, e kōkua i kā lākou keiki aloha e hoʻokō i nā mea āpau e hiki ai iā lākou. Akā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo i ke kanaka i kāu ʻike ʻole i ka hana ʻana iā ʻoe iho, a ʻaʻole nui ka poʻe waiwai maoli i waena o mākou. 1200 American millionaires i kaʻana like i kā lākou ʻike no ka kūleʻa - ʻo ka poʻe, e like me kā lākou e ʻōlelo nei, hana lākou iā lākou iho, ʻaʻole i hoʻoili i ka waiwai a lanakila ʻole i ka hailona. Ua hōʻuluʻulu nā mea noiʻi i kā lākou mau mea huna a hōʻuluʻulu i ʻehiku mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka poʻe waiwai e hāʻawi i kā lākou mau keiki.

1. Kūpono ʻoe i ka waiwai

E loaʻa ai kahi waiwai ma ka hoʻomaka ʻana mai kahi "hoʻomaka haʻahaʻa"? Manaʻo nui ka poʻe he hiki ʻole kēia. Ke loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi kula hanohano, ke kula nui, kākoʻo mai kou mau mākua ma hope ou - a laila he mea ʻē aʻe ia, a laila e piʻi kāu ʻoihana i ka puʻu kokoke mai kahi moe. ʻĀ, a i ʻole pono ʻoe e hānau he akamai. Hōʻoiaʻiʻo nā miliona miliona holomua ʻaʻole pono kēia mau mea āpau, ʻoiai ʻaʻole maikaʻi ʻole. No laila, haʻawina ʻekahi: pono ʻoe i ka waiwai. Inā hāʻawi ʻoe i kahi huahana a lawelawe paha i koi ʻia, e waiwai maoli nō ʻoe. ʻOiaʻiʻo, koi kēia i ka hana ʻana i ka hoʻokele waiwai manuahi.

ʻAʻole hauʻoli ke kālā, haʻi ʻia mai iā mākou. ʻLelo lākou i kēlā me kahi paradaiso aloha a i kahi hale. Akā ʻoi aku ka hauʻoli hou inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ke kālā, a ʻaʻole ʻoe e noho i kahi flrsy Khrushchev, akā i kahi hale ʻoluʻolu. ʻO ka hoʻohui nui loa o ka waiwai ke kūʻokoʻa i loaʻa ma ona e ola i ke ola e like me kou makemake. Ke waiwai ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke noho ma nā wahi āpau, hana i kekahi mea, a lilo i mea āu e moemoe ai. ʻO ka mea nui loa, ʻo ka loaʻa kālā e hoʻopau i nā hopohopo kālā a ʻae iā ʻoe e leʻaleʻa i kou nohona i koho ʻia. No ko mākou manaʻo Lūkini, ʻaʻole kēia kahi ʻoiaʻiʻo piha i loko. No ka lōʻihi loa, ua ʻae ʻia ka hilahila ke alualu ʻana i ke kālā.

3. ʻAʻohe mea ʻaiʻē iā ʻoe

A ma ke ʻano nui, ʻaʻohe mea ʻaiʻē i kekahi. Pono ʻoe e hana i kāu wā e hiki mai ana. Hānau ʻia nā kānaka āpau i nā ʻano like ʻole, pololei kēlā. Akā he kuleana like ko kēlā me kēia kanaka. Kūkā nā milionaire: E aʻo i kāu mau keiki i ke kūʻokoʻa a me ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho. Paradoxically, ʻoi aku ke kūʻokoʻa o kā mākou hana a hōʻike ʻaʻole pono mākou i ke kōkua a kekahi, ʻo ka nui o ka poʻe e makemake e kōkua iā mākou. A hoʻokūpaʻa ka poʻe psychologists: ʻo ka poʻe me ka hanohano pilikino i hoʻomohala i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.

4. Loaʻa kālā ma nā pilikia o haʻi

"Makemake ka honua e lilo ʻoe i waiwai no ka mea nui nā pilikia i loko ona," - cites Huffington Post hoʻopaʻa haʻawina… Inā makemake ʻoe e loaʻa kālā, hoʻoholo i kekahi pilikia waena. Inā makemake ʻoe e loaʻa kālā he nui, hoʻonā i kahi pilikia nui. ʻO ka nui o ka pilikia āu e hoʻoponopono ai, ʻoi aku kou waiwai. E hoʻohana i kāu mau tālena kūikawā, nā hiki, a me ka ikaika e ʻike i nā hopena i kahi pilikia, a ke hele nei ʻoe i ka waiwai.

Ma ʻAmelika, ma nā wahi āpau e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hina i nā hōʻailona me nā huaʻōlelo "Think!" A no ke kumu. Ma ke kula, aʻo ʻia nā keiki i ka mea a lākou e manaʻo ai. A ʻo kahi mea kālepa kūleʻa pono e ʻike pehea e noʻonoʻo ai. E loaʻa i kāu poʻe keiki he mau tone o nā haʻawina nui mai nā kumu aʻo loa ʻaʻole paha ʻike i kekahi mea e pili ana i ka pehea e waiwai ai. E aʻo i kāu poʻe keiki e huki i kā lākou mau hopena ponoʻī a hoʻokele i ko lākou ala ponoʻī pehea ka nui o ka poʻe e hōʻino ana i kā lākou makemake, nīnau i ko lākou hiki, a ʻakaʻaka hoʻi i kā lākou prospect.

Manaʻo ka poʻe psychologists he ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi i ka poʻe i loaʻa nā haʻahaʻa e manaʻo ai ʻaʻole lākou e huikau inā ʻaʻole lākou e holomua. Manaʻo lākou he hauʻoli ka poʻe inā noho lākou no ka mea liʻiliʻi. ʻO kēia kekahi kumumanaʻo hoʻonohonoho nui nā mea kūʻai aku. E aʻo i nā keiki e haʻalele i ka makaʻu a ola i ka honua o nā manawa kūpono a me nā manawa kūpono. E noho ka papa waena i ka mediocrity ʻoiai ʻoe e hoʻoikaika i nā hōkū. E hoʻomanaʻo he nui nā kānaka kūleʻa o ka honua i ʻakaʻaka ʻia a hoʻomāinoino ʻia i ko lākou mau lā.

E like me nā hōʻike hoʻomaʻamaʻa, ʻaʻole kūleʻa nā kānaka āpau. ʻO ke ala i ka kaulana, ka waiwai, a me nā mea ʻoluʻolu ʻē aʻe i pānaʻi ʻia me nā hemahema, nā holomua, a me nā hoʻohoka. Malu ola: mai hāʻawi pio. ʻO nā mea āpau i kou ola, hilinaʻi mau iā ʻoe iho a me kou hiki ke kū i nā pilikia i kou ala ola. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke lilo i kāu poʻe kākoʻo, akā mai lilo ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho.