He aha nā makuahine e pono ai e hoʻololi i kā lākou hana ma ke kahua pāʻani i kēia manawa

1.… Hoʻomaha a kamaʻilio pū me kahi ipo wahine

Akā ke kūlana ma ke kahua pāʻani i piha i nā keiki hiki ke loli i kēlā me kēia manawa. A loli. Akā no kekahi kumu ke nānā nui nei kēia mau makuahine i kekahi i kekahi a poina loa lākou i kā lākou keiki. A i ʻole manaʻo lākou hiki iā lākou ke mālama iā lākou iho. ʻO ka hopena, hoʻolei nā mea hoʻolaki liʻiliʻi i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe mai ke kowali, kiola i ke one, akā ʻaʻohe mālama o nā makuahine. A laila ʻo ka makuahine, nona ka keiki i hōʻehaʻeha ʻia, hoʻonā i ka pilikia i kāna ala ponoʻī, a hoʻomaka pinepine kahi hōʻino. Ma lalo o ka huaʻōlelo "ua hōʻeha kuʻu pēpē."

2.… Piʻi ʻeleu lākou i ke kamaʻilio

Maʻaneʻi, maopopo, hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia ka makuahine. Ua kaupalena ʻia kona pōʻai kaiapili. ʻO ia ke kumu e hoʻowalewale nei i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā pepeiao manuahi e hōʻike i ke keiki. ʻAʻole kūpono ia e hāʻawi i kahi rebuff paʻakikī ma aneʻi. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e kamaʻilio liʻiliʻi, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke makaʻala ʻole. Hiki inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e kamaʻilio pū me kekahi, akā ʻano kolohe ʻoe inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e pane i ke aloha. E haʻi i kahi mea i hope, ʻakaʻaka, a hoʻohuli i kou manaʻo i kāu poʻe keiki. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi, mai hoʻohoka iki iā lākou. ʻAʻole paha makemake kekahi e holo ma hope ou ʻoiai ʻoe e holo ma hope o ke keiki. Luhi loa.

3.… Lawe pū i nā holoholona

Mai lawe i nā ʻīlio i ka pūnaewele. Kiko ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole kā kāu ʻīlio waiwai nui i kēia rula. Ua haku ʻia nā lula no ke kumu, akā e hōʻoia i ka palekana o nā keiki. like me Popsugar… Eia nō naʻe, he mau makuahine i mālama ʻole i ka palekana o kā lākou keiki. Ua lawa ia e hoʻomanaʻo ai i ka hihia ma St. Petersburg, i ka wā i kīkē ai kahi makuahine me kahi ʻīlio i ke keiki a haʻi ma ka umauma i lele ke keikikāne i kahi mau mika ʻelua. Hāʻawi ʻia ʻo Māmā i kahi manawa maoli.

4.… Hoʻohuli ʻia nā hoʻohuli a me nā leʻaleʻa no nā hola

Kali ʻoe me ke ahonui no ka ʻōwili ʻana o ka pēpē. Hala ka ʻumi minuke. Umikumālima. Iwakālua. Hoʻomaka ke keiki ponoʻī i ka ʻume ʻana i kou lima a me ka uwē ʻana "a i ka manawa hea kā mākou." ʻAʻole loa. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻo ke keiki a kēia makuahine ka piko o ka honua, ke kikowaena o ka honua, a ʻo nā mea ʻē aʻe āpau loa he kuhi hewa wale nō. Hoʻopau pinepine ia me kahi hōʻino pū kekahi. No ka mea i noi ʻia e hoʻokuʻu i ka piʻo, no ka mea makemake nā keiki ʻē aʻe e holo, hana maʻamau kēlā mau makuahine me kahi nānā kau ʻole iā ʻoe.

5.… paʻa i ke kelepona

ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki i kekahi makua ke nānā i kā lākou kelepona a heluhelu paha i kahi puke ma ka pūnaewele. Pono nā kānaka āpau i nā manawa hoʻomaha, keu hoʻi i ka wā e pili ana i nā keiki ʻōpio. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo hiki iā ʻoe ke hemo loa mai ka honua waho. ʻAe, he kuleana kou e hoʻopiʻi i kēlā makua makua ʻole inā pani koke kāna keiki i kāu kinipōpō. ʻOiaʻiʻo, e pau paha kēia i kahi hōʻino. ʻO nā hoʻopiʻi i nānā ʻole ai lākou i kā lākou keiki ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia e kēlā mau wahine.