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ʻO ke kaʻaahi ma ka puke moe a Miller
Ua manaʻo ka psychoanalyst i ka hapa nui o nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i nā kaʻaahi he harbingers o ka pilikia, a he mau kiʻi wale nō, i kona manaʻo, e lawe mai i kahi mea maikaʻi.
ʻO ka mea e ʻike i kahi kaʻa kaʻa ma ka moeʻuhane e hoʻomaka e ʻike i nā pilikia like ʻole a me nā pilikia i ka pilina ʻohana. Inā pani ʻia ke kaʻa, a laila pono ʻoe e hoʻomākaukau no ke kipi a me ke kumakaia, a ma hope o ke ʻano o nā hemahema.
ʻO ka huakaʻi e hiki mai ana e hōʻino iā ʻoe inā e kau ʻoe ma ke kaʻaahi ma ka moeʻuhane (akā ʻo ka haʻalele ʻana he laki maikaʻi).
ʻO kahi ulia kaʻaahi e ʻōlelo nei i ka hāʻule ʻana o kou manaʻolana.
ʻO ke kaʻaahi wikiwiki e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻokō koke ʻana o nā makemake. Akā ma ke ala i ka maikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi, hiki i kāu egoism ponoʻī, pono e haʻalele, hiki ke kū i luna. E hōʻailona ʻia kēia e ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i nā kaʻa moe.
ʻO kahi wehewehe nui: inā moeʻuhane kahi kaikamahine e pili ana iā lākou, a laila pono ʻoe e hoʻololi i kāu ʻano. A i ʻole, e hoʻopilikia ka frivolity i kāu mau hana.
E aʻo i ka puke moe a Vanga
Ke kaumaha i loko o ka puʻuwai, a me ke kaumaha a me ka ʻiʻini i loko o ka ʻuhane, hiki iā ʻoe ke moeʻuhane i kahi kaʻaahi neʻe. Hōʻike ka lōʻihi i ka lōʻihi o kou kaumaha. Inā ma ka moeʻuhane i komo wale ʻoe i ke kaʻa, a laila e kali ana nā ʻano hoʻololi like ʻole iā ʻoe, a inā ʻoe ma ke ala, a laila pono ʻoe e hele ma ke alanui. ʻO ka nui o nā ukana āu e ʻike ai, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka pilikia e loaʻa iā ʻoe i ka wā e hiki mai ana. E pili pū lākou me nā mea aloha.
Ua hele mākou ma ke ala kaʻa i loko o ka moeʻuhane - manaʻo i nā kūlana hakakā ma ke kaiapuni koke, akā mai hopohopo - ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻopilikia iā ʻoe ma kekahi ʻano. Inā ʻaʻohe poʻomanaʻo o kēia kiʻi, a laila hōʻike kēia i nā hana maikaʻi ʻole ma ka hana i kū mai ma muli o kahi kūlana i ʻike ʻole ʻia. Inā ma kēia ala e hoʻi ai ʻoe i ka home, a laila he hōʻailona maikaʻi kēia - loaʻa iā ʻoe nā manawa āpau e neʻe ai i kahi kūlana āu i moeʻuhane lōʻihi ai.
E aʻo i ka puke moe a Hasse
ʻO ke kaʻaahi ponoʻī e moeʻuhane ana i kahi hālāwai hauʻoli, akā inā ʻoe e holo iā ia, e hāʻule ʻoe i ka melancholy.
He ʻokoʻa ka wehewehe ʻana o nā ʻano kaʻaahi like ʻole: ʻōlelo ka mea holo kaʻa i nā loli nui e hiki mai ana; wikiwiki - e pili ana i ka hoʻokō wikiwiki o kāu mau manaʻo; mea kūʻai - e pili ana i ke kālepa pono. Akā ʻo kēia mau waiwai āpau uXNUMXbuXNUMXbare i hele ʻia e kahi kaʻaahi i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia - i kēia hihia, e hoʻopilikia ʻia nā hemahema iā ʻoe.
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e moeʻuhane i ke kaʻaahi holoʻokoʻa, akā no kahi kaʻa kikoʻī, e lawe i kēia ma ke ʻano he ʻōlelo aʻo - ke kau nei ka hoʻoweliweli ma luna ou.
ʻO kahi hōʻailona maikaʻi ka puʻupuʻu o kahi locomotive i ka moeʻuhane. ʻO ia ke kumu e hāʻawi ka hopena iā ʻoe i nā hōʻailona e pili ana i nā hanana e hiki mai ana.
E aʻo i ka puke moe a Freud
He wahi paʻa ke kaʻa, no laila ua hoʻopili ʻo Freud me nā ʻōpū wahine. ʻO kahi kaʻa me nā puka ākea ākea e ʻōlelo ʻaʻole e hoʻomāʻona kāu hoa pili i kēia manawa.
ʻO ka makaʻu i ka pili pili e hōʻike ana i kahi moeʻuhane e hiki ʻole ai iā ʻoe ke lawe i ke kaʻaahi. ʻOi aku ka paʻakikī o ka loaʻa ʻana o kāu kaʻa i ka moeʻuhane, ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi o ka ʻimi ʻana i ka hoa kūpono i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
ʻO nā hoʻāʻo makehewa e haʻalele i ke kaʻa e hōʻike ana i kāu mau haʻahaʻa i ka moe kolohe. ʻO ka makemake i ka nui o nā pilina pili me nā poʻe like ʻole e hāʻawi i kahi moeʻuhane e helu ai ʻoe i nā kaʻa i kahi kaʻaahi e hele ana. ʻO kahi wehewehe like he moeʻuhane āu e hāʻule hewa ai i loko o ke kaʻa o kekahi. Ua holo mākou ma ko mākou wahi - ʻo ia hoʻi, he haʻahaʻa ʻole ʻoe i ka moekolohe a, ma ke ʻano, ʻaʻole pili i ke ola.
ʻO kahi kaʻa maʻemaʻe maikaʻi e hoʻohiki i kahi aloha hou (ʻoiai ua kūpono ka mea kahiko iā ʻoe); lepo, ʻeleʻele, kū hoʻokahi - hōʻike i nā maʻi o ka ʻōnaehana hānau, a ma ke ʻano o ke kaʻaahi e hōʻike ana i kou hoʻopailua no ka hapa ʻelua ma muli o ka haumia. ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻoholo ʻia ka pilikia no ka mea ʻaʻohe ou wiwo ʻole e kūkākūkā me kāu hoa.
Ke noho nei i loko o kāu kaʻa - ʻaʻole ʻoe i hoʻohālikelike i ka moekolohe a i kekahi ʻano ʻaʻole pili i ke ola.
E hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka puke moe a Loff
Hāʻawi ka psychotherapist i kahi kaulahao logical hoihoi. Ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia me nā ʻano kaʻa kaʻa ʻē aʻe, neʻe nā kaʻaahi i kahi māmā māmā. I ka wā o ka huakaʻi, hiki i nā hoa huakaʻi ke ʻike i kekahi i kekahi, i kekahi manawa e hoʻokokoke, no laila e hoʻohui pinepine ka poʻe kaʻa i kahi pā aloha i ka huakaʻi. No laila, hiki i nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i nā kaʻaahi ke hōʻike i ka makemake o ka mea moeʻuhane e loaʻa kahi pilina.
Ua kapa ʻo Loff i ke kahua kaʻaahi he hōʻailona o ke koho ʻana i ke ala ola, ʻoiai he nui nā laina e hui ana ma laila.
E aʻo i ka puke moe a Tsvetkov
He mea nui nā hana i hana ʻia ma ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi kaʻaahi. Ua komo ʻoe i loko - ʻo ia hoʻi ke kali nei nā mea hou iā ʻoe; kaʻa - kali no kahi kono hoʻopono; hele a puni nā kaʻa - e hoʻomaka ʻoe e helu i nā mahina a i ʻole mau makahiki a hiki i kekahi hanana nui. ʻO ka manaʻolana ʻole, passivity, kānalua a me ka nalowale o ka manaolana e wānana ʻia e ka moeʻuhane e lohi ai ʻoe i kāu lele a i ʻole e haʻalele i ke kaʻaahi no kekahi kumu ʻē aʻe.
ʻO ke kaʻaahi ma ka puke moeʻuhane Esoteric
ʻO kahi kaʻaahi i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka "locomotive" e huki i kou ola i mua. Ma hope o kēlā moeʻuhane, hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kou wā e hiki mai ana, e pili ana i kekahi mau mea honua e makemake ai ʻoe.
Inā ʻo ʻoe ka mea hoʻokele, a laila ʻaʻole ʻoe kānalua i kou hiki a aia nā mea āpau i kou lima. ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona weliweli o kahi locomotive mokumahu e hōʻike ana ua makaʻu ʻoe i ka hoʻoholo ʻana a ke kali nei i ka hopena e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi manawa. Akā hiki i ka hopena like ke hana iā ʻoe i kahi hahau weliweli, no laila pono ʻoe i kahi pā kaua o ka ʻuhane. E aʻo ʻia kēia e ka moeʻuhane e pā ai ʻoe e kahi kaʻaahi.
ʻO ka ʻōlelo a ke kanaka hoʻonaʻauao
ʻO Uliana Burakova, ka mea kālaiʻike:
Hōʻike pinepine ke kaʻaahi moeʻuhane i ke ala o ke ola a me kahi o kahi kanaka ma luna. No ka loaʻaʻana o nā hōʻailona ma kahi e neʻe aiʻoe, e hoʻomanaʻo pono i ka manaʻo o ka moeʻuhane.
Pehea ke ano o ke kaaahi? He aha ke kala? He mea hou a kahiko paha? Ua kū a hoʻokele paha ʻo ia? Ua kani ʻo ia?
He aha kou wahi i noho ai i loko o kēia moeʻuhane - ua nānā ʻoe i ke kaʻaahi ma ka ʻaoʻao a i ʻole ʻoe i loko? He aha kāu i hana ai? ʻO wai a he aha ka mea kokoke iā ʻoe? Ua ʻoluʻolu paha ʻoe i ia mau kūlana a i ʻole makemake ʻoe e hoʻololi i kekahi mea? He aha ka pono?
He mea koʻikoʻi nō hoʻi ke ʻano āu e hoʻopili ai i kēia kiʻi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, me ka mea e pili ana. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kahi pilina hōʻailona me nā hanana e hana nei i kou ola maoli, he aha ka mea e pili ana i kēia manawa?