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6 na mele lapuwale akā kaulana e pili ana i ka lāʻau ʻona
ʻO ka hāpai ʻana he kumuwaiwai momona loa ia no nā mea i haku ʻia, nā hoʻomaloka a me nā hōʻailona lapuwale.
Hoʻoikaika nā mea āpau e hoʻopā i kou ʻōpū, e nīnau i kahi nīnau pili e like me "Ua hauʻoli kāu kāne? Hānau paha lākou me ʻoe? ", E hāʻawi i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ʻole a hōʻoia paha iā ʻoe iho. ʻOiai ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e hāʻawi i ka noho ma ke kaʻa ʻōhua. Ma ka laulā, ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka hāpai ʻana, pono ʻoe e hoʻolohe i nā ʻōlelo lapuwale he nui. ʻO kahi laʻana, e pili ana i ka togosisosis.
1. “E mālama ʻia ia i ka pule 12”
ʻĀ, ʻae, e hoʻohuli wau i ka lālani, a e ala koke ka toxosis, uē a haʻalele. E like me kahi kaomi. ʻ saylelo nā gynecologists hiki i ka piko o nā maʻi kakahiaka ke kū i ka hebedoma he ʻumi o ka hāpai ʻana. Loaʻa kēia i ka ikaika o ka hana o ka hCG hormone. I kēia manawa, ʻo ia nō hoʻi ma ka palena kiʻekiʻe, a ʻaʻole makemake nui kou kino iā ia.
ʻOkoʻa nā kino o kēlā me kēia, no laila ʻaʻohe mea ʻona i kekahi, pau maoli kekahi i ka pule 12, loaʻa ka hoʻomaha ʻana o kekahi mai kausea wale nō i ka manawa o ka trimester ʻelua, a make kekahi e ʻeha i nā mahina 9 a pau.
2. Akā e loaʻa ka lauoho maikaʻi o ke keiki
ʻO kēia kā mākou punahele punahele - inā he puʻuwai puʻuwai ka makuahine i ka wā hāpai, a laila e hānau ʻia ke keiki me ka lauoho mānoanoa. 'Lelo lākou ua pilau ka lauoho i ka'ōpū mai loko mai, no laila ke maʻi nei a ʻoluʻolu ʻole hoʻi. Kani, ʻike ʻoe, naʻaupō loa. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, pili ka ikaika o ka toxicosis a me ka puʻuwai puʻuwai me ka hana ʻana o ka hormone estrogen. Inā he nui ia, ʻoi aku ka ikaika o ka maʻi. A hānau maoli ke keiki huluhulu ʻo ia kēia hormonone e ulu ai ka lauoho.
3. "Hele nā kānaka āpau i kēia"
Akā ʻaʻole. 30 pakeneka o nā wahine hāpai i pakele i kēia ʻino. ʻOiaʻiʻo, e kamaʻāina kekahi me nā leʻaleʻa āpau o ka lāʻau make i ka wā e kali ana lākou i kahi keiki ʻelua. Akā ʻo ka hāpai mua he cloudless wale nō.
No laila ʻo ka hapanui o mākou e hele i loko o kēia ʻano ʻoluʻolu ʻole, ʻaʻole naʻe nā mea āpau. A, ʻoiai, ʻaʻole kēia he kumu e hōʻole ai i ke aloha o ka wahine. A i ʻole i ka mālama olakino - i ka 3 pākēneka o nā hihia, koʻikoʻi loa ka lāʻau ʻona e koi ai i ka hoʻopili ʻana o nā kauka.
4. “Ma ke kakahiaka wale nō”
Ae' oia. Hiki ke luaʻi a puni ka uaki. E noʻonoʻo: loaʻa wale ʻoe i ka maʻi kai no ka mea hele wāwae ʻoe. Maʻi a maʻi. Hōʻike nā kānaka ʻepekema he kumuwaiwai evolutionary ka mea ʻona: ʻo kēia ke ʻano e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻole ai ka makuahine i ka mea ʻai ʻole a hoʻopōʻino paha i ka fetus i ka manawa ke hana ʻia nā mea ola. No laila, maʻi ʻo ia i nā manawa āpau (ʻē, ʻoiaʻiʻo, i ka lā holoʻokoʻa!).
5. "ʻAʻohe mea hiki ke hana"
Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana. Aia kekahi ala e kū ai i ka toxicosis, akā pono ʻoe e hoʻāʻo iā lākou āpau e ʻike i kāu ponoʻī. Kōkua ia i nā mea he nui e ʻai i ka mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka hiamoe ʻana i ke kakahiaka. ʻO kahi laʻana, kahi mea hoʻomaloʻo a mea pahū paha i kuke i ke ahiahi. Mālama ʻia nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e nā ʻai hakina i nā ʻāpana liʻiliʻi a puni ka lā. A ʻo nā mea ʻono hoʻi, nau lākou i ka pā lole, a kapa iā lākou he makana mai ka lani mai. A ʻo ke kūpeʻe a me nā kūpeʻe lima maʻi e kōkua ai i kekahi.
6. "E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ke keiki, maikaʻi ʻole kona manaʻo i kēia manawa"
ʻAʻole, maikaʻi ʻo ia. Kūleʻa ʻo ia me kahi hana koʻikoʻi - hana ʻo ia i nā mea kūloko, ulu a ulu. A i ke ʻano maoli o ka huaʻōlelo, e omo ana i nā wai a pau mai ka makuahine. No laila, hū wale kahi wahine hāpai. ʻO kēia ka mahele a ko mākou makuahine. Eia naʻe, pono ia. Pono ʻoe e hele i loko o kēia wā ʻoluʻolu ʻole.