Ua hoʻomaka ʻiʻo ka hānau keiki, ʻo ia ka manawa e hele ai. ʻIke ʻoe ʻo wai ka mea e hele pū me ʻoe (ʻo ka makuakāne e hiki mai ana, he hoaaloha, kou makuahine…) a ʻo wai e hiki koke ke mālama i kāu mau keiki, inā loaʻa iā ʻoe. Hoʻomaopopo ʻia nā helu kelepona a pau o ka poʻe e kiʻi ʻia ma kahi kokoke i ka hāmeʻa, hoʻopiʻi ʻia nā kelepona.
hoʻonānea
E hoʻohana i kāu mau manawa hope loa ma ka home e hoʻomaha e like me ka hiki. Inā ʻaʻole i haki ka ʻeke wai, e lawe, no ka laʻana, i kahi ʻauʻau wela maikaʻi! E hōʻoluʻolu ia i kou mau ʻokiʻoki a hoʻomaha iā ʻoe. A laila e hoʻolohe i nā mele mālie, e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i nā hana hanu āu i aʻo ai, e nānā i kahi DVD pākahi me ka makuakāne i ka wā e hiki mai ana (ʻae, ke hoʻi mai ʻoe, ʻekolu o ʻoukou!) … ʻO ka pahuhopu: e hōʻea mālie. i loko o ka hale hānai. Mai hoʻopaneʻe lōʻihi. He hakahaka iki? ʻOiai inā makemake ʻoe i ka ikaika i nā hola e hiki mai ana, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻoholo ʻana i kahi kī a i ʻole kahi kī lāʻau ʻono. I kekahi manawa ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hele ʻana me ka ʻōpū ʻole no ka mea hiki i ka epidural ke hoʻoulu i ka nausea a me ka luaʻi. E emi ana ka hilahila me ka ʻōpū ʻole i ka wā e hānau ai.
E nānā i ka ʻeke
Ma mua o ka haʻalele ʻana i ka hale hānai, e lawe i ka manawa e nānā wikiwiki i kāu pahu pahu, i poina ole ai kekahi mea. Hiki iā Pāpā ke lawe mai iā ʻoe i kekahi mau mea i kou wā e noho ai, akā e hōʻoia ʻoe e lawe koke mai i nā mea āu e pono ai: kahi sprayer, nā lole moe mua o Baby, kahi lole ʻoluʻolu no ʻoe, nā napkin maʻemaʻe, etc. Mai poina i kāu mooolelo ukali hapai me nā hoʻokolohua a pau āu i loaʻa ai.
Ma ke ala i ka makuahine!
ʻOiaʻiʻo, makemake ka makua kāne i ka wā e hiki mai ana e ʻike i ke ala home / maternity ma ka puʻuwai. Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā mea ʻē aʻe e hana ai ma mua o ka pāʻani ʻana i ka co-pilot! E noʻonoʻo hoʻi iā ia e hoʻopiha i ka ʻaila ma kahi kokoke i ka hānau ʻana, ʻaʻole kēia ka manawa e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ke kī o ka haki ʻana… A i ʻole, pono nā mea āpau. Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa kekahi e lawe iā ʻoe i ka hale hānai, hiki iā ʻoe ke pōmaikaʻi mai kahi VSL (kaʻa olakino māmā) or kaʻa kaʻa i ʻaelike me ka ʻinikua olakino. ʻO kēia huakaʻi lapaʻau, i kuhikuhi ʻia e kāu kauka, e uku piha ʻia. Inā koho ʻoe e kelepona iā ʻoe iho i kahi kaʻa i ka lā nui, ʻaʻole hiki ke kiʻi ʻia. Eia naʻe, e ʻike ʻoe, hōʻole pinepine nā mea hoʻokele e lawe i kahi wahine e hānau ana ma kā lākou kaʻa ... mai hele i ka hale hānai ma ke kaʻa wale nō. E kelepona wale aku i ke Keʻena Kinai Ahi a i ʻole ka Samu inā loaʻa ka pilikia nui, inā ʻoe i manaʻo i ka makemake e pana, no ka laʻana. Aia ma ka hale hānai, ua pau nā mea a pau… ʻo kāu hana wale nō ke kali iā Baby!